1.2. MODELOS TEÓRICOS PARA LA DETERMINACIÓN DE CRISIS CAMBIARÍAS
1.2.2. MODELOS ALTERNATIVOS EN LA DETERMINACIÓN DE LAS CRISIS CAMBIARÍAS
The more high-end the venue, the easier it is to actually get in and get a table. It’s just that nobody even tries to do it.
Also, in high-end venues, you have more SOCIAL CAPITAL POTENTIAL.
Always go to the place where the most SOCIAL EQUITY is able to be attained.
Simple way to do it is by e-mail. Tell them that you would like to check it out and so that someone would greet you by the door.
You do this because very often most high rollers send someone to check out the venue before they go there.
There is zero downside, only potential upside for the nightclub, so they will let you in 100%.
Luke has e-mailed his way into many many nightclubs.
All of your recon that you need to do is on social media.
Any name dropping you might want to do, you will find on social media. You can find out the names of the promoters, managers, owners, door guys and even staff if you dig deep enough.
Do Your Research!
NFU List (No Fuck-Up List) - Means they have to get you on the list by any means necessary. Try to get yourself on this list.
NOTE: Alcohol for nightclubs is super fucking cheap, it’s almost free. This info might come in handy.
Giving people positive rewards when they help you is the nicest and most rewarding thing that you can do for YOURSELF.
When someone does something good for you, tell them that you’re happy and glad that they did that for you, and they will keep wanting to do it.
When you tell someone in the service industry “Thank you for your hospitality” it shows them that you are in the know with the verbiage and that you are someone that gives a shit about
relationship building
BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE IN THE INDUSTRY WILL GET YOU CRAZY CASCADING
ALLOCATES.
You could have everything you could possibly want from these allocates, but YOU have to show them FIRST that you CARE about that relationship and that you are WILLING to build it.
If you don’t invest into the relationship FIRST, than it’s just not going to happen.
Once you realize that there is this thing called “THE
INDUSTRY”, once you are able to identify and associate with it, use correct verbiage, it will portray you as an industry person yourself and you will be treated like one (with respect).
Building a strong relationship with a gatekeeper to a venue will get you free cover forever.
And also to other clubs, because they all know eachother.
Drive through their network and all of a sudden you have
access to all the clubs in that city through one gatekeeper. That one gatekeeper knows all the other gatekeepers.
This will save you shit ton of money.
You want to make it so that you are on the guest list on every high-end venue in the city every day of the week, all year
round. It doesn’t have to be every club, just the high-end ones that actually matter.
“Hey can you write me a slip?”
Is a great way to get in as it implies that you are in the industry just because you know about this. It shows that you are in the know and are trying to make that persons job easier.
JUST GIVE THEM A REASON AND THEY WILL LET YOU INTO THE CLUB EVERY TIME. YOU NEED A REASON.
Know how the processes work to the extent so that you don’t have to go through general admission ever.
NEVER walk into general admission. Go straight to the door guy and talk your way in.
You NEVER want to set the frame that you are the ‘general admission’ type of person. You know your worth, you are the VIP.
If you befriend the gatekeeper, it is then easy to befriend promoters, managers, owners, hosts, etc…
If you befriend them, you will have no problem getting into that club ever again.
Befriending the promoters, managers, owners, hosts, etc will get you tables as well.
The wine Sommelier. Make friends with him. Really hot girls like really nice wine, even if they know nothing about it, they still like to be part of the culture. The wine sommelier is the HNIC of wine.
THE LONG TERM GOAL OF SOCIAL CIRCLE GAME IS FOR YOU TO BE THE HNIC OF ANY AND EVERY SITUATION THAT YOU ARE IN.
Make friends with managers of restaurants and they will do special favours for you or maybe even give you discounts of comp meals.
make friends with the general management staff to get half off / comp / discounted meals.
This saves HUGE amounts of money.
ONCE YOU BUILD TRUST AND EXCHANGE VALUE WITH PROMOTERS / MANAGERS / OWNERS / HOSTS, THEY WILL SEE THAT IT’S SAFE TO INTRODUCE YOU TO THE PEOPLE THAT THEY KNOW.
THIS IS HOW YOU BUILD HIGH STATUS CONNECTIONS.
They have to trust you and know that it’s safe for them to
introduce you to other people, without there being any negative social repercussions for them.
The deeper you drive through the network, the more of a cascading effect it creates.
You have to make a very safe environment for them to introduce you to the people that they know.
IF YOU DO THIS, YOU NOW HAVE ACCESS TO MORE PEOPLE AND SERVICES.
You don’t need to have every club in the city covered. Only the ones that MATTER.
If you can’t get into a venue or the club, then you don’t have enough status to hit on the girls there. Period.
On social media, find a manager / promoter of a venue that’s always ‘on-site’, that’s recently been promoted (people get promoted weekly, even daily) and compliment them on their recent promotion. You will get very good feedback. Take the conversation from there, befriend him, and use him to get you into the club.
