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Shared Drinks or Food

When a girl offers to let you try her drink (or actually you get her to let you do this through subtle suggestion), this is an intimate hoop that she is jumping through. That is, letting a man she just met in a bar share a beer, suck on a straw or take a bite of pizza may be a stepping stone to a kiss. Calibrate and go for the kiss if you feel it’s on. Likewise, you can take the reigns and start sipping from her drink periodically, uninvited; alpha males take what they want.

Stolen Kisses

If a target asks for a drink and you’re in a large venue with lots of people, say “ok, well normally if I buy a girl a drink, she first needs to give me something. So pucker up.” You can get a kiss from her, then disappear ‘to buy her a drink’ and never return. Or if you are running a good set, you can buy the drink as a reward for the kiss.

Hug Dynamics

Hugging is an important form of kino, and a lot of info is subcommunicated during the hug. Hugs can be given during the pick up as a way to release possible anger after you overneg the target. They can be done at the conclusion of a pickup to solidify the emotional connection that has been created. As with all kino escalation, you need to be the one to release first. A woman can IOI or IOD during a hug. For example, a ‘pity pat’ occurs when a girl pats you on the back during the hug. This subcoms disinterest or that you have hugged too long, and the PUA may respond by pushing her off and going into a DHV routine. A PUA can IOD a girl a bit at the start of a Day 2 by giving her a pity-pat, then at the end of the date if things went well, give a real IOI hug. When she hugs breasts first she is probably sending an IOI, as opposed to when she avoids chest-to-chest contact,

which may be an IOD. If a hug is accompanied by her touching your neck or hair, of if she presses her cheek to yours, or puts her head on your chest, these may be IOIs.

The Extrahug (Decibel)

You may find at the end of a date a girl will give you a hug...then after 5 seconds she may tighten her hug for another 5 or so seconds (and mmmm a bit). This is the extrahug.

This is a great tactic that subcoms a whole nother level of affection than a friendly hug. If you as a man aren't in tune with female emotions you'll miss this (you should comply by tightening your own hug, unless of course you never want to see her again).

Likewise, at the end of a date you can initiate the extrahug. Careful to calibrate well or it can be seen as needy. If she complies she will reciprocate by giving you the extrahug, and if not compliant will just hug or try to release or pity pat you (all IOD's). So again, make sure you have solid rapport at or after C2 to try it.

Trust Test (TD)

While speaking to her about anything else, run this compliance test. Place your hands out palm up. If she puts her hands out palm up, it is a form of compliance but an IOD, compared to if she places them palm down in your hands. Next, squeeze a little to see if she will squeeze. Step back a little and see if she steps towards you. Lower your open hands and see if she lowers her hands. Move her hands in circles in the air or back and forth like a choo-choo train and see if she’ll move with you. IOD by throwing her hands away either at the end or if there is lack of compliance at any step.

Tension test (TD)

This can follow the Trust Test. Rub her shoulder and look like you’ve discovered something interesting about her muscle. Say ‘that’s interesting, come her for a second’ and put both her arms on your shoulders. Reach down to her back and pull her in while glancing away from her. Start

massaging up her back as if looking for something you just discovered in her shoulder. Roll off and talk to someone else in the set, and give a pity pat to disqualify.

Anchoring

This is a technique where you can attach an emotion to either an object, or a touch you give her. For example, if every time you say something funny, you touch her arm briefly, she will start to associate laughter and the positive emotions it brings with your touch at that point on her arm. So if in the convo there is a lull, you can touch that point and start a new thread, and she will instantly recall those feelings again even though you are saying nothing funny. It is a form of Pavlovian conditioning. You can also anchor an emotion to an object (see the Girlfriend Test gambit).

Pulling Her Hair

Other than EPS, you can use any gambit that would create a reason to pull the back of her hair. While speaking, run your fingers up her nape, lightly take some hair in your hand and yank her head back slightly. This is a powerful point on the body for a girl. Before you let go, make her say 'please.'

