Maltrato psíquico: maltrato emocional

O.k., so you now need to learn how to reverse the roles of all your thoughts, whenever you are intentionally broadcasting a subconscious signal out to the mind of a woman whom you would like to be with. It’s actually a very simple thing to do it. However, it can occasionally get a bit confusing when you first start. That’s because rather than merely trying to get her to tune in on your signals that you are ever so clearly sending her, you instead help to mentally prime her pump by supplying her with some possible options to consider. Options or choices you hope she will find enticing, and truly want to take you up on, only she needs to feel free to do so. If she isn’t truly interested, then you agree to be the perfect gentleman and walk away, no pressure, no harm, and no foul.

So the concept behind the role reversal signal transmission is to ferret out if by any chance the chick is truly interested in you, or at least open to getting to know you better by spending some additional time with you. It works just like the normal “Sent Signal,” only this time you phrase the comment within the message in such a way that it is as if it were

something the woman might be thinking to her self, either about you or the current environment or situation.

Again, you are not looking to manipulate or control her thoughts. Rather, you are sending a message that she will hopefully pick up. But instead of coming across as a pushy, forceful goon or ungentlemanly aggressor to

her, it is presented in such a way that the words are something she might say from her own mind, either conscious or subconsciously, regarding YOU. She then has the opportunity to analyze and decide if it is in line with her actual thoughts or interests.

Something along the line of: Imagine her face, focusing very intently on seeing your face, in the front of your mind. Do this with your eyes once again aimed in the general direction of your forehead, while saying quietly inside your own head: “He’s cute; I hope he’ll come over to talk to me!”

Or you are sitting in a library, where you aren’t supposed to talk. You see a beautiful girl who just knocks your socks off, but you quickly realize that she doesn’t have a whole lot of self confidence, so you imagine her looking in your direction, and saying inside your head “WOW, he’s hot I’m going to make sure he sees me smile!”

The point being, you keep the image in your mind consistent, you keep the verbal message short and simple, so it is easily repeatable, as you are going to be saying it over and over in your subconscious mind, 20 to 50 times.

Also, it is of the utmost importance to remember that the message must be phrased in such a way as a woman would be thinking, in her own words, to herself. It’s giving her a little boost in focusing on you, to see if she is truly interested, that is all.

It takes some practice to get used to the process, especially thinking the thoughts in female terms and phraseology.

So, for example, let’s say you are sitting on a park bench with a beautiful woman. She is totally hot and you want to start to chat with her, to ask her out.

Most guys would just look over with that cocky grin, or even worse, that look of terror like a deer caught in the headlights of a car at night, and to the best of their ability say something along the lines of: “Hey, How you doing? Listen, if you’re free this Saturday night, how bout the two of us going out to dinner together? We could maybe have a really good time or something?”

Ding!!!! Wrong! Odds are way less than 5% that they will get the date or even a phone number from this babe. Women need to be slowly warmed up to speed, they aren’t always walking around like a giant “Horn-

Dawg,” ready to “F” all the time like us guys are. They need to be “Regulated” with care and patience.

Also, keep in mind, most women like to think they are always getting their own way, so the best way to score with them is to make THEM want YOU from the very beginning. Just how is that accomplished? I thought you’d never ask! And the totally cool thing is, if they truly aren’t

interested, you have saved both of yourselves a lot of time and energy as she will clearly not respond positively.

Meaning, if there is no response at all, then she is simply not receiving the message. It could be your fault and you should try a different

message, or it could be a bad day for her, and she just isn’t tuned into the ways of the world. But if she is picking up the signals and she is NOT

interested in you, she will definitely make it clear to the both of you that there is no chance, no way.

Women say they make up their mind whether or not they are going to go with a guy, even if it is eventually, as in the minds of the “Good Girls,” in the first 12 seconds of their taking notice of you. This means, if you are doing the “Role Reversal Technique” and you get her to look at you, and she gives you an instant brush off, you simply ain’t getting any. Or

similarly, after 12 seconds she replies with no clear sign of appreciation for what she has just experience by taking you in, then it’s over. Move on!

Now this is only in cases where you are doing the role reversal. Remember, she is not playing hard to get or toying with you for positioning and determination of intent. She is actually thinking to

herself, so in this single case, role reversal, she is not playing hard to get, she truly isn’t interested. So save everyone the time and hardship and move on to greener pastures!

So here’s the best way to play this technique, covering all your bases, ensuring the greatest opportunity for success, without wasting a lot of precious time. Sit down next to the woman that you are interested in and immediately say “Hi, how you doing?” while looking her directly in the eyes for about 2 seconds, no more, or she instantly thinks you are a “Dangerous Psycho Freak,” and the game is over before it starts!

