CAMBIO DE DIRECCIÓN, SENTIDO Y MARCHA ATRÁS

According to the Kabbalah, the purpose of coupling is to create a powerful, energetic connection between two people, male and female, that will help each one of them perform his spiritual work and so attain a connection with the higher worlds above. Therefore, the relationship must be based on spirituality.

In order to have a relationship, the man and woman need to strive to find their complementary side, so that together they can perform the work that is designated for them at the spiritual level and accomplish the rectification (tikkun) of their souls while they are still alive.

Sometimes, it seems to us that married couples in our vicinity, experience difficult and complicated marital relations and that their decision to get married was a mistake. If we remember that there is nothing in the universe that is by chance and there is a guiding hand that coordinates everything, we will be able to understand that even a problematic marriage plays a very important role in the spiritual rectification of the couple: Precisely, by way of the difficulties and challenges which their relationship brings them, the spiritual work will be performed in full.

Therefore, according to the Kabbalah, the relationship will not be built necessarily out of finding "the twin soul" but from the magnetic attraction of a complementary soul to the life of the person, that is necessary to perform the spiritual work imposed on him.

At the level of the material world, we are not clearly aware of the essence of the soul, the goal of the present existence and the identity of the complementary soul that will help it in its rectification (tikkun). Thus, practical Kabbalah recommends different ways to connect us to the spiritual level, at which we are able to check whether our partners can indeed perform the joint spiritual work.

In addition, practical Kabbalah comes to the aid of people who have difficulty, for various reasons, in finding their designated partner, or those who have difficulty in establishing a loving relationship that will result in marriage.

Mutual Compatibility – This step is one of the most important in the whole relationship. Firstly, you need to check whether there is compatibility between the man and the woman interested in binding their fates together forever. Many ways to check the compatibility of a couple entail an analysis of the letters of the couple’s names and the use of numerology.

It is important to note that many people do not succeed in entering into a good relationship that can lead them to the wedding canopy (Chuppah) and to the marriage ceremony because of a name that might be problematic. Names that cause failure in relationships are names which include in them a double letter and especially a double Holy Letter. Holy Letters are: the Hebrew letters Yod, Vav, Hey and it is highly recommended that there will be at least one Holy Letter in the name. A name like Shoshana (in Hebrew), for example, contains the double letter, Shin. A name like Nilli (in Hebrew) contains a double Holy Letter. Generally speaking, these people will not be really happy in their relationship and they will give in and forgive their partner too quickly in order to maintain the framework of the relationship.

How to check if a Couple is Compatible?

Firstly, you need to check the lucky numbers of the couple:

The lucky number is calculated according to the date of birth. For example: You need to add up all the numbers of the date of birth, then add the figures of the result one more time until you get a single

This is the lucky number of someone with the birth date 5.3.1977 Calculate like this: 5+3+1+9+7+7 = 32

And then: 3+2 = 5 The lucky number is 5.

If the final result is 10, then the lucky number will be 1:

After calculating the couple’s lucky numbers, you need to add the results of the numbers together.

For example: if the lucky number of the man is 6 and of the woman is 2 – the couple’s lucky number will be 8.

Below is a table showing the numbers and the couple’s compatibility. The results given here are not unequivocal. There may be inaccuracies due to personal lucky numbers:

1. If there is cooperation and decisions are made jointly, the relationship will be very good. If one of the couple tries to run the relationship by himself, the relationship will be doomed to failure and there are likely to be tensions and arguments.

2. A very good relationship: Consideration and understanding, concession rather than stubbornness. Only outside intervention can disrupt the couple’s harmony.

3. Such a relationship will be under constant testing. The relationship needs to be tightly maintained. Argument or dispute could cause betrayal and loss of trust. The relationship is good, but always in danger.

4. The relationship will be run with wisdom by both partners, based on understanding and give and take. The couple will always know when to forgive, or to turn a blind eye, when necessary.

5. A very good relationship. In this relationship, there will be a lot of luck. There will be no cause for arguments between the couple and the relationship will continue without a break.

6. Difficulties are expected to crop up, every step along the way. The couple will always overcome the problems, but these difficulties are likely to continue throughout the relationship. The good relationship and love will survive and will help the couple to overcome the obstacles.

7. There will not be separation in this relationship. There is a lot of understanding and give and take between the couple. Both of them will learn to read one another and they will communicate without the need for words.

8. A boring relationship. Neither one of the couple will have the courage to change the existing situation or to get up and go. There is lack of progress and no mutual encouragement.

9. This relationship is not recommended at all. It is doomed to failure and usually ends in divorce. The couple will not be satisfied with their mutual life together. In most cases, this kind of relationship began under social pressure.

