1.14.2 ¿Por qué utilizar Apache?
CAPÍTULO 2: MODELAMIENTO DEL SISTEMA
2.6 Descripción de los principales Casos de Usos
When a woman calls a guy:
“The sweetest guy ever”
“The perfect boyfriend”
“soul mate”
“The man she can’t live without”
What this translates to in male language or logic is:
“Being around this guy is causing my brain to flood my body with emotions which make me feel good around him. If these feelings stop I will have to dump him.”
I know this reality may not sit pretty with some of you but it is the way things work. A woman isn’t necessarily going to go out of her way to destroy a man and many times will try to let him go with as much
sensitivity as possible but essentially this is the way things work; if her body stops pumping the emotions she no longer feels attraction.
So why am I telling you all this?
Because I want you to permanently take the mindset that kissing a woman’s ass will ever get you anywhere and throw that idea into the sun or a volcano where it will burn into oblivion never to return.
Once you know how to get out of that mindset and make every woman you meet feel immediate attraction to you things will start to get fun.
Flipping Your Reality Upside Down
I’d like to tell you about a little experiment that will show you just how variable our perception of reality is.
In 1896 a man by the name of George Stratton conducted an
experiment in which he wore eyeglasses that inverted his view of the world and caused him to see everything upside down.
I’ve made this little image chart to give you an visual idea of how he saw things compared to the way we see them:
Notice how the trees pointed toward the sky actually create the illusion of a lake with water when pointed upside down. Our unconscious mind naturally assumes the blue on the ground is a lake and the blue up above is a sky.
What he was testing here was the idea of the way our brains perceive
“upright” things.
To do this he built a pair of glasses that consisted of two lenses of equal focal length, spaced two focal lengths, so that rays of light entering from the top would emerge from the bottom, and vice-versa.
At first he wore the glasses for twenty-four hours and reported that things only “occasionally looked normal”. However, after wearing them for four days things began to seem more upright than inverted and on the fifth day he was able to walk around his house fairly normally but
noted that if he looked at objects very closely they looked inverted again.
Now what do you think happened on the eighth day? If you guessed that he perceived things as “upright” you are correct.
As a matter of fact, when he finally took the glasses off on the eighth day he found that it took almost five hours for his vision to return to functioning normally.
His brain shifted its perception of upright based on what he saw.
What this means is that our perception of the world is entirely based on what we can see, hear, think and feel.
Let me give you an example, how would you respond if I offered you a
$200,000 a year job right this second with no interview and you knew it would be the perfect job to fit your skills; would you take it?
Now, imagine if I offered Donald Trump the same job. Chances are he would see that $200,000 a year as pocket change whereas you would see it as “high class”.
The same applies to attracting women. Once you accept that meeting and attracting beautiful women in to your life is normal, you will find that you are much more comfortable and assured with yourself and willing to just accept that this is the way your life is supposed to be.
Once you learn how download this crucial confidence in to your brain and permanently embed it in to yourself you will begin to see that women will respond to you differently.
Just like you would act differently around a beautiful woman (in whatever sense it may be) beautiful women will also act different around you once they realize that you are the real deal. These women will realize that you accept yourself as a sexual being and are not
ashamed of that.
Having this mindset will set you apart from most of the society robots out there who are blindly following what they are taught in a sexually repressed society.
The Diamond Dupe
We all know that diamonds are rare and we all know that people value things that are perceived to be rare.
Did you ever wonder why a woman doesn’t want a cubic zirconium ring for thousands of dollars less even though it has to be put under a
microscope by an expert analyst to be identified as not being a diamond?
Do you think a woman thinks about this consciously when she is stacking up the two and making her decision?
Of course not!
Now imagine someone comes over from another country and you are helping her pick out a ring. She sees the cubic zirconium and a
seemingly identical diamond ring next to it. The only thing about the two of them that appears not to be identical is the price tag.
Now, imagine trying to explain to your friend why she should by the diamond over the cubic zirconium because it is more “rare.”
If this belief hadn’t been programmed in to the foreign woman
beforehand you would likely have a hard time convincing her that one random material is worth far more than another with no discernable difference.
