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So I finally after 6 weeks on the road, have some free time, and a new LR...
It all started off when I dropped my car which had been sitting in my
garage for six weeks accumulating dirt and having someone write faggot wash your car on my trunk in the dirt. Classy! So I finally get my car jumped and drive it a harrowing 40 miles to the BMW dealership. Not really 40 but close.
This particular dealership happens to be in the same suburb of the city, as a certain swashbuckling PUA who happens to be one of my closest friends. Also a friend I hadn't seen in a few weeks.
A couple calls later we are back bullshiting and eating at the outback. Not as good as usual today for some reason. I think it was the cheese fries being undercooked.
We roll to the mall and then decide to hit a happy hour place. It was awesome, but we end up back at my place and get a call from Shaft and El Topo.
They have been working on some SICK new stuff regarding frames and cognitive dissonance. Really brilliant stuff Shaft has come up with!
We meet up for dinner, then roll to meet Twitchy at a new club opening. We ran into Elation and Simple, but the club volume gets turned up to a horrifyingly vibrating internal organs level. And so we roll to our usual SNL venue.
And it sucks. Balls. Hard..It's loud (ER), the cover price has been upped, and there is an awful ratio.
I get some drinks from my bartender and watch one ofthe city’s best players. He's a promoter at some venues out here and ALWAYS has some crazy hot girls all over him.
He's a little too aggressive and sometimes blows himself out, but he always leaves with three or four hot girls. He's kind of a dick, so my attempts to
befriend him have not gone swimmingly well...
Then I see her. She's got HUGE boobs, she's 5'4 she's got reddish blonde hair. And she's a H-erd (A hot nerd, I think I stole that from Jlaix
somewhere...)
She's got these super hot secretary glasses on and a look that just screams dork. She's a 9.5 to me. She hits my type of “funusual”exactly. If you've ever taken a bootcamp with me, you've heard me describe my type ... and she's it...
I go to tap her and tell her she's a h-erd, when she opens two big black guys. Oh well I'll see her again. Hopefully?
I roll around and find CJ. We're talking when she walks out and in mid- sentence I roll after her. I open her by telling her she's a h-erd and then explaining it to her.
She thanks me and I say "Oh you didn't do it on purpose? You really are a nerd!"
We start talking and I get the dreaded BF objection, plus he works at the venue...I treat it like she just said "Spiders, Monkeys, Pirate Ninjas."
I keep talking and she brings it up again. Again I ignore and I talk about how awesome I am. It's on she's telling me I'm awesome, grabbing my wrists etc.
The BF rolls up and I say "You have a really sweet GF." He replies: "Thanks, she's my angel."
She has just offered me a drink, and he escorts me to get it... I actually for a second thought I might be getting kicked out, as he walked me to the
service area. I get a drink and we talk about how cool his girl is. We go back. He offers to get me a chair and leaves us to talk.
The key here was me remaining completely comfortable with the boyfriend being there. If I had gotten nervous or acted like I was ashamed or
uncomfortable with what I was doing, he would have noticed and I would have been in trouble. Instead I just acted as if it was normal and so did he.
I start qualifying and then tell her that she needs to walk away from me right now or I will start hitting on her. She tells me I already have been. I start breakthrough comfort. It's easy because this girl is really amazing. She's smart and funny and honest and self-aware, and a complete decorated
emergency... (but a fun one!)
The stop doing thator I’m going to start hitting on you is an example ofa prep. I use stuff like that a lot, because ifshe accepts the idea thatI’m hitting on her I can turn things sexual much faster.
Remember girls wantto be hiton by guys they are attracted to.Once she’s shown she’s attracted to you,starts hitting on her!
She starts talking about how she cheated on her BF already. This is what we call an IOI for those of us watching at home. This is her version of a prep, she was trying to get the idea that I could have sex with her even though she had a boyfriend out into the open.
She also later pointed out a guy and says that he was the guy she cheated on her BF with. Whether or not that was true, she was trying to make me comfortable.
I go into my sexual frames ... I hit them all and tie them into a
breakthrough comfort style explanation of why I like her and want us to be AT LEAST friends.
I regress, take her to childhood, using routine Shafts taught at dinner ... Money BTW.
She asks me what I'm doing after this as her BF works till very late...(Yet another IOI for those of us who have trouble with these things.)
I reply honestly and add that if she wants she can join me. She agrees. I handle logistics with CJ and Twitchy and we roll out different exits meet out front and depart.
I later made her beg to come... multiple times...
So I pulled a girl from in front of her boyfriend to my house in about two and a half hours... While he was buying me drinks and food .... I'm going straight to hell.
This was a great test for me a girl who was my absolute physical type and I was able to get her.