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A SMOOTH way to phase shift on a chick, is to STRUCTURE something that will cause the two of you to be TOUCHING eachother for an extended period of time, in a way that she won’t mind or resist.

A great way to do that is to watch a movie together, and spoon on the couch. Often, she didn’t really intend to sleep with you, but the 2 hours of spooning and caressing will cause her to turn over at the end of the movie, start kissing, touching, clothes come off, etc etc.. Especially after a movie that stimulates her in some way (be it romance, action, sex, comedy, whatever)

But BETTER YET, for chicks who won’t rent a movie with you, just focus on getting them reasonably isolated, and trying this out.

Wait until the chick does ANYTHING that allows you to bring up that she’s a little “wound up / ansi / etc”..

Then, tell the chick that you’re gonna help her to “relax”, but still stand kinda FAR away from her, so she won’t think that you’re gonna suggest massage or something, in case she resists on that account.

1-Tell her to sit on the floor, while you’re STILL STANDING, looking kinda disinterested not totally facing her, so she’s disarmed.

2-Now, she’s already SITTING DOWN maybe cross-legged. Then YOU sit down on the floor, against the wall, and without looking guilty or anything (like its totally NORMAL), tell her to put

her back up against yours, so that she’s sitting in between the V, in between your legs. So basically, you’re leaning back on the wall, with your legs spread so she can lean her back against your stomach. You’re “spooning” while sitting up.

3-Tell her that she’s going to “visualize” some kind of bullshit. Hold hands with her, and interlock your fingers. Again, this is part of the RELAXATION EXERCISE, and it has to be made to seem TOTALLY NORMAL, so that she will seem WEIRD and UPTIGHT and ANALLY RETENTIVE if she doesn’t go along with it. NOTE: the POWERFUL part of this, is that you’re both ALREADY sitting down on the floor, so if she DECLINES, them you both have to STAND UP, and BRUSH OFF, all for NOTHING.. SOLELY because she’s uptight, and doesn’t trust you.. so basically she’s put in a position where she has to diss you REALLY BAD, if she doesn’t go along with it, because of the way that you STRUCTURED it, by getting her to sit down, and you sitting down, PRIOR to you telling her exactly what it is that you’re doing

4-Memorize some lame-ass RELAXATION EXERCISE. The “Rose Pattern”, found in the

PlayerGuide can suffice for this. I used to use it, but use a synesthetic hypnotic demo now, which is basically the SAME SHIT as that anyway. Run the exercise, and ANCHOUR certain feelings to her by squeezing her hand at certain points, if you feel her breathing increase. I’m not really good at anchours and I dunno if they’re real or not, but I just try anyway, since I figure it’s a decent time to touch her or whatever.

5-Now, while you run this demo that should take like 4-5 minutes or so, start talking INTO HER EAR… closer and closer..

6-Run your lips accidentally into her hair, ear, neck, whatever, until she LEANS IN, and then start KISSING HER CHEEK accidentally as you talk..

7-She’s on the floor already, so you just sort of lean her sideways over, start tonguing her down, and then you’re on your own bros! :)

ENDGAME - LAST MINUTE RESISTANCE:

Personally, I really like Maniac_High’s stuff on LMR. I use the traditional ASF stuff here. Some general guidelines for LMR from ASF that I use have always been:

-“you’re right, we should stop” - and KEEP going, which DISENGAGES her logical brain, since she is TRYING to REMOVE HERSELF FROM STATE, by getting you to ARGUE.. She is

ENJOYING it TOO MUCH, so she will try to play off of YOU in order to piss herself off with your arguing, and snap herself out of state.. by AGREEING, and continuing, she is left in a position where SHE will have to do the dirty work if she wants to stop.. that doesn’t mean to keep going if she physically resists WHATSOEVER.. it just means if she’s still passionately into it, then just say “you’re right, we should stop”, and WASH RINSE REPEAT, as Maniac_High says.. IOW, just keep making out or doing whatever the act is that you’re doing, and try to escalate it in another 10 minutes or so, to see if “we should stop” really means “I am not horny enough yet, and need more foreplay”

-figure out HOW she likes it.. Try getting REALLY INTENSE, and pinning her arms up behind her head and shit like that.. maybe she doesn’t like that.. so adapt, and make it really tender and sweet and all that shit.. structure it so she’s being a big doofus for putting the brakes on, since its just clicking so well.

-Barring that, the FREEZE OUT – if she resists too much, but her attraction is still ESCALATING, you can TIME IT so that you literally just GET UP and totally LJBF her. Make her feel STUPID for RUINING such a MAGICAL and PASSIONATE moment. I learned this first from the Mystery archive, with his “get up and play checkers” bit.. Then he explained it to me more in real life, and showed me a video of how to do it that was really sweet. Just remember to stay totally COOL about it, and don’t make it OBVIOUS that you’re trying to manipulate her. Don’t let your indifference appear TRANSPARENT, or it’ll just piss her off.

OK that’s it.

For me, following my own advice is probably something that I do only SOMETIMES. During PU, I can “assert my own reality” at my top ideal capacity maybe 10% of the time. Yet during these times, I can perform at elite levels. Other times, I may do average/alright, or even downright horribly. It depends on how I feel, and a lot on how the NON pickup related stuff in my life is going, which is why I make pickup a LOW PRIORITY compared to other things.

Pickup has been a great hobby for me this year, because its been an OUTLET for a greater goal of personal development. I have enjoyed it, and encourage others who feel interested to participate in the endeavour.