CAPÍTULO XIII ESCUELAS DE MANEJO
INFRACCIONES Y SANCIONES
outset to establish how the therapists meet the couple in therapy - both partners
together, individually, or both together and individually as well. That response
would naturally lead on to why they met them in the way they did. Answering why
would provide us with the issues that couples mostly bring to counselling. Since
the issues require an effective response, the best approach to use must be discussed
and the number of approaches they use in their work with couples would also be
brought up and discussed. The discussion would also involve talking about the
circumstances surrounding the use of these approaches in couple therapy and how
to combine the other approaches. I felt the therapists would be ready at this point to
talk about the elements of successful couple therapy and so move freely into the
main factors of the change process in couple therapy. Bearing in mind that my own
topic is the application of focusing-oriented therapy to couple therapy, I thought
that the question of bodily sensations and how the clients describe them might well
be inserted here. Addressing the way the couple therapists usually work with
couples seemed an appropriate way to conclude the interview.
(2) Focusing-oriented therapists
The purpose of the interviews with focusing-oriented therapists was to
explore the circumstances that led them to use the focusing-oriented approach in
working with couples; how Focusing was used; whether the focusing-oriented
approach was effective; how using the focusing-oriented approach made couple
therapy different; and whether they had taught Focusing to couples. Here the
interview was also a semi-structured interview and used thematic prompts (see
Figure 3) that acted as a framework for the focusing-oriented therapists’ interviews and provided consistency and coherence in the interviews. I drafted the thematic
prompts myself, brought the draft for discussion at supervision time and got the
Figure 3. Thematic prompts for focusing-oriented therapists interviews
1. 1. How many sessions working with couples do you have most of the time? 2. 2. How do you meet couples in couple therapy most of the time?
3. 3. When you meet just one partner why is this? 4. 4. How would you define focusing-oriented approach?
5. What were the circumstances that led to you applying the focusing-oriented approach overtly with a couple in your counselling work? (Are there any case examples you could provide? How do you know when and if to the apply focusing-oriented approach?)
5. 6. How is Focusing used in each case?
6. 7. Is the focusing-oriented approach effective in each case? (How? What outcome is achieved?) 7. 8. How does using the focusing-oriented approach make couple therapy different?
8. 9. Do you have a special way of focusing overtly with clients when you work as a counsellor? (If so, how do you do that?)
9. 10. In what other ways does focusing influence your counselling work? 11. Have you taught Focusing to couples?
The interviews with the focusing-oriented therapists were expected not to
last longer than one hour (Appendix 9: Interview invitation: How to work with
couples) and I wanted to make maximum use of that time. The first three questions
were similar to the ones asked of the couple therapists and they could be answered
quite quickly. I thought it was important to ask them to clarify their definition of
the focusing-oriented approach before going on to talk about using the focusing-
oriented approach with couples. That clarification would also make it easier for
them to explore the circumstances surrounding the application of the focusing-
oriented approach to couple counselling work and it would be better still if they
had case examples to back it up. It seemed to me that all of these thematic prompts
were a good lead up to how one knows when, and if, to apply the focusing-oriented
approach. For myself I was really eager to know how focusing is used in each case,
whether it is effective in each case and if so, the outcome achieved. At this stage of
the discussion I felt the therapist would be ready to talk about how using the
focusing-oriented approach makes couple therapy different. Following on quite
naturally from this would be descriptions of their own special way of focusing
overtly with clients when they work as counsellors. Before concluding the
influences their counselling work. The final thematic prompt touched on the
question of teaching focusing to couples.
(3) General comments on the interview process
Permission was sought from each interviewee to allow the interviewer to
facilitate them to explore in-depth what they had shared. While the interviewer is
both a facilitator and a guide in a semi-structured interview, he or she does not
dictate what will happen in the course of the meeting (Smith, 2008, p.63). In semi-
structured interviews, the interviewee is invited to tell a story or to make some kind
of a narrative relevant to all or part of their own life-experience (Wengraf, 2001,
p.5). The interviewer gave them space to talk about their experience as they wished.
The interviews were conducted informally, on the telephone mainly,
because of geographical distance and because the interviewees preferred the
telephone interview to a face-to-face one. The tape-recorder was switched on after
explaining the confidentiality of the data. Every effort was made to keep the
interviewees safe from harm. One must always evaluate to the extent to which
simply talking about sensitive issues might constitute ‘harm’ for any particular
participant or participant group. The management of data collection events such as
interviews and focus groups requires sensitivity and care. It is important to work
with supervisors and peers to anticipate any safety issues for the researcher and the
participant. It is also important to think about how to provide participants with
access to appropriate support. If there is any chance that the interview may be
upsetting for some of the participants, then there will be need to provide all of them
with access to the appropriate support. The principle of protecting anonymity can
usually be upheld by taking practical steps to inform, protect and gain consent from
the participants. Pains were also taken to gain the rapport and trust of the interviewee by building a conversational partnership. The interviewees were gently
required to explain and to validate their thinking and experience in an effort to
understand the phenomena better. This requirement kept the interview sensitively
challenging and sensing.