THE MORE EXCITED YOU GET WHEN YOU SEE SOMEONE YOU DON’t KNOW, THE MORE EVERYONE ELSE THINKS THAT YOU KNWO THAT PERSON WELL.
Even the person himself will think that he knows you but haven’t seen you in a long time and forgotten your name.
This actually works. Do it.
Example:
Find a club promoter / manager that you don’t know or that doesn’t know you. When you see him, point at him and shout
“There he goes! Walking away like he doesn’t fucking see me!”
If you get very excited and overexaggerate it when you see someone, the more they will feel like they have known you for ages.
Be very excited and ASSUMING.
^ Open INDUSTRY people this way ^
Industry people know a lot of people, so they will just act as if they’ve known you for ages even if you just met them.
When you have super high social proof at a venue, be very humble and polite, You can always drop the status card if you need to, but if you act humble and polite, it shows that you have respect for people doing their job.
Don’t throw your weight around at places where you already have comp bottles and VIP. Be respectful. You already have the status you need, you don’t want to lose it.
When you’re using social game to make or save money, the biggest aspect of the whole thing is BALANCE.
And it becomes quite difficult to maintain when you have many social connections. So maintain it with Value Arbitrage.
You can burn bridges fast if you don’t create the balance. There MUSt be balance.
If you only take, or only give, there is no balance.
THERE MUST BE A BALANCE IN THE EXCHANGE OF VALUE.
You give and you get. You get and you give. That’s how you maintain.
Every time you’re getting something financially in return out of something, there is an equity that you have to give back.
Also, you should never be paying cover, you should always be sitting at the best table, in the best area, of the best venue. It’s your priviledge.
You should know all the numbers of the best tables in the best venues.
If you are going to live this lifestyle, then this is something that
you should just always get. It’s no discussion. And you don’t have to balance this and give back for it. It’s something that just must always happen.
How to initiate the Table Drill:
Go up to an industry person and say “Hey, my buddy is at that table *point to desired table*, can you tell me what table
number that is?
Say it’s 33 for example.
Next, go up to a host and say “Hey, I’m at table number 33, can you show me where it is?”
They escort you and then you do the table drill.
It’s just not fair. There are some girls, they just go up and they will instantly be seated at a VIP table just because they are hot and they dress well.
If you don’t do Table Drills, you will just never have access to them.
The hottest of the girls are at the tables. If you don’t do the Table Drills, you will get lower quality girls. You don’t want that shit.
STYLE. When you approach a venue, how you dress is HUGE!
It’s not about dressing well or poorly.
It’s about dressing in an appointed way to the nightclub setting.
It’s about dressing SMART.
1st Stage: The clothes that give them absolutely no reason to say no based on your appearance. It follows the dress code.
Verbally, give them a reason to say yes and you won’t have to pay the cover charge. Name drop or get someone to escort you in.
Try to get seated at a table first thing when you get into the club.
2nd Stage: Dress like a VIP host or promoter. It’s the suit with
pocket square, cool funky trendy shoes and nice gelled hair.
The suit is important because it shows that you give a shit about your appearance. Hair also. Hair is VERY important.
If you care about your appearance as much as they care about your appearance in the club, it shows relationship building.
The shoes CAN NOT be trainers, tennis shoes, or basketball shoes. NO.
Creative wrecks, Chucks and Supras work well. Nightclubs won’t say no to them.
MAKE INDUSTRY PEOPLE THINK THAT YOU ARE ONE OF THEM.
THIS IS HOW YOU GET FREE STUFF AND GET INTRODUCED TO PEOPLE.
You don’t want to lie to them and tell them that you are. You just give the impression.
3rd Stage: The Degenerate Thot.
You can wear a hat with a nightclub logo and they will let you in, even tough hats aren’t allowed. But you having the logo means that you are a person of value.
Have the crazy shoes. The gold, diamond encrusted sneakers and shit. Something ridiculous. Maison Margiella, etc… The shoes have to have everyone going “What the fuck is that?!
Those are awesome!”.
Wear the outfit that’s “Whatever the fuck you want to wear” but it’s fucking awesome. It’s the shit that celebrities such as Justin Bieber would wear.
Justin Bieber clothes. They are not weird, it’s just you aren’t used to them, they intimidate you. It’s hard to start wearing designer clothing because you are self conscious about your
bullshit ‘identity’. Once you do start wearing it, and be pulling off awesome outfits, it will be a game changer.
Just observe what the coolest guys in the club and the coolest celebrities wear. Just wear what they wear.
Stop holding onto your bullshit identity. This is what’s holding you back from adapting and trying new things. Let your identity change and adapt. Just do it! Spice up your life, and stop being this ‘identity’ motherfucker. Be an adaptive entity that always changes up. Don’t be intimidated by change.
Style shows people that you belong in high status areas.
STYLE PORTRAYS YOUR STATUS.