The Touch Kiss-Off

A girl might touch a guy before ejecting, just to soften the blow of rejection. Look for it and interpret it as a lost set. You can use a pity pat as a form of IOD similar to the kiss-off.

Tic Tac First Kiss Routine (Craig)

PUA: Do you want a mint/piece of gum? HB: Ok.

(Place a Tic Tac or piece of gum in your mouth, but do it in a way that your fingers enter your mouth seductively. Then place the Tic Tac in her mouth in a similar sensual manner.)

PUA: So, I admit I am an Indian giver. I'd like my piece of gum back. (Go for the kiss).

Mystery's Kiss Gambit

PUA: 'Do you want to kiss me?' Option 1:

HB: No.

PUA: Well, I didn't say you could. It just looked like you had something on your mind.

Option 2:

HB: I don't know (or) maybe.

PUA: Well...let's find out. (go for kiss) Option 3:

HB: Yes. (go for kiss).

Trading Kisses (Blue)

Here are a couple ways to escalate to the make-out.

As you're talking to a girl, pull her in, give her a hug, put your hands on her head, gaze into her eyes and then give her a kiss on each cheek. Tell her “okay, now you owe me two kisses.” Let her reciprocate. If she puts an effort into these kisses, plant a kiss on her neck and tell her “now you.” Let her reciprocate. Go for the make-out.

As you're talking to a girl, tell her she's adorable. Give her a kiss on the cheek and say “now you owe me one.” If she doesn't put much effort into it, you say, "You are the worst cheek kisser in the history of cheek kissers! Again!" If she puts more effort into it, tell her “good” and then plant kisses on her cheek and neck. Tell her “now you owe me two.” Let her reciprocate. Go for the make-out.

How to Use High-5s By Diggidoyo

As an opener and to raise buying temperature:

enough to initiate a kino ping with a woman. You can also throw out a verbal exclamation such as "HIGH FIVE!" before the slap and "ALRIGHT!" immediately after contact. With enough attraction you can elongate the kino by holding hands at the top and/or curling your fingers into hers.

To give respect to a woman for answering a question right:

HB: What's your nationality? PUA: Guess.

HB: Umm... German and Spanish?

PUA: Wow! That's right! HIGH FIVE! (high-five)

To make fun of a woman for answering a question wrong (credit Mehow):

HB: What's your nationality? PUA: Guess.

HB: Umm... Polish?

PUA: YES!! HIGH FIVE! (high-five and hold hand) You are totally, totally... WRONG! (throw her hand away)

The high-fake neg:

The 'high-fake' in essence is a neg that can be used on anyone. Simply pull your hand away before they make contact. For girls it's usually best to stick to the high-five, but if you can get away with it, a high-fake can be used to neg a girl. But as with all negs, make sure to "throw and go" and immediately change the subject with a new thread. DO NOT make it appear like you did a high-fake to get a reaction from her, and don't give her a chance to "save face" or retaliate.

As a tease:

Most of the time when a girl is not expecting a high five, such as when used as an opener, her hand will be limp and the high-five will be more like a high-one. The best way to tease her is to say some variation of the following (don't recite this line word for word; just get the point across however way feels natural):

"Now, if I had to rate that high five, I would give it about a 2. Come on! Give me a 10!" (throw your hand up again)

This time she'll most likely reel her hand back and really try to slap your hand red. This is a great opportunity for the high- fake neg, but not necessary.

Against AMOGs:

When someone puts their hand up in the air, depending on the situation, it's almost a social violation to not complete your half of the high-five. So use this to your advantage. Try to picture this in your head.

You have an energetic, fun, carefree vibe and you throw your hand up in the air to give some guy a high-five. The guy has no choice but to give you a high-five, and in doing so, appears beta by nature, giving you the alpha, dominant role of the interaction. If he refuses to high-five, he still appears beta for being a "party-pooper" or "buzz kill". Win-win for you. Also, by throwing your hand up first, it gives you the option of performing a high-fake against him if you feel inclined to.

