Simulaciones del Modelo

Now that we’re getting into the nitty-gritty details of approaching, I want to discuss “pickup lines” for a moment. When you talk about the art of “pickup”

with someone who isn’t familiar with this type of material, they usually have negative assumptions about what it means. The big assumption is that this material is about teaching guys “pickup lines.”

Such as…

• “Am I dead? Because I must be in heaven…I’m looking at an angel right now.”

• “Can I borrow a quarter? I just want to call my mom and tell her I met the woman of my dreams.”

• “Do you have a map? I keep getting lost in your eyes.”

• “Excuse me, but I think I just dropped something…MY JAW!”

• “I’m new in town. Could you give me directions to your apartment?”

• “So, what time do you need to be back in heaven?”

And so on…

We all laugh at the idea of pickup lines. But it’s not because the lines themselves are stupid or offensive. It’s because we imagine them being delivered by guys who ooze creepiness—who lean into a girl’s personal space and give them a big sleazy grin as they utter one of these lines.

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Also, the guys who typically use pickup lines have no idea how they are going to follow up the “line” and engage the girl in conversation. These are the guys who approach getting laid as a “numbers game”—hitting on ten or twenty girls in an evening, hoping that one of them will be desperate (or drunk) enough to take the bait.

But I want to make an important point here. Even the corniest-sounding pickup line can be used to start an awesome conversation, if you

communicate playfulness and confidence—and know how to follow it up with something that engages her attention and keeps things flowing.

Something that I want to stress in this program is that you should stop

worrying so much about the first thing to say to a girl. What really matters is what you say next—how you engage her. (This is also known as

“transitioning.”)

A guy with a playful sense of humor and bulletproof game could walk up to the hottest chick in the club and say, “I must have died and gone to

heaven, because I am staring into the eyes of an angel.”

Then, before she thinks he’s actually being seriously cheesy, he cracks up and says, “I know, that probably sounded like the world’s worst pickup line…I’m just playing, but I do want to ask you something real quick…”

(And then he bridges into a fun conversation, using one of the techniques I will soon explain.)

Virtually anything you say to a woman can be used as a bridge into the conversation. It’s not about what you say first. It’s about knowing where you are taking it next.

Keep this in mind when we talk about openers. Remember, a good opener should serve as a bridge into the conversation. Not just any conversation, but one that allows you to control where things are going, and encourages her to share details about herself, while you “plant seeds” in her mind about your own positive and attractive qualities.

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BONUS TIP: FOUR RULES TO REMEMBER FOR APPROACHING &

CONVERSING WITH WOMEN

• Don’t ask her questions that can simply be answered with a

“yes” or “no.” This can cause a conversation to stop dead in its tracks.

• Never start by saying “I’m sorry,” “excuse me,” or “pardon me.”

(This is an instant sign of insecure behavior. Remember what I said about women being attracted to men who convey status. A guy with high status isn’t going to be worried that he might be a nuisance.)

• When you approach a group, pay attention to all of them. If you have your eye on one of the girls in the group, don’t make your

interest in your target obvious at first. Befriend all of them. If there are guys in the group, be sure to introduce yourself to them and act

interested in what they have to say. If you ignore the guys, they will try to kill your chances of talking to the women.

• Always be prepared to walk away from your target and do

something else. Demonstrate that you’re not needy and clingy; don’t worry that if you leave the girl’s side for five minutes, that some other guy is going to swoop in and steal her. Step outside and make a phone call. Go and rejoin your friends for a while. Strike up a

conversation with someone else standing nearby. Grab a drink at the bar and chat with the bartender for five minutes. If you succeeded in making your target interested and curious when you first approached

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and talked to her, she’ll grow more interested if you leave her alone for a while. You are demonstrating confidence; you’re showing that you’re not “pinning your hopes” on her tonight; and she might start worrying a little that if she doesn’t catch your attention again, you’ll hook up with another girl.