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Now, we are getting down to business. We already talked about oral sex. We already talked about setting the mood. We have even talked about the

psychology of sex. Now, it is all about the in and outs, literally, of sex.

Most guys would really think about penetration simply as that: a quick in and out affair. You get in, take care of business, and get out. If you think this way, I don't blame you. That is how we are hardwired.

Well, you need to get that mindset out of your mind. If you want to be a good lover, you have to take care of your needs first. Penetration must serve both her and your interests. And, the interesting thing about effective and highly

memorable sex is a lesson you need to learn in sales: the customer always comes first.

Your partner has to come first. I am not talking about just putting her needs first, but she has to physically climax first. Make her climax your top priority.

You can come later. Otherwise, you are going to be a lousy lover, as far as she is concerned.

We all want to be invited back to the party.

Penetration techniques.

There are many ways to penetrate a woman.

It may seem like there is only one way, which is to put your dick in there, thrust forward, and keep repeating it until you come. Well, that is true. But there are many different ways to do it.

Speed.

Ideally, you should have 3 modes: orgasm mode, slow and steady, and

intermediate rhythm. A great technique is to mix these 3 modes up continually, so she is always getting something new and the penetration doesn’t get stale and boring.

I am sorry to break it to you, but a jackhammer style of fucking is not

necessarily welcome all the time. It all depends on context. If you are leading up with your honey, for a quick 15 minute bang during her lunch break, banging her like a jackhammer makes all the sense in the world.

However, if you just watched a movie or a play together, or had a nice romantic dinner at a five star restaurant, a jackhammer approach probably doesn't fit the whole motif and theme of the evening. You might want to match your penetration speed with the mood.

Now, what is important here is that you need to mix up your speed. You have to pay attention to where she is, in terms of climaxing, and match her speed. The secret to women is that they start out slow. It really takes a long time to warm the oven, as far as women are concerned.

Ramp it up, and once you notice that she is getting heated, then you turn up the speed and give it to her.

Angles.

There are different angles that you can take. You can lean to the right or left to hit the sides of her vaginal wall, or you can position yourself so that you are rubbing against her clitoris whenever you thrust. You can also penetrate her in a downward motion (in missionary), so her vaginal wall (the one she shares with her anus) is getting a lot of stimulation.

One of the best ways to do this is, of course, to change the angle of your penis.

When you are in there, you need to move around. Move your butt around. Try to form the letters of the alphabet when you are thrusting in and out. You would be surprised as to the kind of feedback you would get.

Pay attention to how she is moaning. If you notice a certain changes in how she is moaning, you would realize that you are hitting a very sensitive spot. Repeat that. You might want to do some more teasing, or change the speed. But you need to repeat that, because you might be on to something.

The secret to effective and highly enjoyable sex positions, of course, is the angle of your penis. That is the whole point behind sex positions, in the first place. Different positions involve different angles of thrusting and penetration.

Play around with the angles, to find her G-spot and to fully engage her Your hands.

Don’t just leave them on her legs, holding them apart. Put her legs on your shoulders, spread them way apart, or put her feet on your chest. Grab her breasts while you are penetrating her. Grab her hips pull her towards you. Put your finger inside her mouth and tell her to suck it like a cock. There are endless possibilities, but just remember to use your hands to your benefit in extra stimulation for her.

Teasing.

You can tease a woman with your dick.

Many guys forget about this. They just thrust it in, and leave it in. No. You can tease her, really. You can rub against her clit, which most women dig. You can wiggle around her vaginal cavity. You can slide your penis to the sides of her pussy. Thrust in halfway for a minute, then slam your whole cock inside her, which will surprise and excite her.

The key here is to get her excited. The key here is to tease her and not just jam it in. You know you are doing a good job when she begs you to stick it in.

Make it a point to tease her until she begs you to stick it in.