Countering the AMOG's high-five:

Now the other end of the spectrum. What happens when an AMOG offers you a high-five. As I said earlier, both accepting and refusing the high-five result in appearing beta. And to make matters worse, if he pulls his hand away before you make contact, he's just successfully tooled you. Here is the perfect counter. Turn it into a low-five! Instead of bringing your hand up to meet his, put your hand out right in front of you, palm up. Doing this doesn't refuse the high-five, it just flips the roles of the interaction. He must now bring his hand down to slap yours. It also now gives YOU the opportunity to pull off the high-fake (or I guess it would be a low-fake). I now do this EVERYTIME a guy tries to give me a high-five.

Monkey Feet and Back Walks

If a girl is not that heavy and if you're in good shape, you can ask her when you get to your place for her to walk on your midback to help crack it. Ask her to grab your muscles with her toes like she has monkey feet. You can then walk on her back. This is a form of kino that is both intimate and yet not. Of course, be very cautious with this one, because one or both of you

can get seriously injured (you don't want to pop one of her breast implants on the first date).

Massages

Once a girl lets you massage her, or if she really digs massaging you, then chances are in the right setting this is an IOC. Most girls will allow the upper back to be massaged. Giving a massage during the initial day 1 pickup can lead to rapid escalation; however if the girl requests a massage, don't immediately jump on the opportunity like a chump...consider trading the massage for something like her buying you a drink. Escalation will include the lower back and eventually the butt, and going under her shirt and closer to the breasts (massaging what are called the lats). If you aren't too heavy, you can sit yourself on her butt, and this will create some sexual stimulation for her. Don't forget to keep warm the parts you aren't working on, and avoid tickling too often as it will eventually redirect the massage from sex to childlike playfulness. Don't stay on one area too long, nor move around too fast. Keep movements consistent, somewhat firm and medium paced, moving on to the next area every 30-60 seconds. Mix it up with deeper massage in thicker muscles, and light touch in places like the back of the neck. Tug on the earlobe periodically.

How to become a Master Masseur in 0 Days, 0 Minutes, and Precisely 0 Seconds

By Dream (at The Dream Lounge)

I don't know how or when it happened, but at some point I became good enough at massaging women that they began commenting on how good the massage was. Over time, it became more frequent, almost to the point where every girl I laid my hands on said something.

Hmm, interesting, but why? I was doing everything technically the same, but now the comments were stacking up. Well today, I've decided to unleash the insane secrets.... woooOOooooo!! And as the title implies, this takes virtually no time to implement.

So first, some background.

Well, anytime really. But, usually at night. They are relaxing, and high noon usually isn't the perfect time of day to massage a girl for the first time. Afterall, first time's a charm with massages. It's like a second level first impression.

• Can you be more specific with the timing?

Yeah, real specific. When things are set to begin heating up. Weird analogy, but think of a massage as pre-heating your oven before you're going to cook something. It's not over when the beeper sounds, but at that point things can progress forward (if you did your job, that is).

I've found the best way is to literally (and usually out of nowhere), tell her it's time for her massage. You say this playfully, but dominantly and expect her to roll onto her stomach.

9 out of 10 times all you'll have to do after the massage is roll onto your stomach and she'll go to work on you, and you can enjoy a great massage and warm-up for what's next.

OR

Calibrate and continue escalating (depends on how horny you are, how much tension you want to build, and how receptive she's been thus far).

• Are you actually a Masseur?

Ha, no. One of my aunts has been a masseuse for most of her adult life though. And yeah, she gives the best massages in the world, hands down (pun intended).

• Do I need to buy anything?

Um, no. You can if you want, but no dire need. "Things" (including books, vibrating toys and videos) won't make the difference in a massage...you will.

So, enough BS, let's get to it....