What Will your Partner Look Like? (For women only)

A special virtue for young women, interested in seeing what their future partner will look like.

This virtue has been known for many years in the history of the Jews of Spain. I do not know where it started or how accurate it is, but it is

a custom amongst the Jews of Spain for viewing the future partner of a young girl who, for a long time, was unable to form a relationship. What is needed to observe the partner?

A bowl 20x30 cm in diameter.

Water up to a third of the height of the bowl. One third of a cup of olive oil.

Pour the olive oil into the bowl with the water in 7 measures. Place 7 garlic cloves around the bowl close by it.

The young woman (girl) who wishes to see the face of her future partner should look down at the oil in the bowl. At the first stage, she will look to see all her face reflected in the oil, from a distance of approximately 20 cm.

After around 5 minutes and even less, a nebular will appear in the oil. Grey or white mist will be reflected in the liquid and the image of the intended partner will appear inside.

There are additional ways to perform the ceremony of looking at the intended partner. Every ethnic group has its own slight changes, but the method specified here serves as a basis for all groups.

My mother, for example, used the leftover oil from the Sabbath candles for this purpose.

I do not recommend that married women should try this virtue. It is likely to bring bad luck on their relationship.

How to Keep Love, Bring Love into Our Lives and Prevent our Partner from Being Unfaithful:

There are many virtues and amulets for love. Everyone has his love out there waiting for him and he needs to find it by himself. Not always, will a prince on a white horse arrive on the young girl’s doorstep. Sometimes, the young boy or girl will have to look for the prince or princess designated for them. Here, the secrets of practical Kabbalah will come to our aid, assisting us to find love more easily, or to remove any obstruction that prevents us from attracting the love of the one in whom we are interested (of course, not by sorcery, God forbid, but by removing every obstacle in the way of love).

Binding a Partner:

This is permitted only for married couples. If one of the couple is attracted to someone else, it is permitted to perform binding between them, and this is because the Jewish prenuptial agreement (ketubah) is a binding agreement.

The binding must not be done in a way that will deprive one of the couple of his/her freedom, but in order to remove any interest in another person that could harm the couple’s relationship.

Binding may be performed between a couple when there is a danger of the family being broken up due to external intervention, such as another woman being interested in the man, or another man being interested in the woman, or interference from another person in the running of the family or in the children’s education, which causes intensive arguments in the family, etc.

“Stealing” the Bridegroom:

(A true case treated by Itzhak Mizrahi)

Dalit (fictitious name) aged 24, came to me for consultation after she was doubly betrayed:

She told me that Noa, her “best friend” stole her boyfriend (Ronnie) from her, after she had been in a relationship with him for 3 years – and a wedding had been discussed.

Dalit knew that her friend Noa had approached an Arab woman dealing with sorcery who performed an unfair “binding” of Ronnie with Noa, even though she knew that Ronnie was in a serious relationship with Dalit and that they were planning to marry.

An opening of the fate in the Book of the Zohar, revealed that Dalit and Ronnie were very compatible together.

I suggested to Dalit that she adopt two actions to rectify the situation:

The use of “Aduk” – Kabbalistic material intended to separate Noa from Ronnie and a King Solomon’s seal to revoke the sorcery that had been performed by the Arab woman, bind the relationship and bring back love.

10 days after Dalit took the Kabbalistic material into her possession, there was a rift in the relations between Ronnie and Noa. 20 days later, Ronnie came crawling back to her “on all fours”, and their relationship was renewed.

To Attract the Love of a Woman:

Write the following seals on a fig leaf. Soak the leaf in red wine for 24 hours. Wash your face with the wine. Concentrate well on the young lady and say:

“May it be that I will be your husband and protector and you will be my wife".

In Order for Your Love Wishes to be Fulfilled:

Write these seals on your right hand in kosher ink. Erase them by dipping your hand in a bowl of wine. Drink the wine and every request related to love will be fulfilled.

To Cause Someone to fall in Love with You:

Write the name of the man or woman on the handle of a new knife. Leave the knife for 3 days and nights in the Book of Psalms. Cut an apple into two with this knife, while saying these words: “Answer me God, answer me” and give the one whose name you wrote on the knife half of the apple to eat. If he/she eats it all, he will fall in love forever. If he/she eats a little, his/her love will be short.

Passionate Love Attraction:

Write the following words on kosher parchment and touch the woman whose love you want with the parchment – and she will follow you forever:

The Renewed Marriage:

(A true case treated by Itzhak Mizrahi)

Gilat (fictitious name), a woman in her thirties, came to me in an extremely low energetic state and under unbearable emotional and mental distress.

