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something you

cannot have.

While you want to maintain a certain level of mystery with a girl, don’t use it to take advantage of insecurity.

Controlling or hurting a person is never right, and it very often comes back to haunt you.

By being mysterious, you’re merely showing that you have options and could walk away at any time.

To maintain a level of mystery while in conversation, do not rush to reveal all the qualities about yourself. The idea is to make HER work to find out more about YOU.

While you previously learned the importance of selling yourself to a woman, it’s also important to know the value of modesty. Instead of giving her a crash course in all of your accomplishments, discuss your life in vague terms, and let HER fill in the blanks.

Don’t be too candid about how you spend your time.

Direct the conversation by asking the questions, making the statements, and discussing the things that you want brought up.

In addition, never reveal something about yourself that may make the woman disqualify you. Tell stories about yourself solely for the purpose of revealing your personality, nothing more.

#7 – Be Fun

Women make an emotional connection between a guy’s

demeanor and what he’ll be like in the bedroom. (This is especially true for younger women)

When you act like a fun guy, you’ll make her realize that you could possibly be fun “in many other ways.”

In other words, an exciting personality directly taps into the pleasure side of a woman’s brain, and yes…this is a

good thing!

One of the major problems I see in conversations between the genders is what each sex discusses. The mistake that guys make is to converse with women in a logical manner.

They think a woman prefers to know only background information about a guy, so they steer a conversation towards topics based on facts (i.e. job, hometown,

background, interests, etc.)

While these are useful topics for rapport, they do nothing to build attraction.

As you know, a woman is an emotional creature. When she meets a guy, she enjoys that tingly feeling of sexual tension.

The guy who can engage the emotional side of her brain is the one she’ll be attracted to, and one of the best ways to trigger this response is to display a fun personality.

When you’re a fun guy, your goal is to avoid all boring conversations. Instead, focus on being the man who can bring a woman on an emotional roller coaster. One minute, she’s laughing and having fun, and the next, she’s “turned

on” and wondering if you’re into her.

Being a fun guy can accomplished in a number of ways:

λ Through hobbies: I cannot stress this enough – have passions other than women! This not only makes you more interesting, but it also provides for some great stories.

λ Through humor: You don’t have to be a stand-up comic to be funny. Learn the structure of teasing/humor and poke funs at the people/events around you.

λ Through leadership: If you’re confident in your self worth, you’ll have no problem speaking up around

others. Don’t be afraid to give your two cents in a conversation!

others. Don’t be afraid to give your two cents in a conversation!

λ Through stories: What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done? Why did your friends give you that particular nickname? Think about your life and what others might find entertaining about it.

λ Through stories: What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done? Why did your friends give you that particular nickname? Think about your life and what others might find entertaining about it.

λ Through a fun routine: This kind of goes along with the first point about having hobbies. Don’t be the guy who goes to work, comes home, and repeats it all over again. Have other things going for you as well.

λ Through a fun routine: This kind of goes along with the first point about having hobbies. Don’t be the guy who goes to work, comes home, and repeats it all over again. Have other things going for you as well.

λ Through who you know: Do you know (or have you

met) any celebrities? Even better, do you and the girl

have any mutual friends? Use that to your advantage by letting everyone (not just the girl) know what a fun guy you are!

λ Through who you know: Do you know (or have you

met) any celebrities? Even better, do you and the girl

have any mutual friends? Use that to your advantage by letting everyone (not just the girl) know what a fun guy you are!

#8- Leadership

#8- Leadership

An exciting guy has many qualities. You just learned how one of the major traits a woman looks for is fun. Now I want to talk about a quality that’s closely related…

leadership.

Women want men to act like

men, and part of displaying your

masculinity is to display courage and confidence. With that said, YOU have to be the one to take

things to the next level. Ask any woman you want out on a date, and don’t be afraid to take things to the next level.

Women want men to act