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Broup5 alt.seduction.fast.general Author5 60 years of challenge
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n my e!perience itDs definitely better to start by using non2verbal statements of interest like seductive eye contact, touch, and moving closer versus using verbal statements of interest. $owever, this is not an indirect method. You still show her you are interested, but you do it non2verbally.
The main advantage is there can be no verbal re"ection of vibe. tDs all happening on a different channel of communication. /or e!ample let*s assume you move closer to her which is a non2verbal statement of interest but she takes a step back. :espite this temporary setback, escalating in this manner keeps the logic of why she is resisting you from becoming real in her mind.
n other words, because her resistance has not been verbali8ed it*s almost like it never happened. /or e!ample, if you blurt out Gwe
should e!change numbersG or Gyou are cuteG as your first sign that you are interested she can simply re"ect you. +he can say 1why donDt you give me your number3 or give you some other e!cuse.
This idea is similar to when an orbiter finally caves by blurting out GwhatDs going on with usG and gets the let*s "ust be friends speech.
7ow his re"ection is out in the open. t has become official and real. $e has little chance of turning that frame around and getting the girl. As such, he was much better off keeping his big mouth shut and
escalating the vibe with her non2verbally instead.
%henever you make verbal statements of interest like giving
compliments you run the risk of getting verbal resistance. This is bad because even if she does like you this GDm resisting himG frame
becomes real. t becomes real because she is the one verbali8ing it.
9y showing your interest non2verbally you can get away with many more points of resistance in the back and forth dance of seduction. n contrast, you do not have as much leeway with constant resistance to your verbal escalations or physical displays of interest.
?lus you can tell way more about her real interest in you with moves like moving closer or holding seductive eye contact. That*s because when you escalate verbally or physically she will sometimes resist you
even if she likes you so she doesn*t seem promiscuous. #specially if her friends or co2workers are watching her.
&sing non2verbal statements of interest escalating vibe gives you unlimited escalation opportunities with the same girl. 7o matter what happens, itDs almost as if you have never been officially re"ected.
There are many e!amples of how talking can lead to bad things. As such, never ask a Euestion you donDt know the answer to. 4y riginal ?ost from mA+/
ener!ting *ttr!ction $y ,sc!l!ting the Vi$e
:ate5 anuary =rd, -00< 0J50J5-= ?4 #+T
Broup5 alt.seduction.fast.general Author5 60 years of challenge
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You can generate attraction and seduce women "ust by escalating the vibe. /or e!ample, holding eye contact, se!ual visuali8ations and
talking slowly. r "ust shut up and get her talking while you look at her seductively. This is what refer to as seductive listening. t*s your
se!ual vibe not your talking or touching that creates the initial attraction.
The best part is by escalating the vibe she has nothing verbal to re"ect or physical to resist. There is no risk of re"ection. ThatDs great news all you guys who are afraid to reveal your interest verbally and escalate physically.
n contrast verbal escalations such as verbal statements of interest
compliments or se! talk can be verbally re"ected.
You can create all the se!ual tension you need with small escalations.
You can calibrate much better with small escalations. And there is less verbal re"ection and physical resistance when you micro2escalate.
The only thing you have to do is calibrate to how she reacts to things like your seductive eye contact. After escalating the vibe if she chooses to stay talking to a man with such an obvious Gmasculine presenceG
and Gse!ual auraG you know you have a good lead on your hands.
9elieve me women know e!actly what your intentions are when you escalate the vibe. You don*t have to tell them verbally or physically.
The ne!t step after escalating the vibe is to solidify the connection you are building physically. f she stays with you after you escalate the vibe you should definitely touch her.
