H ISTORIA Y D ESARROLLO DEL F IADOR S OLIDARIO

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While you don’t have to act like a raving lunatic, it’s still important to be a little unpredictable and exciting.

As you know, many girls claim they want a “nice guy.”

The truth is that they want someone trustworthy, but with a dangerous edge. This type of guy is a bit of a jerk, and he’s a little bit cocky. He lives his life by his own rules, and doesn’t pay much attention to what others want.

The funny thing is how the dangerous guy is highly attractive to woman. Primarily, this is to due to his

unpredictable nature. When she’s around a guy like this, a

woman never knows what to expect.

At any given moment, he could bring her on a wild adventure that she didn’t see coming.

At his core, a dangerous guy is self-centered. He lives the life that he wants. This man doesn’t allow others to dictate what he does, and he never supplicates himself whenever a woman makes a demand.

To be more dangerous, you have to embrace the idea that

women should pursue you, not the other way around.

Create the mindset that you’re a prize, and then act accordingly.

The first way to do this is to never fall for a woman's tests.

There will be times when a woman will try to manipulate you and see how you react. A guy who lives his life on the edge doesn’t concern himself with these tests.

He either ignores them or “calls her out” on her bad behavior.

The dangerous guy has a ton of confidence about himself, so he’s not afraid of losing a particular girl. He knows that if she moves on, then there will be another to replace her.

Another way to be a little more dangerous is adopt the attitude of “not caring.”

While you want to do the things that’ll attract a girl, you never want to get sucked into the trap of trying too hard. Remember, a dangerous guy focuses on himself, and he’s not concerned if a girl likes him.

Instead, he enjoys life and doesn’t get too wrapped up in any particular woman.

Finally (and most importantly), the dangerous guy lives an exciting life.

Your life should have a few adventures that most people only dream of. While you don’t have to lead safaris through Africa or start BASE Jumping, you should still try new things that’ll challenge your levels of comfort.

Facing your fears is actually a good thing. When you do something outside “the norm,” you’ll be the guy who displays an interesting and exciting lifestyle.

As you know, women like romance novels and soap operas, because they provide a glimpse into a drama-filled world. By have a few “dangerous” hobbies, you’ll display a personality that makes women excited.

A dangerous personality is alluring because it never makes a woman feel completely comfortable. Whenever she’s around, you want to subtly demonstrate that you live an unpredictable lifestyle.

A girl should feel that her place is never 100% secure.

You have so much going on in your life, you could move on at moment’s notice.

#15 – Be in Control

No, I don’t mean dictate every single detail of your girl’s life. Guys who turn out to be control freaks end up

appearing insecure, needy, and inevitably, alone. Instead, become a guru at figuring out her games, and play to win.

Here’s how:

It’s no secret that women are used to being in control of the mating ritual. They say “jump,” and we say “how high?” As soon as you finish reading this section, I want you to abandon this behavior, because you don’t want to be the guy who bends to their every whim.

Instead, do the exact opposite.

Try gaining some leverage by telling THEM that you want to be friends at first. This creates a mind frame that leaves HER wondering what YOUR intentions are, not the other way around.

Show a lack of neediness by ending all conversations first. By giving the impression that you’re a busy guy with a lot to do, you maintain control of the situation.

This may go against everything you’ve been taught about being a gentleman, but trust me…it works.

This is not about being mean; this is about keeping that sexual tension thriving.

#16 – No Neediness

“Can We Just Be Friends?”

How many of us are familiar with that line? Even more, how many of us have actually become “friends” with the girls who’ve used it on us?

The hard truth is that when a woman expresses her desire to “just be friends,” she’s actually rejecting you…gently.

At the end of the day, it’s usually the needy men who fall victim to the “friend trap,” but there is a way you can reverse this.

A great technique is to reverse roles on a woman and say

it to her!

When you state upfront that YOU want to just be friends with HER, you immediately throw her off of her A-game. As I’ve already mentioned, humans always want what they cannot have, and it’s no secret that women are drawn to guys who don’t seem interested at first.

In fact, most are used to being catered to by any guy they want, so choosing to do otherwise makes you stand out immediately.

To illustrate this point, let’s examine a lesson I learned from one of my favorite movies- The Tao of Steve. I feel that you could learn a lot about attracting women by paying attention to the core philosophy of the main character, Dex. He felt that success with women didn’t have to be that hard.

