KINO.
I've noticed a lot of people were making threads and asking:
"How do I make things more sexual??? plz help" "How do I touch a girl???"
"How far is too far when I touch a girl?"
Fasten your seat belts, players. Here is the Kino guide!
WHAT exactly is kino?
Kino is the art of touching a girl.
WHY do we use kino?
We use kino to put a girl in: -The Comfort Zone -The Attraction Zone
HOW do we use kino?
I am going to explain two styles of kino for you guys now.
The first is the slow, gradual way of using kino. That one has a very low risk but can take a while to spice things up.
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I will also provide you with some tips.
First. What kino can be used to put a girl in the comfort zone? Any touches you would use with your friends, including but not limited to:
-High fives -Fistbumps
-Shoulder and elbow touches (really harmless)
These will be quick. When you would touch a stranger and immediately leave your hand on their shoulder while you talk...
It just doesn't feel right. Not for them, and neither for you.
The attraction zone
Kino that will make a girl more attracted to you is touching places on the body that are sensitive or usually protected.
Those are usually places where arteries are present.
That is the reason girls (and humans in general) protect them. It is why we usually will not bare our neck to a stranger.
It is also why we fold our arms (protect arteries in your arms, and you protect some vital organs with your arms)
Example of such places: -inner arms
-waist -neck -lower back
-foot soles (but please don't start touching those in the middle of the dancefloor.)
How do I escalate kino?
Here I'm going to tell you about the two different ways.
Type 1
This is the slow one, but has the highest success rate. I will tell you most about nightgame, cause that's what I'm best at.
When you go up to a girl and you want to talk to her. You will IMMEDIATELY touch her when you talk to her.
Example of the moment you have to do this:
"Hey" *light touch on elbow or shoulder* "I thought you were adorable, and I just had to come say hi."
Don't leave your hand there too long. 2 seconds when you use the opener should be enough. It gets awkward if it's longer.
She will be used to you touching her right off the bat.
Everytime you say something funny, you will touch her. Everytime she says something funny, you will touch her.
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Escalation: As I already said, you start with light elbow and shoulder touches,
because those are pretty insensitive parts of the body.
As you notice she is comfortable with that (almost ALWAYS), you can move the touches to her upper arm.
You can put your hand around her shoulder when you're showing her something. She WILL notice this, and she WILL move away if she's not comfortable.
Remember: IF SHE DOESN'T MOVE AWAY, YOU CAN CONTINUE ESCALATING.
Next step would be touching her waist while you say something. Again, she WILL notice this, and if she's fine with it, she won't do anything.
Next step is lower back. If you can hold her lower back, you're already doing really well. This is the typical "boyfriend-spot",
the spot boyfriends touch their girlfriends when they're out in public together. You can now easily pull her in closer. So you do it. You pull her hips into yours.
Next steps are neck, face and hair. If you can touch those (find a good excuse though), you can be sure you're into the Attraction Zone.
She IS attracted to you and lets you touch her face. This means you can go for the kiss soon.
If you want to go for the kiss, give her some triangular gazing, maybe touch her face with the back of your hand (optional )
You should FEEL when the time is right. Using this type of kino, you can't really rush anything. Unless she gives you a good opportunity.
Other things you can do are:
-Take her hand(s). Look at her reaction. Hands are the easiest body part to pull back when she doesn't want you to do it.
It's also a great way to tell if she's really into you. A great tip: Squeeze her hands softly and she squeezes back, she's into it.
-Take her arms and put them around your neck.
-Notice something she's wearing (best things: bracelets and necklaces) and touch it while you say something about it, simultaneously touching the skin under it. -Boob kino. Let's say you're holding a cup/glass of beer. You can, while you're talking
and gesturing, brush her boob with the back of your hand. She will think you don't know what you're doing. It WILL turn them on though.
-Example: you're in a couch, there are people in front of you talking to you and the girl next to you in the couch. You can stroke her back while you keep talking normally.
Nobody sees it, and it creates a little "secret-feeling".
-You're in a couch again. When you're sitting close enough to have your legs touching. Move your leg to the beat, brushing against her. If she likes you, she'll keep her leg
there. Attraction building.
-Pussy kino example: you want to take her to someplace else, you start walking and hold your hand out for hers when you start walking. Instead of grabbing her hand,
you "miss" and brush your hand over her pants. If executed like a baws, it should seem like an accident.
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!! Attention !!
-You can skip any step. The problem is that you increase the risk of her suddenly saying "no" or moving away.
-If she RETURNS your kino. That means she starts touching you back, or wrap her arms around you. If this happens, you can escalate WAY faster.
Type 2
This is the fast way. You do have a high risk of immediate rejection when you use this.
This is also the one Jason used in the last vid.
You see a girl. You go up to her and immediately pull her into you, hands on her lower back immediately.
You open while or just after you're doing this.
She WILL be overwhelmed, and might not know what to do at first. Use that to your advantage and keep holding her close while you start talking.
Because you've done that first bold move (they call it The Claw) you can now escalate really quickly, because she KNOWS that's about to happen.
Using this technique, you can get to those 30 second kiss closes. Confidence is the absolute key in this technique.
EDIT: You should feel comfortable about all the kino you're doing. If you think it's weird, or act like it's weird, SHE will think it's weird.
EDIT2: Kino alone won't get you the kiss/quick fuck. It's possible, but you shouldn't focus on kino only. Kino is used to back up your conversation. If your conversation
sucks, kino could be crap.
EDIT3: What to touch/do when kissing. You can grab a fistful of hair at the back of her neck, and then close your hand. It will generate some pressure on the skin of her
head. DON'T PULL THOUGH, pulling hurts like shit. Doing this will make her really really horny. You can also just hold her face with one or both hands, or grab her chin
to pull her into a kiss.