5. DISCUSSION
5.2. Cell cycle functions of PP2A-B55 in mammals
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In going through a breakup right now and dealing with the knowledge that my 2.5 year relationship was extremely simple for my ex to shrug off and find
someone new after 2 months, I re-read the sidebar links. I followed links within those links to a post entitled "War Brides." It explains why women are so good at moving on. I think I can sum it up, better:
She gets over you quick because you are disposable, and she has to be ready to say goodbye in case you are disposed of.
Back in the day, it could have been because of war or hunting accidents, or what have you. But now we're here. Since men are disposable, women are the ones that have to put up with the consequences of our disposal, so the quick moving on is a defense mechanism. Since women are not disposable, we never had to acquire this ability.
Might have been nice.
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There is no short answer, so this will be long.
Surprisingly, the most troubling aspect is the shock, the defeated expectations - the realization of another shitty thing to worry about, the need to rethink your outlook - which will be a less optimistic one the more you know. It's like getting insurance/warranty for something and finding out it's useless - you just have to be more selective.
It's actually in society's best interest for men to be blissfully unaware of how women actually conduct themselves. This way men can work and be productive members of society without all those extra sources of stress. Women embraced it since a good image is crucial to their social success.
The thing is most RP theory is nothing new and revolutionary, these things were known hundreds of years ago, just read some philosophy. The only thing that
changed in the last couple of decades is the social discourse, in the last 50 or so years postmodernist blowhards have been endlessly pushing down society's throats that women are special bastions of all that's good and fair in the world and men are dumb animals that need to be less themselves.
That's why the answer is nothing new either. All the naive bullshit has done is to shift your mentality from individuality and self-validation, to woman-centric view and dependent on outside validation (women - through sex).
As long as the most important parts of your life aren't centered around women (and their loyalty), then the damage will be minimal - if it goes bad.
If possible, don't get married, don't cohabitate, build a vast social circle, with a couple of really close friends (the type that you can really depend on), have
fulfilling hobbies/interest and a dream in life (not just professionally). Attain wealth and power if you can (but don't consume every second of your life trying)
If you really want a LTR/marriage situation, learn to pick up on red flags...even pink flags, small things get more annoying after 10 years together. Read a lot of material on psychology and behavioural science, learn to be an excellent judge of character.
Test potential mates, it's not manipulative to find out who you're spending the rest of your days with - ignore the shaming caused by this - low quality women hate being vetted, it makes them doubt their (over-inflated ) worth. If a woman gets angry for something she does herself (testing you) she's not LTR material.
Tests:
• Sympathy tests - great for avoiding alpha fucks beta bux - women generally lack (beyond superficial levels) the ability to care for anything that does not affect themselves (or their children). So fake a personal issue that affects you (and not at all her) deeply, see if her instinct is to support you and care for you. If she shows indifference/repulsion/pretends to care - either means your value in her eyes is not high enough - in which case hypergamy will be ruthless to you, or she lacks the ability to pair bond (bad at LTRs)
• Loyalty tests - she mentioned/showed signs that she considers someone you know attractive ? Have him hit on her (or any equivalents), see how she reacts - does she shut him down? does she respond in a non-decisive way ? does she tell you about it?. A woman who clearly respects her man is a woman with a higher ability to control her hypergamy.
• Compliance tests - make a couple of irrational demands (not illegal) with conviction, making sure she understands how important those requests (you made of her) are to you. She asks why, you tell her "because it's important to me". The more argumentative a woman is over big things, the higher chance of her being argumentative/combative over the small things once that
"harder to leave" contract is signed (marriage). Any woman worth spending your life with will gladly submit/self-sacrifice a bit to show her commitment to you.
• Hypergamy tests - purposefully act like a beta for a couple of weeks, be indecisive, follow her around the house, ask for her approval/validation, be emotional and reactive, supplicate and pedestilize her - flowers and gifts and all that jazz. A quality woman will tell you (first in a covert way then in an over way) that your behaviour is a turn-off, and she'll give you time to bounce back before reacting accordingly to your new self. If the sex stops
suddenly and she gets cold/distant, that woman's attraction (and respect) for your is fragile - most likely the type of woman who will never stop shit testing you - very hypergamous types.
Also look for good habits, like having a healthy lifestyle (diet and exercise), a great relationship with her father (in general with her family), low prevalence of sex outside of relationships -> higher chance to pair bond.
Red Flags - character
• any signs of a disorder - eating/personality disorders - learn to recognize them.
• arrogant
• argumentative - it's gets old real fast.
• bitchiness - it's not cute, and it does not mean she's just opinionated.
• feminist
• "sex positive" - rebranding of the word slut
• victim (abuse) - you don't need all that trauma hanging over your happiness - pick a happy and balanced partner.
Red Flags - past
• party girl
• relationships with criminals - she's heavily into bad boys, and you'll never be as bad without breaking some laws.
• single mom - just common sense - why sign up for extra baggage and beta bux.
• split-roasted/gang-banged - she's just not the "brunch with hubby" type.
• unfeminine/large tattoos - sign of a past that includes the above Red flags - behaviour
• excessive attention seeking - especially male attention
• excessive social network use - sign of the above
• emotional eating - chances of getting fat come wall.
• keeps in touch with exes - hypergamous
• keeps orbiters beyond 6 months into the relationship - hypergamous + lack of respect.
• uses sex as a reward/currency - deems you low value (or just beta bux)
• tries to guilt you into spending less time/cutting ties with your friends - classic cunt.
• nagging - it can only get worse once married
• overly eager to give you sex - if you get a weird vibe, like she's trying fake a ultra high sex drive - standard beta bait for marriage - pretty much any time she seems to have sex with your for anything other than sex/intimacy it's a bad sign.
Red Flags - social circle
• party girls / ex party girls - needs no explanation
• divorced women - there was a study posted around here - in short- divorced women praise other women who get divorced (self-validation ahoy)
• mostly male friends (without having male interests/profession) - hypergamy/
need for male attention.
• lack of female friends - women can spot a bad seed - and shun it.
• radical feminists/social justice types - if she's attractive this won't be the case, but if it is, she's probably some sort of crazy/messed up.