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Now let's jump right in to the first tool, maybe the best tool, for bringing out that woman's sexual side—cold reads.

Cold reading is an amazing technique for almost every area of picking up women, from attracting them to building comfort, to getting them to go sexual, to getting them to show up for dates.

It's a really, really powerful technique. It’s so powerful that I recommend you spend a little more time on this one, than the techniques that you learn overall. You will be much better with women.

So what is cold reading? Cold reading is a series of techniques used by mentalists, illusionists and psychics to determine or express details about another person. It’s used to convince a person that the reader knows much more about a subject than they actually do. Let me repeat that… “To convince the subject that they know much more about them than they actually do.“

You want to use cold reads to unleash a woman's sexual side by convincing her that you know her better than she knows herself. It’s saying that she wants to get sexual because since you know her so well you can see her sexual side is aching to get out (which, for the most part, is true about most women).

Warm reading is good when you know a little bit more about girls. Warm reading is the stuff we want to mix in with our cold reading. For example, let's say I just nailed a cold read and a girl is really reeling, I follow up with something that I already know about her to kind of tie it down.

So let's say I'm talking to a girl and I just cold read her about something, about thinking too much, and earlier she told me that she's an interior designer, I might now say, “I bet that when you're doing interior design, you totally spend like 30 minutes figuring out where to put a lamp. I can tell that you're totally the kind of person who micro-analyses everything and wants everything to be beautiful and perfect. Because what do interior designers want, their job is to make everything perfect and beautiful and make you feel good about the fact that you spend a lot of money to have someone decorate your house for you. “

Don’t be afraid to mix in the warm reads and feed her back things that she told you about herself. That sounds like it wouldn’t work, but you'd be amazed. Girls never seem to realize that you're just telling them things they’ve already told you. And people don’t mind because there are things that generally do tend to be true about them as well.

Now an important part of cold reading is the process of setting cold reads by pacing and leading. So what we're trying to do when we're pacing, is we are trying to get their mind to

subconsciously agree with what we're saying. Because the more someone subconsciously agrees with you, the more authority the things you're saying are given. If you don’t pace, if you don’t

get the girl to accept you as an authority first, she's never going to accept your critique of her sexuality. So by the time you're trying to land a big cold read about her sexuality you want to already establish a lot of pacing. And we establish the pacing early on with things that she can easily agree on.

So let's say we are at this club and I say something like—“You know, it's crazy, like we're here at ____and I can tell that it's going to be a great night, I'm really excited. You know, it's Friday night, it's getting late…” all of these are statements that are pacing and that I can use—

before cold reads—to get the girl's mind agreeing with me before I start trying to direct it. So if you just bust out cold reads out of nowhere without a little bit of pacing first, it will be way less effective.

Another example would be where I say something like—“You know, I'm so glad we met. I came out and I was not expecting to meet someone. I'm sure you weren’t expecting to meet someone really cool either?“ Her mind is going to agree to that. And then I’ll say, “It's crazy, we've been talking all night. I feel like, you know, I know you so much more.” All of these little statements are going to make your cold reads land harder, so keep in mind that when you're cold reading, you want to arrange all of your cold reads in the order of pacing and leading.

So I might say something like—“You know, it's crazy, like we are at Crest on a Friday night, and I can tell it's going to be a good night, but you seem a little nervous”. Or—“I can tell you're an intuitive person. It's getting late, I can tell you are an intuitive person, and I know that like most guys would be asking for your number now, but I don’t want to let you leave, so come back with me.” You're going to have a much better chance of landing them once she’s been conditioned with warm reads.

When it comes to cold reading, you are trying to build a cold read ladder. The more a person believes you, the more you pace, the more you do things that agree with what the girl believes, and the more you can start leading.

So when you're starting to do cold reads, start out with innocuous ones. Cold reading builds momentum because every time you're right, the person wants you to be right more and more, and it's really cool that you seem to know more about them than they know about themselves.

Next, I’m going to talk about cold reads that unleash a woman's sexual side, but by the time you get to these sexuality cold reads, you should have used three to five cold reads already.

So think about cold reading in a process as a ladder where each cold read is building upon itself. We use innocuous ones like—“Oh, my God, you seem nervous, I bet you that when you get nervous you get really clumsy.” Or—“I can tell that when most people meet you they think you're kind of shy.” Or—“I can tell like you definitely like to be the center of attention, but sometimes you just don’t want the pressure of it.” Plan out your cold reads so you can use them later on to build sexual attraction or to build comfort.