Gilat told me that her husband had been ignoring her for a long time and showed no desire to get close to her. In parallel, Gilat had met a man at her place of work who she liked very much. She was seriously considering developing a romantic relationship with her work colleague because of the severe distress and loneliness she was experiencing. In spite of this, all thought of the possibility of betraying her husband caused her additional mental pressure, since she felt that she was not built for a double life.

Gilat came to me for consultation as a last resort before her marriage broke up. She longed to revive the love and attraction of her husband towards her at any price.

In the opening of her fate, I discovered that a lot could be done to help her. Her marriage had a good chance of revival and the option of betrayal would have severely complicated things for her.

I recommended to Gilat “Habat El Barrake” for bringing back love and for binding the relationship and restoring her husband’s sexual attraction towards her, and “Bab El Arous” to arouse sexual attraction between the couple.

A month and a half later, Gilat called me to thank me. Her marriage had improved and she was very grateful for coming to me for consultation before taking erroneous steps that could have caused her serious guilt feelings and the loss of her marriage.

A Virtue for a Woman to Cancel Bad Luck in the Relationship: The woman needs to cut her finger nails, but not in any order: once on the right hand and once on the left hand. She should put the nail cuttings in a piece of white, linen cloth, add a little of her hair and her partner’s hair, write on the cloth the names of the couple and the names of their mothers and hide it in the house, preferably in the clothes closet.

A Virtue for a Man to Keep his Marriage:

This virtue has been used in Judaism for hundreds of years:

The man needs to urinate through his wedding ring on the night of the full moon. This action needs to be repeated for 3 moons. It will remove every obstacle to his married life.

To Cause a Man to Love:

This is a big and powerful secret that is tried and tested, to cause a man to passionately love a woman:

The woman needs to write on any stationery the following names behind the photo of the man and the writing needs to be very accurate, so that all the signs appearing here are written on the back of the photo. After writing, she needs to burn the photo and say: “Just as these names are burning together with you, so will your love for me be like the fire burning in these names”. The photo ashes must be scattered on the ground.

A Virtue to Strengthen the Relationship:

To strengthen a relationship that has been weakened due to external intervention, like parents or friends, or any other factor, take a carob with 7 pips, (you can count the pips on a dry carob), write on the back of the carob on one side the name of the woman and her Hebrew date of birth and on the other side of the carob write the name of the man and his Hebrew date of birth.

Add a pinch of salt and a garlic clove. Warp in tin foil and put it under the couple’s bed for 7 days.

After 7 days, open the carob, take the pips out and hide them in different corners of the house.

Throw the rest of the components into the garbage or bury them in the ground. This action will strengthen the relationship between the couple and prevent outside influence.

A Virtue for Opening a Blockage in a Relationship:

This virtue for opening a blockage in a relationship can be performed by parents whose children suffer from delays in finding partners or bachelors who are unable to form a satisfactory relationship.

Take an egg and write on it the name of the son/daughter, the Hebrew birth date and the name of the mother. Calculate with numerology the Gregorian birth date (of the son/daughter), (add all the numbers in the birth date and decrease until you get a single number). The results of the calculation will determine the number of days you need to place the egg under the bed of the blocked person. In the event that you do not know the exact birth date, the egg should be placed for 9 days. At the end of the period, take the egg to an open area out in the open air (preferably at night) and then say: “This is a penance for breaking the blockage in the relationship of (say the name of the person and his/her mother’s name). Send him/her, Lord, with your loving kindness the woman/man that you intended for him/her."

Throw the egg up towards the sky. After this ceremony, go back home and wash your hands 7 times. If the egg did not break when it fell, it is a sign of great delay and perhaps even sorcery or binding that prevents the relationship. It is recommended to go to a person authorized to remove the impedance.

A Virtue for Bringing back a Partner:

Write on a piece of white cloth the name of the partner and the name of his mother and add these names: Metatron, Heron, Karon. Drip 7 drops of candle wax on to it.

Burn the cloth while whispering: "You, (say the name and the mother's name), return your love for me (say your name and your mother's name) and give me all your love, as long as you will live and there will be no-one else but me".

Repeat this process for 7 days, preferably every day at the same time. This action will return the love of the man and strengthen it.

This may also be performed by a man on a woman.

A Virtue for Bringing back lost loves

This virtue is well known for its great power to bring back a partner’s love. You need the entrance key to the house, garden, storehouse, etc. and a garment or photo of the person you want to return his love to you or to a loved one.

Break the key, wrap the fragments in the garment or photo of the person designated, and put it in a hidden place in the house or yard for 21 days. Every 7 days, turn the virtue (the wrapped key) 360 degrees. At the end of the 21 days, throw everything into the garbage. Within less than one Hebrew month, the love will come back.

A Virtue for Breaking a Barrier in the Relationship:

This virtue is intended for a man or woman who does not succeed in