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I’m actually getting freaked out lately. Waking up in cold sweats because I’m beginning to see what’s possible. Sounds dramatic, I know. But it’s true. The cracks in the matrix are shining through, things are falling apart at the seams.

Now when I look at girls I see them plain as day – as needy and horny as the chodiest of guys. Just better at hiding it. But they can’t hide it from me.

These days I get better results when I just stand there than when I actually do anything. That should give you an idea of where this article is going. I am not super tall, jacked or good looking. I don’t have crazy good game. I’m just starting to see how things work. And I do get results. Because I like to be helpful, here’s a shot at communicating it.

Also, to give appropriate credit, many of these ideas are derivative of Alexander’s work, who I look forward to working with when he comes to North America next year.

The easiest starting point to picking up a girl is to envision yourself as a hot, single girl. You’re completely all over the place. Overwhelmed by different stimulus. You have your period. Creepy guys breathing down your neck, acting weird around you. You feel the need to front as cold or bitchy because if you acted too nice people would take it the wrong way. This adds even more stress because you don’t want to come off bitchy. People trying to use you. Virtually no one is totally honest with you. Social clock is ticking, expectations, why don’t you have a boyfriend. Wait, why can’t you even get a guy to fuck you properly? Why do they keep trying to fuck you in the ass, do they even take me seriously? Your emotions are all over the place. But you can’t come across emotional, that’s not acceptable for the 21st century woman who must be composed and intellectually impressive. Et cetera. Et fucking cetera. God I’m getting stressed just thinking about it.

She’s like you. All she wants to do is to relax and feel good. But she can’t. There’s probably no one in her life who’s strong or reliable or consistent enough to trust, so she can really let her guard down around them. No one! When she’s by herself, she’s a wreck. When she’s around others she’s just trying to hold it together. Obviously this is a generalization, but for a single, young, attractive girl, it’s generally true.

So, some dude rolls up to you. He’s totally unfamiliar. You’re kind of stressed and just want him to go away at first. But he persists. A giggle slips out. You can’t help but feel good. Now he’s taking you to the bar for a drink. No harm in that. You should be able to get rid of him after that. But actually he’s kind of funny and doesn’t seem to want much but the enjoyment of your company. So you go for a walk around the bar with him. He pulls you in playfully, firmly, and all of a sudden your pussy is wet. What the fuck. But then he starts chatting to someone else. You want his attention back. You felt better with him around. You don’t want to go back to Stressed-Out-Single-Girl-Land. So you kind of hover around him quietly, hoping like you don’t seem needy, hoping he’ll keep talking to you. He does. He takes your number and gives you a peck on the lips and winks at you, then glides off to harass his next unsuspecting victim.

You go home and think, he seemed too good to be true. Must have been liquid courage. Oh, Danny is calling me. He’s not so bad. We already went on a couple dates, it was going okay. You’re skeptical. You go and play Wii for seven hours and forget about the guy from the bar. But the next day he leaves you a funny voicemail and tells you to throw something casual on because he’s taking you out for a non-date date. You feel kind of good but kind of skeptical again but you read in your horoscope that you should be more spontaneous, so you shave your pubes and throw on a mini-dress.

Now, back to you as the dude. This is what an average pick up looks for me. Went swimmingly at first. The girl is skeptical but then loves me by the end of bar time. I’m not predisposed to one night stands ¾ of the

time, so I usually take them on a casual date before sex (personal preference… I’ll go for the one night stand if the sexual vibe is super strong there and then but that’s about it, I’m in no rush). But then by the time I take her out on the date, she’s had all the aforementioned stimulus and skepticism build back up into her system, so she’s guarded again. On the surface, it looks like it’s “going terrible.” But from experience, I know that this is when it’s going the best, and is going to be completely easy from here on out.

The key now is to simply be consistent in being relaxed, and keep it going until the girl “flowers” as I like to call it – literally opening up like a beautiful, feminine flower. As long as you’re relaxed, you’ll pass her tests without even noticing it. Over time, she has no choice but to become aroused by you, and when she flowers, this is the point when she is ENTHUSIASTIC and RECEPTIVE to having sex with you – it’s now just a matter of being alone and leading it there physically. The way to tell that she’s flowered is, you will feel very relaxed and grounded, and she will be hyper-attentive and reactive to everything you say and do. You’ll notice her

micromanaging her behavior, her words, giggling at all your jokes, staring at you with anime eyes, etc. It’s at that point where mentally and emotionally, she WANTS to have sex with you, so it’s simply a matter of physically leading her to it (i.e. making out, taking her clothes off, fucking her, for any of you virgins). So essentially, the premise is this – be relaxed, and from that vibe, keep it going no matter what until she flowers, and then lead her easily until sex. This is a closed loop in terms of game, it’s essentially foolproof because it’s an emotionally-based dynamic. This is where “there’s no reason why I’m not enough” comes into play – no matter if you are socially awkward at first, say something a bit stupid, stumble over your feet or your words, it doesn’t matter as long as you have that relaxed vibe, she will come to a point of flowering either way. Then the real game is played in logistics – it can be challenging to surmount obstacles, like friends, loud music, getting her home, etc. This is why this kind of mindset can be applied in the club to success, but is super consistent on day 2s / dates. As long as you keep it going until you can clearly see she’s flowered, she’s ready for sex, and all you gotta do is throw down.

An easy way to mentally reference this for yourself is by remembering the (extremely shit) graph I have drawn below. It gets the point across:

(Girl at start of hang out, closed off) __ __ __ __ __ __ YOU (relaxed) --- -- __ __ __ __ (Flowering/sex) You're the same at the start as at the end in terms of the focus (having fun, killing time) and the way you feel (relaxed). But at the start she's standoffish and skeptical, at the end she's hanging off you.

It takes all the stress off you from now on because you know that flowering point is INEVITABLE if given enough time with you.

Added bonuses include that the relaxed vibe is socially and sexually versatile (it’s easy to chat with anyone when you’re relaxed, and it’s easy to get turned on when you’re relaxed), and you don’t really have to stress or think about game much anymore – you can experiment but it comes from that relaxed, solid, consistent baseline that is actually based on a natural man-woman dynamic. You can make it happen anytime, anywhere

without worrying about warming up or the dynamics of the environment, because your sole focus is simply keeping it going and you know if it “didn’t go well” it was simply a function of severe lack of chemistry and / or not being able to keep it going long enough for her to flower. Another bonus is that when girls sense you have this vibe, THEY will go out of their way to “keep it going” with you, meaning that they’re gaming themselves, doing the heavy lifting for you, and basically seducing themselves onto your dick.

This dynamic continually reinforces itself throughout your relationships, so that you can choose to build and lead the relationship wherever you choose after having sex with the girl, with minimal effort, since she’s compliant to your leadership physically and emotionally once she’s flowered.

Anyway, I don’t expect everyone to get this, since it appears too simple to be true – but if you’re at an intermediate / bridging on advanced level, this is something that can make you hellishly consistent with minimal effort, and thus make you more “advanced.”

And finally, last but certainly NOT least, the key to maintaining this vibe is to only identify with what you are as a man. If you sleep with 3 dimes in a week, you only identify with what you are as a man. If you go out all week and don’t get so much as a number? Whatever, you only identify with what you are as a man. Thus giving you the baseline good relaxed feeling that will allow you to run this process with the girls you meet with great consistency.

Best of luck friends – questions are welcome. This post was more on the theoretical side, but if anyone wants feedback on particular situations or just general inquiries, I’m happy to elaborate.