Girls don’t matter. They ain’t shit. Girls in most places are a commodity. There is no shortage of fresh hot girls, they are just everywhere.
If you walk up with 9 girls to a club, they will be let in, but you won’t.
Girls are not going to impress no-one. Nobody gives a shit because there is an overabundance of girls.
Also, it’s important that you don’t enter the club in groups.
If you have friends, go individually or in pairs and don’t even make eye contact with the rest of the group until everyone is inside.
Going in with all your friends is just not going to work…
TO GET IN TO ANY HIGH-END NIGHTCLUB, ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS LOOK LIKE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU’RE DOING.
Give them a reason!
VERY IMPORTANT:
If you can’t get a girl into a club, you’re finished. She will forever think that you are a low-status loser.
NEVER bring a girl that’s waiting in line into the club. If they are in any line at all, they are way too low status, and most likely tourists if you’re in Vegas. No social circle can be built with them.
NEVER wait in ANY line with ANY girl.
Waiting in line for anything at all shows low status. THIS IS TERRIBLE!
Girls will get so turnt off if you wait in line for anything or get denied entry to something. She will leave you so fast. She doesn’t need someone who cant provide basic shit for her.
You MUST have status in order to date attractive women.
If you don’t maintain and improve your status, they will leave you and / or cheat on you.
STATUS IS KING!
It must be maintained and improved from time to time in order to date 9s and 10s.
There is no other way!
THIS MATTER SO FUCKING MUCH!
You can be rich and cool and whatever you want, but if you don’t have status, you cannot date 9s and 10s. This is
evolutionary psychology. It’s the way of the world. The higher the status, the more and the hotter the bitches.
Ways to get a table:
1: Knowing a number of a table. Knowing the name of the waitress who serves that table.
You an open the waitress for 5 seconds just to exchange
names. DO NOT WASTE HER TIME. The more of her time that you waste, the more money comes out of her pocket.
2: Going up and saying “What up table neighbour!”
This implies that you have a table of your own and that you’re not trying to take anything from that table.
3: Have a FULL drink in hand of whatever and go up and open
the table
When you have a full drink it makes it very very clear that you don’t want anything from that table because you have your own.
Lower the walls of that table and make it very clear that you are not trying to leech off of them. Do this and they will let you stay and become friends.
Realize that if you are at a comp table, people will not drink too much alcohol. They don’t need all the alcohol so you can take some for your own personal reasons (stunts and spectacles) if you want to.
People don’t buy the tables for the bottles. That’s stupid. They buy the tables for the STATUS and all the hot GIRLS.
The tables are for high value guys to talk to high value girls without being bothered by lower value people.
Show them that you are not going to bother them.
Instead create a scene, a spectacle, a story to remember.
It’s a fear of missing out for them, so that they want to have you at their table and in their life in general.
Get everybody involved very quickly. Create a stir for yourself in the first few seconds. Make your activity grandiose. STIR THE POT!
Once you are at the table, you want to escalate on ZERO girls.
6,7, maybe 8s love kino, but 9s and 10s and any high status girl for that matter won’t tolerate that shit.
Escalating in High Value Situations is BAD because the girls don’t like it and it’s just too much.
You want to make sexual jokes and be very sexually
suggestive, but NO KINO. However there is an exception for accidental kino, but still.
DO NOT ESCALATE EVEN WHEN THE GIRL IS ESCALATING ON YOU!
Don’t do that shit at the table! Do it when you pull her. You can kiss, but no escalating.
PERPETUAL PERSISTENCE.
The name of the game is to stay with the girl as long as possible.
STAY IN SET AS LONG AS POSSIBLE!
Cannot stress the importance of this in the long run.
Pull the bitches at the end of the night.
You close MINIMUM 50% of the girls you talk to when doing social circle game.
If you don’t, you are doing something wrong.
You have to realize that all of these 9s and 10s are fucking somebody. That somebody is just not you.
So motherfucker, put yourself in a position where that somebody is you and that somebody will be you.
It’s so simple.
If the table group isn’t receptive to you, just be in the area. Walk through the area. Open another table, they will see it, and start to become receptive.
But don’t bobble around tables like a bobblehead not knowing what to do, because it will get you kicked out.
SUPER IMPORTANT!
Don’t open all girl comp tables. You will get kicked out of it because it’s not comp for you. Also, they don’t need you there, it’s a girls thing.
Open tables with AT LEAST one male.
Once you make friends with the guy who owns the table, nobody can tell you to leave.
The goal is not to essentially to be at the table with a lot of girls.
The essential goal is to fave a fuck ton of money by not paying for the tables yourself.
If you’re at the tables all of the time, you are stacking the deck in your favour.
If you want to hook up with hotter girls than everyone else, then just always surround yourself with the hottest girls.
The more often you are around hot girls, the more often you will hook up with 9s and 10s.
Because of this, even when your game is shitty, you’re still
Because of this, even when your game is shitty, you’re still