TEMPORALIZACIÓN CURSO 2º E. PROFESIONAL:
2.4 Criterios de evaluación
1. How?
Doing an erotic massage on your partner involves a good deal of ease on both your parts. The most important thing is to find a relaxing and comfortable position.
2. Positions
The position of both you and your partner are very important because you want to be sure that you are both relaxed and able to enjoy the massage. 3. Positions – Receiver
The receiver generally wants to be laying down for their massage. Some people like to sit up, and this is fine, too.
4. On Belly
The receiver should lie on his or her belly with his or her arms under his or her head to support the head and keep the face from being buried in the bed.
5. On Back
When lying on his or her back, the receiver should lay however is most comfortable. Use a pillow if it helps.
6. Legs Open
The receiver should have his or her legs open a little bit, especially when the giver is doing a leg massage.
7. Positions – Giver
The giver's position is especially important because he or she will be doing all of the work. Try to find a way to sit that makes you comfortable. 8. Straddle
For a back massage, the best way to sit is to straddle your partner and sit lightly on his or her buttocks.
9. Between Legs
As you move down your partner's body, position yourself between your partner's legs so you can reach his or her buttocks and legs.
10. On the Side
For front body massages, you may find it easiest to sit to your partner's side. This gives you easy access to all body parts.
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Remember that for both parties, sitting or lying awkwardly can lead to physical discomfort and the inability to relax.
12. Thumbs
Use your thumbs to go a little deeper into the massage. If your partner has a core spot he or she would like you to rub, try using your thumb. 13. Fingers
The fingers are the most often used parts of the hand for erotic massage. The fingers can give all different levels of pressure.
14. Fingertips
Using your fingertips for erotic massage is the best way to give you partner little tickles or gentle, sexy touches.
15. Knuckles
The knuckles are best used for areas where you partner wants more pressure.
16. Palms
Use the palms of you hands to rub and massage any part of your partner. The pressure from the palms is harder than the fingers but lighter than the thumbs and knuckles.
17. Fists
The fists offer a lot more pressure than any other part of the hands. They can, however, be used for medium pressure as well.
18. Tongue
Once you and you partner are more "in the mood", try using your tongue to draw small circles on your partner's thighs, neck and lower back. 19. Scalp
A scalp massage is best done with the fingers or fingertips. This should be done gently.
20. Neck
The back of the neck can be a very erotic place for some people. Use your fingers to rub and your fingertips to tickle. Try suing your tongue here.
21. Upper Back
The upper back requires a little more pressure; use your palms or knuckles to rub and then use your fingertips to tickle.
22. Middle Back
The middle back generally doesn't need as much pressure – just some lightly tickles and some rubbing with the palms should work.
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The lower back may need some more pressure; use your knuckles or palms to rub, and then follow it up with some light tickles. Use your tongue here, too.
24. Shoulders
Some people's shoulders get very tense. Rub with a lot of pressure using fists and knuckles.
25. Sides
Some people are very ticklish on their sides. If you partner likes to be tickled, do so lightly. If not, you may want to avoid this area.
26. Bottom
Depending on the person receiving the massage, you can rub the
buttocks hard using your palms and fingers. Tickling feels good here, too. 27. Spine
The spine should be massaged very gently. For most people, soft, gentle tickles are perfect here.
28. Legs
The legs can be massaged gently or a little harder, depending on your partner's requests. Tickles or using your tongue on the thighs is very erotic.
29. Arms
The arms can also be done hard or soft, according to your partner's wishes. Tickles feel great after a massage or as the massage. Use your tongue on the inside of the elbow.
30. Feet
If your partner has very sensitive feet, you may need to avoid this area. Rubbing with the palms and fingers and tickling with the fingertips is great here.
31. Hands
Use your fingers to rub your partner's palms and use your thumbs to rub the backs of their hands. Also massage their fingers. Tickles feel great on the palms.
32. Chest
For men, the chest can be rubbed with the fingers. For men and women, the chest can be lightly tickled. Use your fingertips and tongue to tickle your partner's nipples.
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The breast should not be rubbed hard unless this is something your partner requests. Light, gentle touches are best, followed by gentle tickles or licks.
34. Belly
Some people have very sensitive bellies, so try not to tickle if your partner is very ticklish. Run your fingertips over his or her belly; do not rub.
35. Pubic Area
The goal of erotic massage is not orgasm, so try to avoid stimulating the genitals. Run your fingertips over your partner's hips and pubic area. 36. Tickles
Tickles are quick fingertip movements that produce a ticklish reaction. This can be extremely erotic.
37. Light Tickles
Light fingertips movements that are both more gentle and slower are light tickles.
38. "Run"
Using your fingertips, run your fingers along your partner's body; this is like one long tickle sensation.
39. "Type"
Use your fingertips to "type" on your partner's body. This provides many small pressure spots.
40. Rub
Use any part of your hand to put a little bit of pressure on larger body parts.
41. Small Circles
When you are rubbing your partner, use small circular motions to massage the muscles.
42. GENTLY!
Be very gentle! If you are not a masseuse, you could hurt your partner if you are too rough.
43. Pressure
Use gentle pressure on your partner's body unless he or she requests otherwise. Never put too much pressure on delicate body parts. 44. Oil
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Use oil on your partner's body to lubricate the massage. Some oils are made for erotic massage while others are aromatherapy oils for romance or relaxation.
45. Lotion
Lotion also works very well to lubricate an erotic massage. Find a scent you both like. Look into aromatherapy lotions for romance or relaxation. 46. Communication
Using good communication with your partner is the only way to
successfully massage him or her. Have your partner tell you what he or she likes and what feels good.
47. Relaxation
Relaxation for both people involved makes for a very sensual and erotic encounter. It also helps get both of you "in the mood"!
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