(On the same day / night that you met the girl call her up and say….)
Hey I need your help I’ve got this song stuck in my head. I need to know what is it. “You spin me right round, baby right round, like a record baby right round, round, round” (*Sing the song lyrics down the phone) ok figure it out… and call me back…(*hang up)
(*Two things can happen, 1 she calls you back and tells you, or 2, she doesn’t. if after 5 min’s she still hasn’t replied. Ring her up again)
Dead or Alive Girl: What?…??
Dead or Alive, You spin me right round baby right round……it’s there song….Geez Some use you were, anyway gotta go bye.
NOTE: (*This phone tactic can work with any song….however it’s better if it’s a
really popular song by a little known artist... a one hit wonder basically)
-DAY 2- (Brad P.)
MEET UP FOR COFFEE
Ok lets go meet….well go get coffee. It’ll take like 20mins…..and if it goes well we’ll do something fun afterwards, but don’t worry about that…. I’ll take care of it…..and if not and you turn out to be a total dork…..then that’s cool we’ll go our separate ways… I've got a lot of stuff to do anyway
Girl: I'm not a dork
PUA: well obviously I don’t think that yet, because if I did, you probably wouldn’t have got this far. ---[No Kissing On the First Date routine]
half way through….I’ll tell you how your doing….just so that you don’t get to nervous
ADVENTURE STYLE DATE
(*Just go for a walk together, see what happens PLAN NOTHING….)
Come on lets go on an never ending adventure…..common be spontaneous….you said you were spontaneous when I first met you…..what happened to you……who are you and what have you done with [girls name]
• Go for a walk through town….. • Go in toy shops. And play.
• Go to IKEA and role play with the furniture
• Take random photographs of each other….and then go back to your place to
“edit” them together *wink *wink. And stick them on your face book…page
• Go to open scenery watch the sunset.
• Hire a scooter and visit locations together….(go on a magical mystery tour) • Lie on the grass and look at the sky and pick funny shapes out in the clouds….
• Go butterfly catching….or to a zoo and make fun of the animals….compare her to
the lazy ape. Or the cheeky monkey.
• Go get ice cream….. • Walk on the beach.
• Go on a boat…(Don’t spend to much money)
• Go Rock Climbing, Ice -skating, bungee jumping, skiing
*Tip. DON’T SPEND MONEY, SPEND TIME …..AND GIVE FOOD
*Tip. BE CREATIVE women respond to CREATIVITY. Don’t just copy shit you’ve
seen in a movie.
*Tip. Most guys say...“Well what if there’s nothing going on……..nothing
interesting….FUKING hell man you’re a PUA you have your conversation trick bag at your disposal. Use it as an opportunity connect on a emotional level
MY WORLD DATE
Bring the girl into your world what you like to do….
• Go to a Rock or Jazz or comedy club that you like…….
• Go play Mini Golf……*NEVER REAL GOLF…. *(Real golf is too hard and I can guarantee unless she’s a pro golf player….she will be shit at it. NOT FUN)
• Go play pool / snooker.
• If you play a sport or are in a band…. get her to come and watch your play the increased social proof will do wonders. If your into astrology, look at the stars through a telescope etc.
Tip. (*Try to avoid geeky things, such as Star Trek conventions….trainspoting going
to the Opera…..playing video or board games……such as WoW (World of Warcraft) or D&D (Dungeons and Dragons) UNLESS It’s a Wii game …..cos they are fun …..and girls think the characters are cute. Generally AVIOD anything that will bore the tits of her)
GOING ON ERRANDS DATE
You know what…..I've got a lot of stuff I gotta do today…. but why don’t you come with me…..I gotta go to the supermarket…..and then I'm going shoe shopping.. wanna come.
MOVIE DATE...
Hey I've got a few bits and pieces to finish up regarding work / college but….why don’t you bring your book / laptop over, come over and then afterwards we’ll watch a movie…..yeah I was thinking about watching this cool movie that everybody’s been telling me about….and I've had it sitting around for a while….but I've just been so busy that I ain’t had time to watch it…. It’s [whatever ] (*try to make it a movie you would legitimately have lying around….not some sappy shit romance comedy that’s blatantly done to impress her….cos she’ll see through it….women have brains too. You know. Horror and Comedy are good genres.)
Alternative MOVIE DATE approach...
Hey what are you doing tonight (Nothing) hey I'm gonna grab a movie…on the way over ….I'll be there in 20 mins.
MYSTERY STYLE DATE
(*On the phone)
Hey I want you to meet me on the corner of [wherever] at 8 pm on Tuesday…. Girl: Ok what are we gonna do?
PUA: Nope I'm not telling it’s a secret…..you’ll find out when you get there…. Show up and do what I tell you.
Girl: But what should I wear? What should I bring?
PUA: Erm well….I want you to wear trainers / sneakers just in case…. Girl: Why are we doing some outdoors?….
you get there….geez nothings a mystery to you…. Erm…..I want you wear those jeans you wore the other day when I met you…. Oh and that shirt….that shirt was cute…..but also bring an extra pair of jeans just in case I don’t like the first ones …..oh And also bring another shirt just in case something happens to the first one. (*The change of close is used because at some part in the night your gonna bounce back to your place….. the change of clothes gives her something to wear in the morning to work…..so she can sleepover *Wink Wink.)
Oh and do you have a spice rack……do you have any basal or mixed spice. Girl: Yes / No
PUA: Well I need you to bring some spices over…….and there really important they could potentially ruin the whole date.
(*There is no use for these but it adds to the confusion.)
Bait to get her to come home with you
I am so hungry lets go to your place you can make me a sandwich
Hey remember that movie I was telling you about…..omg I can’t believe you haven’t seen it….come on lets go watch it.
KNOW HER LIVING CONDITIONS !!!!!!!!!!! For logistical reasons
Where do you live? Do you live in London….I bet you live with you mum….right ?…..and your cat….yer your totally a creepy cat girl….and I bet you have a mountain of fluffy teddy beds right next to you bed….and you have to sleep with the light on cos your scared.
NOTE: (*Don’t worry about being wrong…..make assumptions and if they are wrong
she will correct them…)
Dealing with Flaking (Anti - flake)
• I can already tell you’re not even gonna show up…..
• What are the chances of you not showing up 1 in 5, 1 in 10 no that’s not good enough I got better things to do….(*Try to get her to agree to show up)
NOTE: (* If you have successfully built enough attraction……Qualified…..used LMR
breakdown……Bounced to a different location on the night / day of meeting. And restrained the physical escalation….somewhat Then flaking will be severely
reduced….because you’re a high value guy who she wants to hang out with. And get to know better. Plus there is still mystery there because you didn’t blow your load on the first day. Pardon the pun :p)
If you have successfully done all these things then it may be an external factor, that is present in her life which causes her to flake, i.e a boyfriend or other circumstances. BE PERSISTANT…..stay in contact…because you may find her circumstances change suddenly
If she stands you up, i.e. agrees to show up but doesn’t show up, then the next morning, text her with, “Oh My God! I totally forgot about our night out. Did you show up?” (*continue gaming the girl.)
NOTE: (*Also agree to meet her in a public target rich environment then if she flakes
you can game other girls.)
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