I might say something like—“You know I bet with you that people see a totally different

side to you than what your close friends might see. Like I bet if someone asked you like what I just asked you, where you worked—or what's the craziest thing you've ever done, you would probably hold back, but with someone that’s like really close to you they would never ask that because they were probably there when you did it. I mean, I can just tell from talking to you, you're probably one of those people that likes the kind of darker side of things, but it's only really with people you really you're really comfortable with.“

What we're doing is we are separating the girl into parts to bring out sub-personalities.

So—“I bet with you, I bet that people really see a different side to you than what your close friends might see.” Obviously that's a pacing statement. Obviously everyone's friends see a different side than everyone else. “I bet if someone asked you, at work, what the craziest thing you've ever done was, you probably would hold back.” Again, a pacing statement; most people aren’t going to be talking about the craziest thing they've ever done at work. But with someone that's really close to you, they would never ask that because they were probably there when you did it, more pacing. Again, we're talking about crazy things. She's thinking about all the stuff she's done. ”I mean I can just tell from talking to you that you're probably one of those people that like the darker side of things, but only really, with people you're really comfortable with”.

Then leading statements—“I can tell just from talking to you that you're probably one of those people that like the darker side of things.” If you just say that to a girl, she's going to reject it. But if you put the pacing in front of it, she's going to accept it, and now you're building

momentum; and then, again, you go back to the pacing—“Only with people you're really comfortable with”. While she's getting really comfortable with us right now, we're having this conversation, we're building comfort, we're doing all the other things that build sexual comfort, and we are also bringing out that sexual side and showing her that she can do that, be sexual, and we don’t judge.

Here’s another cold read—“Have you ever been in one of those relationships that's totally selfish? Actually, you know what, forget I said that. I bet you can be someone who totally takes and takes and takes. Men are probably afraid to break up with you, so they do a bunch of stupid shit that gets them dumped anyway. You know, my ex-girlfriend really was someone who never had a problem with maintaining attraction. I was always attracted to her, but with you, I can tell that you can actually push men away. That's just like my gut opinion, you know—sorry, in the field I work in I'm paid for my gut opinion”.

Now let’s break it down—“have you ever been in one of those relationships that's totally selfish?” We're just using that question to frame our cold read and it doesn’t matter if she answers it or not. Ideally, if she's hesitating, then you can say— “Actually, forget I said that. I bet you can be someone who totally takes and takes and takes. Like, men are probably afraid to break up with you so they do a bunch of stupid shit so they get dumped.”

Every girl in the world has had that experience where a guy was afraid to break up with her so they did a bunch a stupid stuff to get them dumped. Now we've led her and now we need to pace—“My ex-girlfriend really was someone who never had a problem with maintaining

attraction, like I was always attracted to her”. Now we are tying it down. We're framing this a little bit to let her know why we understand that. Then we're going to go for one more lead.

“With you, I can tell that you can actually push men away, you know, that's just my gut opinion.”

And then—this part is actually from one of my stack—“So in the field I work in I am paid for my gut opinion.”

That cold read is really effective because it frames her as someone who takes and takes, which she's going to want to push against. It also shows her as attractive but, someone who pushes people away. So now her natural inclination is not going to be to push away, but to go closer because this cold read is actually what I like to think about as a push back - that means we're saying it so that the girl actually does the opposite. If we just keep telling the girl how she is, then eventually she'll kind of starts to disagree. However, if you give her a mix of pushing and pulling with your cold reads, you're going to have a much better reaction. You're going to get her to do the things that she wants to do.

Here’s one last really good one. “The thing is that with you being a woman, you had to deal with much more judgment in society than I did. What most guys don’t get is that women are more sexual than men, it's just how they express it is socially ridiculed by society and they often feel uncomfortable about it. If most guys just knew how to let women be women, things would go a lot easier in relationships.”

So these are some cold read examples that you can use in various parts of the

interaction. It's up to you to figure out what order those should go in, so get out there and experiment. Like I told you, the more sexual ones come later, but throw those into an order.

I'm specifically not giving you an order so that you go out and use these and figure out where they fit in into the model, because that's the stuff that supercharges things in moving towards sex.