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Custom commenting allows you to say something enticing to a woman without sounding “ass-kissy”, which is the problem with many kinds of typical compliments that makes them unsuitable to use too soon. The canned ones especially sound like phoney lines that you must work on every broad who slides through your field of view. And they can make you seem like a inexperienced fool if you deliver them in a nervous, cracking voice. To hell with complimenting – make a Cool Observation & Warm Comment instead using this format...

A Cool Observation (about her style / look / manner)

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A Warm Comment about it.

A comment, not a sappy compliment. Scan around for something that looks unusual or remarkable about her, make sure it’s something positive, and then make a casual, friendly comment about it. Women remember this sort of thing. Be classy, try to pick out something that shows an appreciation for her own unique style somehow (hairstyle, jewelry, tatoo, piercing, pet on a leash,

rollerblades, etc.). Something like this:

“Those hoop earrings are cool, my sister wears them too. It brightens a guy’s day to run into a woman with style.”

“I love the way that high-collar coat goes with your hairstyle.

That’s the kind of look I wish I saw more of.”

play that inspires me to keep improving my own game.”

Here’s the simple format: observe something cool about her look, style or attitude, and then make a positive comment about it. The custom

comment can change the dynamic between two people in an instant because it reveals possible romantic interest, but without being too obvious about it. She knows you are trying to make some kind of connection with her, and now it’s her turn to pick it up and run with it (or not). If she gives you a curt ‘thanks’ and fails to make eye contact it’s a pretty sure sign of disinterest. But... if she’s a teensy bit intrigued, you may get a GO signal instead – cute smile, a girlish blush, that nervous “dancing” fidget, things of that sort.

AN IMPORTANT NOTE: Perhaps these sorts of statements may sound a little or even a lot silly to you, but please don’t make the deadly mistake that I used to make by pre-judging your every possible word as inadequate before you actually try them out on someone! I used to stand around in a bar and ruthlessly pre-edit everything that I would like to say to the pretty girl standing next to me (often signaling for me to open a conversation with her!) as being “idiotic” or “ignorant” or “uncool” or whatever, rapidly in my head. I would run dozens of seemingly “too obvious” or banal statements such as these through my mind and

reject them all – stubbornly holding myself to impossible performance standards. I would edit myself into complete mental exhaustion and eventually end up mute and withdrawn.

My guts are churning with regret recalling this exercise in self-hatred even as I write this stuff today, and so I would like to pass along this one bit of old guy wisdom onto all you younger guys out there who are pre-thinking yourself right out of a social life in a similar fashion: it isn’t what you say to a woman that’s important, it’s the intent behind your saying it. She reads the intent, and

disregards the actual words. Hell, most times she doesn’t even hear the friggin words! Just remember this if nothing else:

It’s a signal, not a clever speech, that you’re trying to make!

“I like the way the sunlight is shining off your hair, it’s giving you a little halo,” you say. “You mean like an angel?” she flirts, “but sometime angels can be worse than devils...” “But devils sound like more fun,” you laugh, “Could I interest the devil a cup of coffee?” “Sure,” she says, flashing you a wicked smile.

Many women will respond to even the slightest nice word from a stranger like touching a burning flare to the wick of a skyrocket. Custom commenting crosses the line of formality and begins to hint at potential desire. If things go well at this stage, then we’re getting close to revealing that the hit is on – which advances the pull-tab up to the next level.

ANOTHER NOTE: Some of these newer “systems” for

meeting women recommend that you knock a chick off balance with an obscure put-down – a so-called “neg hit”. This is supposedly necessary if she’s a 7+ who’s had her fill of supplicant guys kissing her ass 24/7, and you must demonstrate above all else that you are not this breed of desperate joker. While this neg hit might have some merit in a nightclub setting with the super-hot model-types who need to have their cages rattled, how many of those do you run across every day? Most ordinary women won’t appreciate a neg hit. Many won’t even understand that you’re coming on to them, they’re likely to think you’re just some kind of woman-hating nut case. Remember what she said about not wanting your approach to be so obscure that she can’t figure out what you’re really doing?