Smile again but now break off the eye contact. Turn to look at something else of interest, after all you are interested and like what you see, but you are a confident person, and are used to being surrounded by hot chicks all

the time, right? So remember, smile, say hello, look her in the eyes for 2 seconds, break the glance, look away, but maintain the smile on your face.

Calmly survey the surrounding area, and wait for some kind of immediate response from her. If her reaction is anything less than totally

enthusiastic, or a least reasonably open and perhaps playing coy, but showing signs of sincere interest, then you immediately withdraw your attention from her completely, as if she is simply not there. I mean you totally back off, as if you’re not even the slightest bit interested at all.

This officially puts the ball into motion. The game has now, to all intents and purposes, begun! While you appear to be reading your magazine or watching the people walk by, you will begin the “Role Reversal Thought Transmission Strategy!”

This technique is cleverly performed quietly inside your mind. But don’t ever underestimate the power of its pull and force! You start to send your short, sharp signal, subconsciously towards her, but an important point of serious differentiation needs to be observed here.

This time, you must keep in mind that you are right up close, sitting directly next to her. So you will in fact, truly look like a “Dangerous Psycho Freak” if you roll those eyes directly up toward your forehead right now. So instead, you merely imagine, within your own mind, your eyes looking toward the center of your forehead. You feel the sense of the muscles in your eyes focusing in on that “Third Eye” position, right in the middle of your forehead, in order to give your signal some strength. But

in order to appear normal, you keep your eyes looking around the area, just like nothing unusual is going on.

Start to repeatedly think very strongly in your mind, the chosen message that you want her to consider. Again, not in such a way as you would if you were speaking directly to her, but rather as how she might be thinking to herself, in her own head about you. If she is interested in getting together with you, then she will send a clear signal back to you that it is time for you to initiate conversation. This is wonderful for when you are first approaching a woman to meet her, or better yet, hopefully seeing if she wants to meet you, as well as priming the pump and

checking for clearance when initiating the eventual seduction phase of the relationship.

This tactic works because it allows you to maintain your confidence and sense of comfort and control with an aura of slight indifference to how things actually go between the two of you. This naturally ignites and activates her inner need to have you find her attractive. Therefore, instead of wasting energy trying to play for position by fighting off your

advances, as what used to normally occur during such interactions with other less “tuned in” guys, she suddenly finds herself reduced to the role of the “unsure person,” hoping to get your appreciation and attention! Thus she begins to actively pursue you! “The prey becomes the hunter” and the pressure transfers onto her, and away from you. How cool is that?

So do you see now, how by reversing the roles of the signals that you originally send her to initiate the contact, you set into motion a process that allows the outcome to also be reversed? And instead of you being the insecure hopeful, trying to buy for attention and interest, you

subconsciously arouse her interest in you and create a natural scenario for her to actually make the efforts necessary to ensure that you are in fact interested in her!

You can now maintain your dignity and composure by appearing open, charming and relaxed. She becomes the nervous one who has to struggle a bit to get what she wants, which is exactly what you wanted. But you got it because you asked her, subconsciously, if she were interested in you, without being the aggressor, which is really what you wanted all along, isn’t it?

Remember the KEY here is to phrase all the transmitted thoughts in her voice, or as if she was thinking them, about you and how she feels about you. It has to be in her voice, thinking things through internally, like women tend to do. The messages must come across to her comfortably, as her very own internal wishes and desires, which she then naturally

completely cooperates with and follows through on, because why would she want to fight with her own wishes and desires? So be careful not to put together sentences such as “Hey Foxy Lady, why don’t we get together tonight for some real lovin’!”. Or, “God, you are such a total piece of ass, I would love to lick you all over and then do you from behind!”

While they may seem like perfectly poetic pick-up lines after ten to

twelve beers at the monster truck rally, they hardly are going to get you in this little hottie’s heart or pants. You need to be creating words that

naturally sound as if they are being originated in the mind of a beautiful woman (remember, the concept is that these are her thoughts, not yours!)

Whether or not this technique works is up to you to find out. I do not believe that you are somehow altering her orginal thoughts by using this method. However, I do believe at the very least, you are conditioning your OWN mind to believe that the game is not over before it has begun. So, instead of sitting down on the park bench and nervously, internally, thinking about chatting to her but never getting the guts to do so and letting her just get up and walk away - you create a change in your perception - Instead of wondering what she's thinking, and wondering whether her first impressions of you are bad. You stop procrastinating and you create an internal voice that speaks as though it comes from her, and has positive thoughts about you. So you aren't believing false truths about the situation, you are in fact being optimistic about the possible outcome of the initial interaction, thereby creating an opening for you to actually make the first move and remain optimistic for a positive

outcome.