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AUTORIZACIÓN Y SUPERVISIÓN DE LOS ADMINISTRADORES
Remember self-sabotage?
Remember shooting yourself in the foot just before closing a big deal? Remember feeling like nothing would ever work out for you?
Well, you can kiss those self-destructive habits goodbye—forever!
In this chapter, I will show you one of the most empowering aspects of the Cybernetic
Transposition Super Achievement Three-Step process — How to permanently resolve
unconscious habit patterns (what I call blockers) into ones that support you in achieving what you want.
When your blockers are resolved, you are free to attain your heart’s desires!
A blocker is any unconscious habit pattern that tries to stop you from achieving your objective.
A blocker is anything in you that keeps you from experiencing joy right now.
Blockers are usually so familiar that we don't have the slightest idea that they're doing
what they're doing. But they’re there!
Do you know what blockers you have in you right now? Some typical blockers include:
• I'm no good at this sort of thing. • This doesn't make sense.
• It's crazy to try to do it. • It's impossible.
• I'm tired.
• They're trying to put something over on me. • There's no solution.
• I forgot what I was supposed to do. • I'll do it as soon as I have time.
• There's only so much that one person can do. • I could do it easily if I only had the proper training. • It’s impossible, I just can’t do it.
See what I mean?
By now, your blockers are probably so familiar that you take them seriously. They seem real to you. That increases their blocking power. This is a vicious circle that can be broken only by awareness.
For example:
• The list above consists of beliefs – labels that we put on intuitive feelings which, in turn, are just changes in the body, what I call your body feelings. Each of these changes reflects an attempt by a part of your unconscious to get your conscious attention.
• These unconscious parts want only the best for you but most of them arose early in your life and are still seeing things from a child's perspective. They need your conscious help in updating themselves. In other words, most of us still let our six-year old self drive our lives!
• These parts of you - which I call sub-personalities - can rather easily change their tactics so they're helping you in ways that are consistent with what you currently want in your life. But they don't know how.
Now for the good news:
This chapter presents two very powerful techniques for permanently changing the way your blocker sub-personalities work.
These two approaches are: 1. Base Reframing.
make it possible to easily follow those body feelings back to or near the
blocker’s point of formation. This is usually a very threatening situation in
your childhood.
• If you create a true 10 new imaginary experience, a Target, that shows how you would now like that situation to have taken place and anchor it in your
Inner Anchor Point with appropriate instructions, you can change things.
• Where the blocker sub-personality would have previously given you the
blocker response, it will now give you the new version.
This is the essence of the Base Reframing process, although the actual process is a good deal more elegant and more powerful than this description would imply. 2. Sub-Personality Negotiation.
• By personifying the blocker as a sub-personality, you can initiate a discussion with the sub-personality during which you find out what it's trying to do and whether that matches your conscious desires.
If not, you can assist the sub-personality to rediscover it's most basic reason for what's it's doing.
• When it finds its basic purpose, the sub-personality will be ready and willing to take on any new job you want to give it that is consistent with that purpose. Basic purposes usually involve some version of:
• experiencing rather than thinking • creating inner peace, joy, loving • a sense of worthiness
• a sense of being connected with the oneness of all things • being true to the person you really are.
• Often a sub-personality will need the support of other sub-personalities in doing its new job. Thus, the process soon moves to an inner-team building mode that creates a support team to help you get what you're after.
This is a powerful “new” resource, dedicated to helping you manifest what you desire.
Also presented is a variation on Sub-Personality Negotiation that I call the Super
Achievement Clearing Process. This process quickly resolves a blocker feeling into a
series of concrete action alternatives that you can implement to resolve whatever triggered the blocker feelings.
The above three tools are incredibly powerful. Let’s explore them in depth.
A True Story
The following true story will help illustrate what you are about to learn:
Andria was a newspaper reporter who’d been assigned to write an article on my work. When we met, she asked for a brief explanation of what I did and I briefly explained the Three-Step process, including a reference to the Base Reframing process.
That seemed to get her interested and she asked me for a demonstration. So I asked her if she had any disturbing body feelings. She said definitely yes, that she got two or three intense migraine headaches each week, the classic kind with light flashes. She said they were totally debilitating and that all she could do was to take medication and go to bed for four to six hours.
I had her frame the body feelings, the feelings associated with the
migraine headaches, surround them with an imaginary ball of white light and place them in her Inner Anchor Point. I then had her instruct her unconscious to take her to an earlier time in her life when she’d gotten the same feelings.
She immediately got a memory and recorded it on paper. I had her repeat this process three times and she got three more, much earlier, memories. Finally, I had her ask her unconscious to take her back to the very earliest time when these feelings had been present that were for her highest good to recall just then.
The earliest memory was when she was about 18 months old and she was with her twin brother. In the memory, she was very worried about his safety and felt that he might very well die if she didn’t take care of him, at all costs.
Since the next earliest memory and the other later memories were of her sacrificing her own well being to take care of him, the pattern was clear. For example, the next earliest memory was of her following her five year old brother into a cave filled with insects and snakes. She was petrified and her own survival instincts were shrieking at her to hold back but her need to protect her brother was greater. So she went into the cave. Not surprisingly, in the memory she also got a migraine headache which was due to the conflict between her drive for survival and her drive to protect her brother, her twin – who her unconscious took as a part of herself.
In her imagination, Andria reframed each memory, starting with the very earliest one, into one that was a 10 in desirability from her mature perspective. For example, the very earliest memory became one in which she felt great love for her brother and decided that she could both love him and allow him the freedom to grow in his own way while she took care of herself.
In each case, she instructed her unconscious to substitute the 10 reframe for the earlier memory in ways that were for the highest good of herself and all others involved. She also did a process of merging all of the 10 reframes into one that embodied the essence of all of them and instructed her unconscious to use that as an instruction of how to create, respond, and handle similar situations in the future.
Andria called me a week later. She’d had no more headaches and felt much more positive about life.
Oh, by the way, she wrote a three-page very positive spread about my trainings.