One of the most common areas of difficulties that affects human rela- tionships is that dealing with romance and marriage. At some time or other every person has some such problem which disturbs his tranquility and hap- piness. Metaphysical miracle power can be released to heal such problems.
First let us examine these problems in the light of reason and find out the causes of most romantic and marital problems.
Mismating often brings two people together who have no reason for marrying. What should they do in such a situation? Divorce or live together with friction, misunderstanding and the subsequent chaos it produces for their children?
Then there is the problem of philandering, indulged in by one or both of the marriage partners. This leads to jealousy, accusations and sometimes, violence.
Often two people will suffer from sexual maladjustment; frigidity on the part of the wife; or impotence on the part of the husband. Such a problem can make a marriage miserable and must be handled delicately if the mar- riage is to survive.
Then there is the problem of quarrelling, nagging, friction, and general bad temper. This type of negative atmosphere can destroy a marriage and cause the parties concerned to suffer from feelings of guilt and misery.
The Miracle Healing Regime For Romantic Problems
1. Realize that no marriage is perfect; each person must bring to the un- ion vast patience, love and understanding. When problems of any kind arise both parties should sit down and frankly discuss them and try to think out a solution that is equitable and just. Try to rise above the petty level of human thinking into the realm of Divine Love where each sees the other as encom- passing the spiritual qualities of the soul that can make a marriage a blessing instead of a curse.
2. If two people have married who have little in common other than a physical attraction, they can still make the marriage a success. Unity can come in such a union by building interests in common. The parties concerned should make an effort to cultivate the same friends, the same interests; read
the same books, see movies and other entertainment together; thus giving them a frame of reference for the future which encompasses similar expe- riences.
3. The problem of philandering often arises after four or five years of marriage. One of the marriage partners may grow tired of the other. When these extra-marital relations come to the attention of the other marriage part- ner, it often leads to bitter recriminations and finally, divorce. How can such a breach be healed in Metaphysics? Let each partner in the marriage realize that to err is human, to forgive divine. Try to be understanding of the other’s weakness. Then try to work out a basis for future understanding and harmony in love and sexual relations that gives satisfaction to both parties.
Infidelity Led To This Woman’s Crippling
An instance where infidelity led to a crippling condition of the wife came to my attention some time ago. The wife found out her husband had been going around with another woman, his secretary. She developed paraly- sis of her limbs and became a chronic invalid. Of course the affliction was a psychosomatic one in which the woman’s subconscious mind wanted to be crippled so she could punish her husband by making him wait on her. It im- mobilized her so she could no longer give him the comforts in the home he had grown so accustomed to.
Upon examination by many doctors it was found there was nothing physically wrong with this woman. One doctor who had studied psychoso- matic medicine finally arrived at a solution. He told the husband to leave the wife in an upstairs bedroom. He advised him to have parties two or three times a week down in the living room, and not to have the wife down. After the first big party, the wife could no longer stand the agony of knowing eve- ryone downstairs was having such a good time without her. On the night of the second party, the husband heard a shuffling sound from the upstairs bed- room. Soon he saw his wife’s head protruding between the banisters of the stairs, trying to see who his guests were. Within a few weeks’ time this wom- an had a complete healing. The higher centers of her mind, galvanized by cu- riosity and a desire to participate in the merry-making, had effected a cure where doctors had failed.
If sexual maladjustment should arise, owing to any one of a dozen dif- ferent reasons, the metaphysical approach to the problem should be as fol-
lows. First, try to discover what the trouble is; how it had its inception, and, if necessary, probe back to the early childhood of the mate, to see if condition- ing occurred in childhood that might have caused the difficulty. The mate should show more tenderness and solicitude in love-making, for very often a woman who becomes frigid in the love act has been shocked in some way, or repelled by some early experience that actually makes her hate and fear the sexual act. In such instances the husband should show consideration and un- derstanding and try to adjust his needs to the wife’s existing limitations.
Sexual Frigidity Overcome Through Metaphysics
A woman came to me for consultation once who had this problem of sexual frigidity. In the interview she told me frankly that she had been mo- lested when she was ten years of age by an uncle, and the sexual act had re- volted her ever since that time. She had thought marriage would change the situation, and that her love for her husband would help her overcome it.
I gave this woman a constructive analysis of her entire problem, and explained that her higher mind would be able to rationalize this problem and help her overcome it. Now that she knew the reason for her frigidity, her sub- conscious mind would begin to release her from the torture she had endured. In a few weeks’ time she reported to me that with her new understanding of her problem, she was beginning to enjoy the sexual act for the first time since she married.
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