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N. PORTA-AMULETOS

32 II. INTRODUCCIÓN A LOS AMULETOS

11.2. Introducción a los amuletos egipcios

11.2.1. Análisis conceptual

11.2.1.3. Significado del uso de los amuletos

"I'm scared to death of the individual who has no sexual desires, no romantic desires, no fantasies."

John Cardinal O' Connor "Is sex dirty? Only if it's done right."

Woody Allen

"Try everything once except incest and folk dancing."

Sir Thomas Beecham

"My schoolmates would make love to anything that moved, but I never saw any reason to limit myself."

Emo Philips

Although the physical development and practice that you have learned is a prerequisite to being a true multi-orgasmic male, it is less important than your ability to mentally and psychologically put yourself into an extreme state of sexual arousal. And, your ability to do this is directly related to how well you know what turns you on.

You may be asking, "Doesn't everyone know what turns them on?" Yes, in a general sense they do.

You know that you like girls vs. guys. Or, you prefer blondes to brunettes. That is not what I mean.

I am referring to those thoughts or images or fantasies that, when you allow yourself to consciously focus on them, literally put your sex drive into hyper-warp.

By their very nature, these thoughts, images and fantasies are incredibly varied and personal. So...I can only guess what yours might be. Maybe you like to imagine you are with a particular celebrity.

I know Masters that fantasized that they were making love to their first grade teacher. Others imagine that they are with their frumpy aunt Helen. With some men, it is sexy clothing. They enjoy seeing their partner in sexy women's underwear. Maybe they enjoy wearing sexy women's underwear, themselves.

Some Masters tend to focus on particular images such as their partners (or someone else's) body parts; maybe they picture their partner's erect nipple or clit. Or, maybe they enjoy visualizing exactly what it looks like for their erect penis to be thrusting in and out of their partner.

Although it is possible that one of these types of things works for you, the particular thoughts, images and fantasies that I am referring to at this point are most likely the very thoughts images and fantasies that you may be trying to repress. They are the thoughts or images that you quickly

attempt to send back to your subconscious because you are afraid of them!

Dennis Miller, the comedian once said..."What turns people on is one of the most ridiculous, Rube-Goldbergian in the history of mankind." He was so right. Every one of your thoughts, including your fantasies, are the result of random electric reactions between several million neurons

somewhere in your brain. There is absolutely no moral or logical explanation why a particular thing or fantasy may or may not turn you on.

The reasons that these things turn you on are so deeply and powerfully buried in your subconscious that you will never truly understand their origin or purpose. Consequently, rule number one for great lovers, especially lovers capable of multiple full-ejaculatory orgasms, is THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A WRONG SEXUAL FANTASY. Effective, yes. Wrong, no.

Do not misunderstand me. There is such a thing (in my opinion) as a wrong sexual act. I will not bore you with where I choose to draw the moral chalk marks around sexual morality. But, I do feel as if there are some things that, when done to children, select adults (and some pieces of farm equipment) are just evil.

But there is a world of difference between fantasy and reality!

I am assuming (because you to purchased a book written by me) that you are quite intelligent.

Consequently, I can assume that you know that the Flinstones are not a real family. And, you realize that Pamela Anderson's breasts may (and I don't think I am going out on a limb here) be fake. Well, your fantasies (sexual and otherwise) are not real either. If they were, I would be in bed right now with Wilma Flintstone (played by Pamela Anderson, of course).

Consequently, I suggest that you stop wasting any energy in attempting to avoid fantasies that you feel may be inappropriate. Use that energy, instead, to be more aware of what turns you on...and use those things to make yourself capable of unbelievable levels of arousal.

Most Masters express that it is those particular fantasies that they usually attempt to block out of their minds the quickest that, ultimately, are the most useful for creating instant, high levels of sexual arousal.

It is those fantasies and images that seem the dirtiest, filthiest, and most bizarre that I am referring to. For purposes of putting your arousal into overdrive, feel free to fantasize about ANYTHING! In your fantasies, don't necessarily avoid those things that, in real life, might condemn you to eternal damnation.

In fact, consider yourself a sexual novelist...attempt to create and chronicle more and more exciting scenarios for yourself. Make note of the ones that really make you hot and use them again and again.

Maybe you are the sort that occasionally dreams of sex with Snow White (or one of the seven dwarves). Don't suppress this fantasy! Use it! Imagine that you are making love to Snow White with all of the dwarves videotaping....whatever! If you are comfortable with it...get your partner to play along. I am not sure where you can find a Snow White costume, but I'd probably start at the Disney Store.

Whatever the fantasy or image...nurture and elaborate on it! In fact, most Masters consider uncovering and creating newer and more powerful fantasies as one of their most important skills.

They embrace, even catalogue, those thoughts or fantasies that especially arouse them...no matter how mild or wild.

HOW TO TEST A FANTASY FOR EFFECTIVENESS

One way that Masters test the effectiveness of their personal fantasies, etc., to put their sexual arousal into overdrive is with the following exercise:

"AROUSAL, HOLD THE TOUCH"

If you are wondering whether a particular thought or fantasy is truly one of your personally most effective, try the following:

Give yourself some privacy. Undress and sit or lay in a position in which your penis is free from contact with yourself or anything else.

Close your eyes and begin to visualize those things that you think may be your most effective sexual arousal images or scenarios.

DO NOT TOUCH YOUR PENIS. DO NOT ALLOW YOUR PENIS TO PHYSICALLY TOUCH ANYTHING ELSE EITHER.

