Otras situaciones específicas que constituyen riesgo severo o desamparo

What?! Intentionally try to avoid cumming? Are you crazy? Now why would any guy in his right mind want to do that?

Well, let me give you an example. If I offered you a penny to hold your breath for 5 seconds, you probably wouldn’t even bother. The task and the eventual pay-off are of such low and insignificant value, right?

But if I offered you $500.00 to hold your breath for 2 minutes, the payoff would be very enticing and well worth the effort. The release of stress at that final moment when you let go of your efforts and allow the flow of air to surge deeply into your vital organs again, is almost a religious state of bliss. It is like Nirvana, ultimate, complete peace and happiness. That is what the eventual orgasm is like after a session of Tantric love making. It is the difference between a tablespoon of water, sitting silently still in a Dixie Cup, and the ragings of the Atlantic Ocean in the middle of a

hurricane. That’s a big difference!

For one thing, in tantric sex, you are encouraged to move very slowly, very deliberately, things that might normally take just a few seconds, now could take 5 minutes. It is almost more like a methodology of disciplined meditation combined with Tai Chi exercise. Slow, deep, and focused. You exert your full attention and consciousness on every minute detail of what is taking place between the two of you.

Now as I said before, part of what is so amazing here is that even if you are brand new to these concepts, just your active participation in

attempting these methods, to any degree of success at all, is a guaranteed A+ from the babe perspective.

Look, she’s been “Wham-Bam, Thank you Mammed” so many times now by “Cro-Magnon Gorilla-Men,” looking for a quick grope and hump. So much so, that any guy that takes his time and seems to slow down and enjoy all the finer points of sex are barely even detectable in the blur of a flash most men call sex.

So now this chick is going “WOW, this guy really knows what he is doing!”. Plus, you are coming across with additional Brownie points for being mysterious, interesting, and you are appreciating her for who she is, on a deeper level, taking it easy on her and just enjoying the time of

contact with her. Instead of doing the opposite, rushing to a blazing orgasm and then rolling off like most of the duds in her life.

But wait, there’s more! Through the deliberate and slow exacting process of tantra, you create a bonded emotional connection, beyond the pure physical erotic experience, and it deepens and grows ominously more profound the longer it is allowed to continue without orgasm by both partners.

Oh really, and how do I do that? Glad you asked! First of all you need to look at sex from a completely different point of view than you and most guys have in the past. Before the emphasis and main goal of sexual contact with any woman was the “All Mighty Orgasm,” and getting to it as soon as possible. But now the whole point is to try to put the orgasm off for as long as physically possible, so that you now become a veritable “F”-ing machine, maintaining your erection and stamina for prolonged coital pleasure with and for your mate.

The pay-off. She proclaims to the world that you are the Sex King of the Universe. She is ready and waiting for it whenever you are in the mood. And oh by the way, when you finally do cum, it will be like the

comparable difference between the popping of a small party balloon and a nuclear explosion, quite an amazing experience for both of you, I guarantee.

The trick is to remember to move slowly and deliberately with each movement that the both of you take. Remember that in her mind, you are the expert giving her lessons, so she will willingly and gladly follow whatever instructions you give her. Tell her that the whole object is to slow down and truly feel each and every second of the experience with a focused and clear consciousness. To not consider the act of orgasm the objective or end goal, but rather a very satisfying reward once the whole experience has been taken in and milked of all its intimate and erotic power. She will love this kind of talk from a guy. Remember most guys barely want to kiss before they shove Uncle Willy into the hen house, so this will be an all new, respectful and calm session of love making that she will remember for years.

Considering the fact that every other dude she has ever been with has performed rather poorly and way too quickly without thought or concern for her feelings and pleasure, she will be thrilled to finally discover you. “A MASTER” of making love, creating and prolonging such sensations of sensuous and succulent sexual surrealism! Remember, the main point is to just slow everything down and fully focus in on feeling every single detail and movement with objective clarity!

As 99.9% of guys out there simply pump away to gratify their own ego and for the instant gratification of seminal release, you are going to stand out as being really different and when word gets around to her friends and their friends. You are going to be one very busy gentleman!

Imagine how much she will appreciate your determination to focus on her pleasure, as a genuinely considerate lover, who is more concerned about and dedicatedly wrapped up in the goal of making sure she has at least one, REAL, legitimate orgasm. All without putting undue and

inconsiderate pressure on her to perform according to your busy schedule. Tantra teaches us to instead focus our attention and energy on enhancing our awareness of pleasure “In The Moment, Right Now!”