If you are married, no matter how successfully you are achieving your goals, dreams, or wishes, or how free you are of nagging aches or minor illnesses, you live in an inferno on earth if you lack sexual vitality and marital bliss. (By sexual vitality is not meant abnormal sexual desire or activity, but the energy to satisfy your mate romantically.) Without these blessings your home is no heaven, and you dread the very thought of going back to it after work. You feel as though you are returning to a cruel jail after a brief parole. Your success in anything is dampened by the constant reminder that you cannot inspire the person you hold most dear, and your ego is crushed. Physiological demands are made on you at home which you fail to fulfill, and are followed by cat-and-dog fights. Yet you want a home and a loving companion, and someone with whom to enjoy your planned retirement. You are torn apart with frustration, and your desperate fight-sympathetics alter your physiological language into a venomous, panicky one.
You can alter this devastating situation swiftly with the secret mental power of sexual vitality and marital bliss. So, it is to your benefit to master and apply it at once.
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V itality and Marital Bliss
The gains of different people in their daily lives and in their careers from sexual vitality and marital bliss are miraculous. Many acquired bold personalities that converted them from low-paid shipping-room clerks into top company salesmen, drawing close to
$200,000 a year. Others, from ignored social personalities, became the rage at parties. Many were super-charged with a new lease on life that rejuvenated them sensationally. A good number regained their zest for living, turned into dynamos during the day, and slept
“like logs” at night. Still others acquired, in their games and hobbies, a steadiness of hand and eye that astounded their competitors and flooded themselves with new friends and ad
mirers. Many who had lost their wit and social grace regained them and thrilled everybody they met. Others digested their food better, and their bowels moved better. Many stopped being tiresomely complaintive and started enjoying life. The list is limitless o f how people changed themselves and their lives completely with the secret mental power for sexual vitality and marital bliss.
Why Your Domestic Familiarity Can Breed Marital Contempt
Total domestic familiarity easily breeds marital contempt. It throws you and your mate so continuously together that you can no longer stimulate each other romantically. The sympathetic nervous system is the one to be aroused for sexual vitality, but too much familiarity suppresses it and leaves you calm, relaxed, and bovinely contented. Uncivilized people are noted for their low sexual vitality because their men and women habitually behold each other practically nude. Civilized people cover their bodies in public or expose only selected portions of them. That over
stimulates their sexual vitality and perhaps makes sex too great an issue in their everyday lives. But the comparison proves that overfamiliarity quenches the fires of desire. Total domestic familiarity does likewise for you because it alters your physio
logical language away from that of a sensual person. You become too “kind-hearted,” too “ self-sacrificial,” and too paternal to be
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“devilishly” exciting. You lose the cavemannish drive to “take”
what you want to enjoy, even if you momentarily have to act
“brutal” to get it. You lose the capacity to turn into a cruel enough person (if you are a man), or into a hostile enough one (if you are a woman), to arouse the defiant sympathetics of your mate and bring on a delightful physical confrontation which leads to the ecstasy of furious conquest and rebellious submission.
Why Decreased Sexual V itality Can Endanger Your Marital Bliss
When your sexual vitality is decreased by domestic familiar
ity, it breeds marital contempt—and marital contempt endangers your romantic bliss. Your decreased sexual vitality leads to romantic shyness of both of you, and your marriage degenerates into a brother-sister relationship, with correspondingly altered physiological languages dominated by your placid parasym- pathetics. Any time you want to be romantic you have to alter it completely. But that is not easy to do, for you have grown romantically shy. That’s why so many people resort to heavy drinking bouts before they can “ feel sexy.” “Swingers,” “swap
pers,” so-called “ healthy adultery,” group sex, and similar relationships among increasing numbers of middle-aged people constitute extreme attempts of many to break down the tragically resulting sibling relationship of their harmonious marriages and to instill “viciousness” back into their love-making.
The fact that so many couples, according to psychologists, insist that such participations brought “ spice” into their turned- sterile marriages, and even saved many from “ the rocks,” proves that even the young and sexually vigorous suffer from reduced sexual vitality due to total domestic familiarity. Sexual vitality, in other words, can be reduced by the conscious mind! It can therefore also be regained by the conscious mind!
Why You Have to Add Ecstasy to Your Domestic Familiarity
To add ecstasy to your domestic familiarity you have to change your acquired unreactive physiological language toward
your mate. You have to surcharge your whole body—all your organs, not just your sex organs-with the youthful eagerness that can fill your mate with bliss. Love, after all, is an emotional reaction. You cannot love your husband or wife scientifically.
How true is the old saying that “love is blind.” It has to be blind enough to overlook all the picayune imperfections of your mate, for nobody is perfect. You can’t look at your loved one with a microscope when you want to add ecstasy to your romantic relationship. You have to look with the eyes of the enthralled poet or worshipper (or enchanter) who refashions everything about his adored into the acme o f perfection. Such an attitude is the farthest thing from that of a scientist. But it is the most potent stimulator of sexual vitality in you, and the surest one to make a paradise of your home.
And this is why. When you regard your adored one with such eyes, your conscious mind alters your physiological language into that of such a person! Rapturous phrases gush from you then which you could not create if you sat down coolly and tried to.
Your manner, your attitude, your wit, your sensitivity; indeed, your every action and demeanor, change into that of a totally different person. No longer are you still just the romantically- boring, brotherly-like provider (if you are a man), but the dashing, appetizing, conquering Don Juan himself! (If you are a woman, you are changed into a bewitching Cleopatra!) Your heart beats faster, your lungs breathe faster, your mouth waters, your nerves flash dynamically into your tissues, and your brain and body come vibrantly alive with the aggression of the irresistible lover. New, oxygen-rich blood pours rejuvenating hormones into your brain, which are let loose by your new, gland-stimulating physiological language. These incite the neurons of your conscious mind with daring and exciting ideas. These, in turn, flash commands to your muscles, and you move forward to conquer. You are no longer the fraternal mate, but the love-magnet, the love-machine. That’s why you have to add ecstasy to your domestic familiarity.