The goal of this exercise is to bring yourself to as high an arousal level as possible, without

physically manipulating your penis. You are attempting to, if possible, bring yourself to an orgasm simply by making your thoughts supercharged with enough erotic energy to push you over the edge without touching yourself.

It is OK to flex the muscles in your genital area and to consciously focus on your penis becoming harder and harder...and then more and more excited. Just do not actually touch yourself.

When you begin to feel your arousal level plateau, focus on those images and fantasies that can bring you back to another, higher peak...without physical manipulation. At first, this will seem incredibly difficult and strange. But, after some practice, you will be amazed at how aroused you are capable of becoming in this way. Some Masters are capable of reaching a full ejaculatory orgasm in this way...with no physical manipulation of their penis whatsoever! Even if you are not capable of that much, you should find this exercise very helpful in creating and refining images and fantasies that supercharge your arousal.

EXPECT TO BE MULTI-ORGASMIC

As simple as it may seem, the main barrier to most men becoming multi-orgasmic is that they don't expect that they can be.

The physical limitations on you becoming multi-orgasmic, although real, are not truly that limiting to your ultimate success. They may stop you, at age 60, from being capable of achieving five full-ejaculatory orgasms, with 20-second refractory periods, within 30 minutes. But, will they really stop you from having three with, five minute refractory periods, within an hour? No!

Your orgasms can be two seconds apart or two hours apart. The critical issue is that you are in control, improving and do not feel stuck with your old level of performances. As with many other skills,” when you work hard, you get lucky." Allow your new skills and abilities to build upon one another, working together in a positive cycle of more confidence, as well as control and pleasure.

Your ability to maintain an erection for a longer period of time will increase the intensity and strength of your orgasms...it will also make it easier for you to recover from a full ejaculatory orgasm with a new erection and high level of arousal. Your ability to choose, at any given moment, an ejaculatory or non-ejaculatory orgasm will give you the confidence to experiment sexually...to be more creative; consequently, you will learn new pleasures that you and your partner didn't know existed.

You learn to have multiple orgasms, with shorter refractory periods, as you would learn to accomplish any other skill: progressive training. You start with whatever natural ability that you presently have and you improve upon it. This ability is no different from any other that you have, whether it is running, jumping or lifting weights; it can be improved by progressively practicing.

And, the best way to progressively practice this skill is with the exercise, "Orgasm Time Trials."

ORGASM TIME TRIALS

In this exercise, you keep track of how quickly you can go from one full ejaculatory orgasm to the next. You also keep track of how many full ejaculatory orgasms you can have in a certain period of time.

Similar to the other exercises thus far, set aside some stress and interruption-free time for yourself.

Create an environment for yourself that is conducive to helping you to become especially aroused.

Make sure that you have the ability to keep track of time during this exercise. Have a clock or watch in sight, and have a notepad and pencil within reach.

As in many of the other exercises, it is important to start the exercise with a relatively long (and slow) initial arousal phase. You don't want to rush to your first orgasm without first building a solid base of deep sexual arousal first.

As you approach your first full-ejaculatory orgasm, be aware of your level and type of sexual arousal. Are you truly highly and deeply aroused? Or, are you simply bringing yourself to a very surface/penile orgasm? If it is the latter...slow down and concentrate on not bringing yourself to orgasm until you are truly deeply aroused. Remember...in men, multiple full-ejaculatory orgasms are really only possible if the orgasms are simply the "tips of the iceberg" of your total sexual arousal. If you feel as if only one or two ejaculations will completely dissipate your sexual arousal and energy, don't bring yourself to that first orgasm yet.

If you are confident that you have achieved a very high level of arousal, then do the following:

1) Allow yourself to have a full-ejaculatory orgasm.

2) Make a notation on your notepad to the time of this event.

3) Immediately begin to stroke yourself in a manner sufficiently vigorous enough to quickly bring back your penis back to full erection and arousal.

If you spent sufficient time/effort making sure that you were deeply aroused before your first orgasm, you may barely lose your erection. If this is the case, do not waste it by being surprised and letting it go away...instead, assume a confident attitude as if you expected no less, and continue on to the next orgasm.

It is at this time, especially, immediately after an orgasm, that many men find the most difficult.

This is mostly just because they have little experience with attempting to "come to attention"

immediately. This is the best time to refer to your mental file cabinet to find those personal images and fantasies that are most effective for charging your arousal. Now is the time to picture Snow White bent over that sea lion (Sorry...I didn't mean to scare you with a personal favorite of mine).

4) Bring yourself to another full-ejaculatory orgasm

5) Record the number of orgasms that you achieve and the length of the refractory periods between each.

6) Repeat the first four steps, as many times as possible within a predetermined time period. Most Masters start with an hour and work up to several hours (at this point, be sure that you have a good supply of lubricant).

The goal, of course is to increase the number of orgasms in each time period, as well as decreasing the refractory period between them. I suggest that you practice this exercise regularly, although not every day. As with any other part of your body, your penis needs to rest to recover and become stronger, more developed. Once you have developed a level of performance that you are satisfied with...you want to start practicing this with a partner (I don't suggest you bring a stopwatch and notepad... just make a mental note as to your progress). You will probably find that you have slightly more difficulty, initially, in achieving the same results with a partner that you achieved alone. This is simply a result of the added complicating factors/distractions that having sex with a living, breathing human produce. Very quickly, you should be able to replicate your personal achievements with your partner as well.