Computational methods

We know that you are probably much better at complimenting and rewarding women than you are at punishing them. most likely you’re a guy who doesn’t

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When you punish a woman, you tease her, insult her, challenge her, or actively show disinterest in her. You punish women at peak moments during a date when you feel she is being disrespectful, bitchy, patronizing, rude, or not paying attention to you when you are talking.

think about punishment this way: You need to be a man of high value. high-value people do not take shit and yet do not feel the need to prove themselves.

so, you in essence bust a woman for her bad behavior. You do not let her get away with shit. Do not feel obligated to take her shit, nor do you waste your time with a woman who is being rude to you.

nice guys tend to reward women, even when women do not deserve it.

nice guys then start to feel resentful. they bottle up their anger until they explode and punish brutally. Does that ring true for you? Do you know anyone who does that with women? Do you know guys who act nice to women and do things they don’t want to do and then occasionally get really angry and scream, yell, and pout?

Going ballistic on women is not how you punish women. acting crazy or cruel is what the immature crying bitch does when he doesn’t get his way.

What we’re talking about is not stifling your disagreements with women, not avoiding conflict, and not squashing your opinions or views.

We are talking about busting women on their bad behavior. You highlight their bad behavior; you don’t suppress it. being up-front with the things that bother you is where it’s at. Your job is to assert yourself around women and let them know when they’ve crossed the line.

the first form of punishment is punishment through Withdrawal of attention. When a woman shows a lack of enthusiasm or interest in you when you are talking to her, one easy form of punishment is to look at your watch, look around the bar, go to the bathroom, take a cell call, etc. You are punishing her by not paying attention.

the next form of punishment is punishment through Comment. 99.9%

of guys do not bust women on their bad behavior. most guys ignore bad behavior, and yet inside they disconnect and plan to never talk to the woman again because they are afraid of conflict. Women are hungry for guys to stand up for themselves and have self-respect. Women want guys to stand up to them without becoming psycho angry guys. so practice stating the truth in a matter-of-fact way and you’ll be in the game.

the point of all punishments is that you are bringing to light a woman’s nasty behavior and showing her you don’t like it.

you might say things like:

“You’re not very nice to strangers.”

“You are one of those women who meets a guy and has to take a cell call every five minutes.”

“You need an attitude adjustment.”

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“i thought you were smart and interesting, but it looks like you’re also really mean. my mistake.”

“hey little girl, get with the program.”

the ultimate form of punishment: Withdrawal of attention all together.

the ultimate way of punishing a woman is to simply walk away and not talk to her anymore. if a woman is just mean-spirited and terrible to be around, just get the hell out of there and stop talking to her. that’s it. simple.

Women often test men to see how they respond to anger and other intense emotions. Does the guy flip out and run away? she then thinks he’s a wimp. Does he fight back in an abusive manner? he is gone because he is not trustworthy. if you can hold your ground with women when they attack you without becoming an apologetic wimp, and still not become an abusive asshole, they will respect you and likely will want to spend more time with you. men who can hold their ground in the way we are talking about are indeed hard to Get men.

Remember, emotion is good. extreme emotion is even better. Women thrive in situations that are highly emotional. so, when a woman gets extremely angry, happy, or sad she’s engaged. one of the reasons bnbs are so boring is that they avoid emotions. therefore, pushing up intense emotions with women is good. You might not be comfortable with a woman getting upset with you and “losing it.” but trust us when we tell you that if you are able to ride the wave of intense emotions with women, sex is often on the other side and/or a deeper connection.

think about it this way: for a woman to jump from bored to horny is pretty far, but for her to go from anger to horny is a much shorter jump.

therefore, pushing a woman until she has an intense emotional reaction is not a bad thing. it can be a good thing. but it is risky.

DisConneCtors

When you use disconnectors, you are being authentic with women yet challenging them by asking questions that demonstrate your powerful personality. You are showing that you don’t care what they think about you. You are showing women that you are different than they are and that difference is cool. You are actually sharing about yourself and your uniqueness and allowing them the same opportunity to share with you about their unique personality.