How Your Usual Mental Attitude Bars Ecstasy from Your Domestic Familiarity
Your usual mental attitude bars ecstasy from your domestic familiarity for many reasons. It represses it with the mores of the
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society you live in, with the laws you are aware of, with your past frustrations, romantically, socially or in business; with your supersensitive recollections of rebuffs, real or imagined, which you have suffered in the past and which you fear might occur again;
with your previous failures or dissatisfactions in your relationship with your mate; with your lack of absolute confidence in your own sexual vigor; with your secret anxiety over your “waning appeal,” resulting mainly from your overawareness of “growing older,” of graying, wrinkling, or even balding; with the infuriating realization that you might never develop into the big money maker you had hoped to become and, therefore, can’t expect to do all you had secretly hoped to do for your loved ones.
These and similar philosophical adjustments to life build up a psychological barrier around your spontaneous behavior that is as difficult to break through as an encasing pipe. They keep your romantic behavior enslaved in a strait jacket and feed upon themselves. Whenever you try to break free from them and find that you can’t, your heart beats like mad and you lose your breath. Dread of failure overtakes you, and you might even break out in the cold sweat of terror. Even your throat and tongue cramp, and you can hardly utter a sound. Your physiological language has altered into that of a romantic impotent. That’s why your usual mental attitude bars ecstasy from your domestic familiarity.
How to Overcome the Influence of Your Usual Mental Attitude Which Bars Ecstasy from Your Domestic Familiarity
To overcome the handicaps of your usual mental attitude and add ecstasy to your domestic familiarity, you have to change the fear-stricken physiological language it creates in you into an advance-and-conquer one. To do so, stop thinking about romance and visualize every muscle in your body, from head to foot, turning into putty. “ Feel” the very hair on your scalp lie back down, the tenseness of your brow ease, the fixity in your eyes soften, your hardbiting jaw hang loose, your tense tongue and neck relax, your shoulders droop easily, your torso become bland, your crouching back smooth out, your arms dangle easily, your hands unclench fully, your legs become flexible, and your toes
stop gripping the ground. Practice this to grow keenly aware of your relaxing every one of these tension-triggering muscles, so they will discharge into your brain, instead, all the nerve- electricity they have locked up in them. Practice it until you can relax them all in three seconds, then two, and finally in one second.
Your heart will slow down swiftly then, and your breath
lessness will leave you. Your brain will flush with blood, and the waste products resulting from your terror and frustration will be washed out of it and new, young, oxygen-filled, properly hormoned blood will replace it. In no time, you will overcome the influence of your usual mental attitude which bars ecstasy from your domestic familiarity.
How to Add Ecstasy to Your Domestic Familiarity
To add ecstasy to your domestic familiarity, change your physiological language into that of an advance-and-conquer lover.
To accomplish that, command your sympathetics from a parasym- pathetics frame of mind. Command them, in other words, not to conquer like a soldier killing on the battlefield, but like a gourmet devouring a delicious meal. Fill your eyes with the eagerness of the predator; your lips with the taste of the glutton; your arms with the feel of the conqueror (or bewitcher, if you are a woman); and the rest of your body with the readiness to overthrow (or spellbind, if you are a woman). Stare at your mate no longer with the brotherly (or sisterly) manner of before, but like a pleasure- seeking stranger. The feeling o f strangeness m ust be fe lt in order to change your physiological language toward your mate.
This feeling of yours stuns your mate and also her (or his) physiological language away from the placid, too-brotherly para- sympathetics one. And so, you two feel like strangers confined to your private quarters now, itching to combat each other for corporeal superiority. You have added ecstasy to your romantic familiarity. You will be charged with sexual vitality and be ready to enjoy explosive marital bliss.
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How to Trigger Sexual V itality and Marital Bliss with the Miracle Mind Magic Stimulator
To trigger yourself into this secret mental power most swiftly, apply the Miracle Mind Magic Stimulator before you even commence it. Sit alone in your room and visualize your regular self changing from a nonentity romantically to a most sensa
tionally satisfying husband (or wife). That is your goal, dream, or wish. Hold that picture in your mind for five seconds.
Then visualize that goal as coming true; visualize yourself changing completely and feeling as you would feel if you were suddenly changed into that kind of person. Visualize yourself facing your mate, bursting with eagerness to conquer (her) or ensnare (him). Maintain that vision for four seconds.
Repeat that procedure three times, as you learned from practicing the Miracle Mind Magic Stimulator in Lesson 3.
Intensify it each time, so you actually visualize and feel yourself change into such a person. Practice getting this sensation of changing into him until your eyes fill with the eagerness of the delighted predator, your mouth and lips with the taste o f the revelling glutton, your hands with the feel of the overjoyed conqueror (or bewitcher), and the rest of you with the readiness to overthrow (or spellbind). Practice until you need to visualize it but once, in three seconds, for your physiological language to speak like that of such a person. You can then trigger the secret mental power for sexual vitality and marital bliss swiftly thereafter and be the conqueror or enslaver.
Below are case histories of some who used this secret mental power for everyday gain. Their names have been changed. Study them and gain even more from them.
How Phillip R. Changed from a Low-Paid Shipping-Room Clerk to a Top Company Salesman Earning Over $100,000 a Year
Phillip R. was sick and tired of being a low-paid shipping- room clerk. “ I was surely born for something better than this!” he moaned. As a young man he had dropped out of college and was faring like so many others with similar fates. He had dreamed of
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