:on*t worry you can still micro2escalate physically. /or e!ample move closer and brush against her. :oes she move back or stayH Brab her hand for a few seconds and let go. :oes she look nervous out or is she comfortable with youH
These physical escalations are also attractive so they generate even more interest. Again in this system both the attraction and the
escalation are happening at the e!act same time. As such proper calibration to her reactions is key. 4y riginal ?ost from mA+/
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:ate5 :ecember th, -00 0<5;=5-0 ?4 #+T
Broup5 alt.seduction.fast.general Author5 60 years of challenge
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There is no waiting. You escalate right away non2verbally. You move closer. :oes she stay or move backH You look at her seductively. :oes she hold your ga8e or look awayH You shut up and go silent. :oes she restart the conversation or use the silence as an e!cuse to ignore youH
#ven if there is some resistance to these micro2escalations, which are attractive, it hasnDt been verbali8ed. You are still in the game. ontrast that with a guy whoDs first statement of interest is verbal you are
cute or physical going for a kiss.
9ecause he didn*t escalate the vibe and calibrate her reaction to it he didnDt know the answer to the Euestion can kiss you before he
asked it. %hen you ask verbal Euestions you get verbal answers, and most of the time it*s not the answer you were looking for. 7ow you are already in damage control.
(et*s say you want to isolate a girl from her friends. f you say 1let*s go grab a Euiet spot where we can talk3 she can "ust say no. nstead "ust grab her hand and lead her off. f she let*s go of your hand and
doesn*t comply, the resistance still wasn*t verbali8ed. You can try again in a few minutes without looking needy. 4y riginal ?ost from 4asf
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Broup5 alt.seduction.fast.general Author5 60 years of challenge
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There are many things that can create attraction. The seduction
community has provided us with an endless supply of tools to choose from. 9ut in the end each man has to decide what he wants to create attraction for him. That*s because he inevitably will focus on that when interacting with women.
/or e!ample if a guy thinks itDs his value stories or his cocky2funny attitude that creates attraction, then those things will be his main focus in his interactions with women. #ven worse is a guy has no idea what creates attraction for him so he "ust wings it.
believe that my escalations create attraction, so concentrate on
that. 4y initial focus is on escalating the vibe. tDs really "ust a mindset.
f you believe escalation will create attraction for you it will. +ure, might tease women and Eualify them. *m also pretty interesting and
*ve been told tell a good story. like to dress good. All these things get can get me in the door and give me an opportunity to seduce her.
9ut would be a complete fool to think that these things were doing the ma"ority of the work for me. %hen it comes to creating attraction, it is escalation of the vibe that is doing the heavy lifting.
A lot of guys ask me how can escalation create attraction. To some people it makes no sense. #scalation is attractive because escalation
shows confidence and women still rank confidence as a very attractive Euality in a man.
use escalation for everything. fully believe can use my micro2 escalations to create se!ual tension and be a challenge. Yes, you can escalate the vibe and still be a challenge.
You really only need one tool when out seducing women. #scalation.
4y riginal ?ost from 4asf
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Broup5 alt.seduction.fast.general Author5 60 years of challenge
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nstead of talking so much let the dance of seduction play itself out on the non2verbal level. n other words let her GphysicalG reactions be your guide of what to do ne!t. 'emember verbal resistance is not an official re"ection.
n other words, ignore everything she says in those situations. +he could be using push2pull on you, pri8ing herself or not want to look promiscuous. %e really can*t be sure.
Buys who put too much stock in what a woman says are usually too sensitive anyway. The only way to find out the truth about her interest level is to micro2escalate non2verbally and calibrate her reaction.
/or e!ample she says or looks at you like GyouDre weirdG but she lets you touch her. %hich reaction is the real reflection of her interest levelH Your ego is not always going to get what it is looking for from her on the verbal level. You donDt always get verbal reassurance and confirmation from women that you are liked. Again, let her physical reactions to you be your guide.
You get more opportunities to overcome her physical resistance
because itDs happening on a non2verbal channel. You only get so many verbal re"ections before it becomes real to her. The reason it becomes real is because itDs been verbali8ed. 4y riginal ?ost /rom mA+/