While you’re at it, go out and ask any woman how the diamond industry is doing and what the ratio is between available cubic zirconium and available diamonds.
Ask her when she checked to verify that diamonds really are “rare.”
Does she even care? Nope.
All she cares about is that she was taught:
1) The diamond was more rare and thereby worth hundreds or even thousands of dollars more.
2) She would probably feel “cheap” knowing she was wearing cubic zirconium because of her perception of its value.
3) She wouldn’t be able impress her friends without feeling
“cheap” and lying to them.
The third of the three is probably more prevalent than the others. She wants the diamond because she knows it is regarded as valuable and knows society and her friends and family will admire her for it.
Two things. One is worth thousands of dollars more because she was taught it was rare without even knowing whether or not it actually was.
In addition, she was taught it had social value thereby making it far more valuable.
Interesting to think about huh?
My point in this little shpiel was that women are attracted to what they are taught is perceived as valuable or whatever will create the best feelings inside them.
Don’t look so innocent though guys our hands aren’t so clean when it comes to misinterpreting value either.
Anyway, after a woman has crafted an image of something that’s valuable she goes out in to the world and hunts it down or desires it whenever she sees it.
Think of a lottery winner who hunts down a lottery ticket twice a week in search of their pot of gold but when they finally get their pot of gold they end up wasting it all in search of happiness and winding up more miserable and in debt than before.
I’m talking here to any man who says:
“I’m not good looking enough!”
“I’m not rich enough!”
“I’m not funny enough”
“I’m not smart enough”
“She’s out of my league”
“She’ll never want to go out with a guy like me.”
If that is you STOP IT! You’re being stupid.
Am I going to sit here and lie to you and say these things don’t matter?
Of course not!
They can and will have an impact on your success.
What I am saying is that value is an illusion that is created in your mind.
The Science of Sex
Since the point of this eBook is to teach you the mindsets and
applications of how to be an alpha male I don’t want to go to heavy into this beyond what is truly necessary for understanding why attraction is the way it is and to give you a sense of why it is involuntary.
I’m going to try to keep this less “sciencey” and more short and sweet but here it is:
Your brain and body are put together for the purpose of driving you to reproduce and serve out the function of passing on the most dominant genes to the next generation.
Everything in the universe is created to balance out life. We have time so we feel a sense of accomplishment and linearity. If life was like the dreams you have at night it would neither be fun nor fulfilling because we would never see the results of anything or have any consistency.
We have gravity so that we are all able to move ourselves around in a controlled fashion.
There is a good reason we do not control our attraction mechanisms;
the system simply would not work.
We would not be able to ensure the reproductive cycle’s intention if we did.
What is interesting about this is the obvious compliment of each of our sex characteristics to the other genders.
Some examples of these include:
Men Women Penis to Vagina Looks to Personality Masculine to Feminine
Sperm to Eggs
Evolution or otherwise what is here is here and it is what we’ve got to work with.
Understanding our different roles as men and women allows us to better understand who we truly our and better find our place in the world.
Our brains were not wired for the modern world of contraceptives, birth control pills, diaphragms and Mirena. Your brain does not know the difference between going to bed for sheer pleasure and going to bed to make a baby.
As a result of this her attraction mechanism works the same; she values an alpha male who will protect and father the best, strongest and
father the most babies for her.
Keep in mind that this process, like the rest of her attraction mechanisms, occurs unconsciously and instinctively.
Now let’s take a look at this from a man’s perspective. The goal of the male is to replicate as much as possible and impregnate as many women as possible with his alpha genes during his lifetime.
A woman produces one egg per month for much of the prime years of her life. I know this is going to sound like an Easter Egg Hunt but
because of the fact that a woman produces just one egg per month she is programmed to put a lot more value on sex during this time because of her limited supply. While a man is “always on” so to speak a woman is not.
While the woman only has a specific and limited fertile cycle and is engineered to look for opportunities to have a child a man is built to
“spread his seed” and seek out as many women to impregnate as he can.
The Attractive Attitude
I want to clarify something so there is no dispute:
NO ONE CONTROLS THEIR OWN ATTRACTION MECHANISM