All you had to do was follow three simple steps: 1) Remove Your Desires

2) Be Excellent 3) Be Gone

The interesting thing about this philosophy is that it’s absolutely correct. Many of the principles and techniques I discuss in this course are directly related to one of Dex’s core ideas. Let’s take a close look at the first one.

Removing your desires is probably one of the best things you can do when you first meet a woman. This can be pretty confusing for your average guy.

We’ve all grown up with movies which emphasized that the best way to attract a girl is to reveal our feelings and try to “win her over.”

Unfortunately, this really doesn’t work when you first start talking to woman.

An aloof personality can actually be the thing that initially attracts a girl. In a way, she wants to be with a guy who doesn’t “need” a woman.

A guy who acts too needy gives off a desperate vibe that is not attractive. Removing your desires basically shows a woman that you have a lot going on in your life.

It shows that you’re high status enough to not really care about the opinion of someone you just met.

The “players” of the world can seduce women for one simple reason – they give off a vibe that any particular girl

is easily replaceable.

If it doesn’t work out with one, then they could easily find three or four more. In a way, these men exude a “take it or leave it” attitude that’s attractive to a lot of women.

When you first meet a girl, you want to act differently than other guys. Your average male usually hits on a woman from the moment he meets her.

Instead of acting like this, you want to be the man who doesn’t seem to care about “picking up a woman.” This is

one of the quickest ways to appear different from the losers who usually approach a girl.

Furthermore, it actually helps if you display an attitude of active disinterest. You’re talking to her, but at the same time, you don’t seem to really care if she’s attracted to you. This kind of aloof attitude can often cause confusion in a woman.

Remember that she’s used to guys always hitting on her. By not seeming to care, you’ll give off a major lack of neediness.

Finally, I think “removing your desires” is one of the best ways to display a confident attitude.

A woman wants a man who has options; she doesn’t want a guy who’ll date a girl because she’s the only one who likes him.

A confident guy with options makes her feel special because he is a “valuable prize” that’s desired by other women.

#17 – Do Nice Things…on YOUR Terms

What sets the “nice guys” apart (and inevitably, below) the rest of mankind is their willingness to give affection upon request. What they fail to realize is that when a woman has to earn her man’s affection, it makes him all the more appealing in her eyes.

Don’t be confused; I’m not saying you should disrespect women, but you do have to be selective when it comes to giving affection.

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Notice things about her, tell her you were thinking about her, or mention a good pastime the two of you shared.

Notice things about her, tell her you were thinking about her, or mention a good pastime the two of you shared.

These gestures speak volumes over the endless forlms of “nice guy” flattery.

These gestures speak volumes over the endless forlms of “nice guy” flattery.

Some rules for giving affection are:

λ Never give a direct answer: Unless it’s “no.” If she complains or doesn’t like something, turn it up a notch by NOT following her orders. Women love to test you for compliance.

λ Controlling sex: When she asks you to physically progress, do the exact opposite.

λ Send mixed signals: Tell her you want to be friends, and then kiss her. If she’s inappropriate, do the same.

λ Don’t ask permission: This immediately puts you in a subordinate position.

λ Lead the interaction: Direct the conversation, and choose where to go eat. If you want results, you have to lead everything from the moment you date her to the moment you’re having sex.

λ Make her part of your world: …rather than the other way around.

#18 – Be Different

Growing up, we learned to shun those who were different. But we’re all adults now, and it’s safe to say that the more different you are, the more you stand out.

This is especially true when interacting with the opposite sex.

I’m not saying you have to shave your head and join the circus, but take a good look at yourself, and be honest when evaluating your unique characteristics.

Are you a salesman by day, poker guru by night?

Do you have any sports records to your name?

What are your life passions?

Humans are drawn to unique experiences, so go through your mental inventory of experiences, and don’t neglect to share the more interesting ones.

Consider your hobbies or the things you’ve always wanted to try, and hone them.

Be the dominant male who is unique in an alpha sort of way.

#19 – Be Challenging

In case you’ve ever wondered why General Hospital has been on the air for decades, the answer is quite

simple…women love drama.

And nothing is more dramatic for a woman than a challenging man.

That’s not to say that your aim is to fill their lives with bad emotions, but you should try to bring out unpredictable emotions within them.

As I’ve stated repeatedly, women are emotional creatures. It is for this reason that we men must use teasing to create and enhance sexual tension.

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