Conclusiones – Condicionantes para la Articulación EMTP-IES

Chemistry, sexual tension, what does that mean to you? Is it exciting?

Many guys don’t even think about it, let alone know how to create it. That can lead to you being far less attractive to a woman that if you are one of those guys who “gets it.”

I want you to imagine for a moment how it feels if you have an incredibly hot babe that likes you; you like her, and you’ve been out on a few dates.

Imagine that you weren’t sure at any point that you’ve got her. And finally, after an amazing date, the two of you sleep together.

Pretty satisfying, right?

Now compare that to meeting an incredibly hot babe, and the first time you try to make a move, she’s happy to sleep with you, and you do.

If you’re like most guys, you’d be happy with either situation. But, as you can see, the first of the two is more exciting.

That’s you as a man.

Eighty percent of your initial attraction instinct is based on looks and twenty percent on personality. So either of the above seem like good outcomes, even if the first scenario is more satisfying.

But how does a woman feel?

Imagine if she were to meet a guy and hit it off with him. Then imagine that he has a pretty busy schedule, because he leads quite an exciting life, so she only gets to see him a couple of times a week. Imagine she knows he is attracted to her, but he’s such a good catch he definitely has other options and hasn’t decided yet 100% whether or not he wants more from her.

Imagine that a few weeks later he finally gives into his urges and, in a moment of passion, they sleep together.

THAT for a woman is an example of sexual tension. And THAT for a woman is the equivalent of what a guy feels when he meets a super hot babe. You see, for her, 80% of her attraction is based on personality and 20% on looks – the complete opposite to you.

If she were to meet a guy who responds instantly to all her advances, who’s available at any time, who’s only too keen to sleep with her, then attraction is lost. That is her equivalent of what a guy feels when he meets an average- or below average-looking girl.

It is GREAT NEWS for men out there that a woman’s attraction instinct is 80% based on personality, because that means that virtually every man out there has a chance to attract and seduce the most beautiful of women.

In fact, it has been proven that when it comes to looks, women pay more attention to grooming and hygiene than they do to other aspects of a man’s looks.

So we’ve established that for a woman to create sexual tension, she has to be hot. But what is it that a man needs to have?

This comes back to what we talked about in Part 2 of this 6-Part Mini-Course. What are women REALLY attracted to in a man?

1. Someone who has a strong identity.

An example of how having a strong identity creates sexual tension is when you call her and see if she wants to come out on a date with you. You say that you’ve got something going on Thursday and Friday, but what about Saturday? You’re got so much exciting stuff going on in your own life that you need to fit her in. 2. A man who can stimulate her emotions.

An example of sexual tension is when you lean in for a kiss, pause for a second, so she wonders if you are actually going to kiss her, and then you kiss her. Another example is when you touch her in nonsexual places, such as putting your hand on her back or holding her hand. That helps build chemistry between the two of you.

31 3. Someone who can demonstrate leadership.

You can create sexual tension through demonstrating leadership, such as when you take her by the hand and lead her places rather than constantly asking her what she wants to do and asking if she’s okay. You can ask her opinion, but don’t do this constantly. Make decisions, be a man, give her the gift of feeling surprised.

4. Men who are a challenge.

Don’t be too keen to get her to sleep with you or get her to be your girlfriend. Let her work for it, too. By being the opposite of needy, by being unavailable on some days, by having something else that you are passionate about, and by teasing her sometimes in funny ways and being unpredictable … THAT contributes to her feeling sexual tension for YOU.

5. Men who have good social awareness.

If you can make her friends laugh and feel comfortable around you, that will also lead to her being more attracted to you. If you have a good social circle that she enjoys the company of, that also is of great benefit to you – especially if there are other women in that circle.