Secuencias didácticas para Educación Secundaria

living?” takes on a whole new meaning when you follow it up with “Why did you get into that field?” and genuinely care how she answers.

Other Helpful Phrases:

 “I'm curious about that. Tell me more.”

 “What are you passionate about?”

 “Why this school? Why not somewhere else?”

 “What made you choose this city for your vacation?”

 “Have you ever made love to a woman?”

Learn to seek out the truth. What makes her tick? What is she really passionate about? Is she worthy of your time? Is she girlfriend material or is she someone you will want to invite out to help you cut the line at nightclubs?

Figure that shit out. This is how you develop an abundance mentality when you don't have abundance yet. This is how you attract women.

The guys who inquisitively seek out the truth like this are the guys who cause girls to say “I met this guy last night who just... gets me. It was amazing.” Be one of those guys.

Calibration

Calibration ties right in with this. You MUST understand how different people, places and situations affect how you can behave. Sometimes a girl just wants to rock out on the dance floor. Other times she wants to spend an hour talking about family, life, and passions. Other times she wants to discuss current events.

There is only one constant: It is YOUR job, as the man, to lead the interaction in a way that she finds pleasurable and sexy. This is your mission. Remember, starting the sexual communication dance is your responsibility. It's a give and take. Though she might, you can’t expect her to initiate it.

I am not going to tell you how calibration works in every situation. That is something you MUST learn for yourself. Without reference experiences, you cannot master calibration. That means PRACTICE (apologies to Allen Iverson.)

The trick here is getting out of your comfort zone. Over time you will intuitively grasp how to act in different situations and what you can and can't get away with.

But throughout it all, develop a love for finding out who she is and seeing if she's a fit for you. That's the name of the game. That's what qualification is all about. Keep in mind the concepts of sexual communication and authenticity. If YOU know you are looking for casual sex, don’t be afraid to ask the woman you’re speaking to what she thinks about casual sex. It’s

OK to talk about risqué topics, especially in a bar or a nightclub. Part of being unique and getting out of your comfort zone is testing what is really

“appropriate” and what’s not. You might discover that you are a person who likes to talk about sex on a first date, and that you aren’t interested in someone who can’t handle that. Likewise, you might find out you prefer to stick to “safer” conversation topics.

The point is, without actively going out and learning calibration, you’ll never know. All the sexual communication in the world won’t help if you don’t know what you want. Keep that in mind.

Action Items

1) Write down a list of women (real, fictional, famous, friends, crushes, whoever) that you find attractive for some reason. Try to jot down at least 10-20. Leave space between each name.

2) Next to each name, write down specific things you find attractive about them. Let your stream of consciousness flow.

Examples: her hair, sense of humor, loves to party, can drink as much as I can, plays guitar, likes Pink Floyd, plays sports, nice breasts, big ass, adorable, Latina, travels, has hot friends, religious, atheist, bisexual, polyamorous

3) Look at the whole mess of text you just wrote. Just soak it in. Stare it for a few minutes with some music on in the background. Just soak it in while you visualize these various women and what they do for you.

4) Repeat the Action Items 5-7 in Chapter 9, but this time make an effort to seek the truth out in your interactions as laid out above. Journal these encounters and reflect on them.

5) Go to a high-energy nightclub or bar on a weekend with the sole intention of getting rejected in the most hilarious fashion possible. (This mindset is important. Bring friends if possible.) Think of crazy things to ask women, then do it. Don’t cross any lines, but don’t shy away either. You might want to go a couple towns over for this one. Not for the faint of heart!

Example: Ask a group of girls their thoughts on The Human Centipede series.

Push your comfort zone. Laugh at the hilarity of the rejections, you've earned it.

6) The next morning, think back on some of your crazy interactions and I guarantee you will realize it wasn’t that bad, after all. Surprise, surprise, you're becoming a spontaneous, fun guy that women find attractive.

Use this section for the Action Items on the previous page