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1. Pornography

Pornography is filmed sex between two or more actors for the sexual pleasure of the observer.

2. What?

Pornography is considered taboo or immoral in some places and

sensibilities. In order for you and your partner to enjoy porn together, you must both agree that it is erotic and not wrong.

3. Types Of Porn

There are many, many different types of porn available. It is important to understand all of these types in order to find the right type for you and your partner.

4. Man/Woman

Heterosexual porn involves a man and a woman. This is the most basic type of pornography. Many different sex acts will occurs in these videos, including vaginal penetration, oral sex, and, possibly, anal penetration. 5. Gay

Gay porn involves sex between two men. There are many different sex acts that take place, including anal penetration, masturbation and fellatio. 6. Lesbian

Lesbian pornography is sex between two women. The sex acts included in these videos range from cunnilingus, penetration with fingers or sex toys, masturbation and some anal penetration.

7. Groups

Group sex in porn is very common. This can happen in groups of three people or more. Lesbian and gay porn usually has only women or men, respectively, but some group porn has a mix of men and women.

8. Specialties

There are a lot of niche porn categories. These are usually very intense: anal sex, fisting, "cream pies", urination, defecation, double penetration, stockings, costumes, foot fetishes, and many others.

9. Hardcore

Hardcore porn is porn that has explicit actions and camera shots. This type of porn is the most popular and well known.

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Softcore porn has softer action like masturbation or stripping. There is little full nudity and no explicit sex acts are shown closely.

11. Mutual Decision

It is important to decide what kinds of porn you and your partner both enjoy. This will ensure that you both enjoy the video.

12. Who?

Anyone 18 years old or over can rent or purchase porn. Anyone who finds porn arousing and has a partner who feels the same can enjoy using porn in their sex life.

13. You

If you do not find porn arousing, or if you feel that porn is immoral or degrading, you should not attempt to use it in your sexual encounters. Explain your feelings to your partner.

14. Your Partner

If your partner does not find porn arousing or exciting, do not try to force him or her into using it in your sexual encounters. Always respect your partner's choices.

15. Where?

There are several places where you can find porn. You can purchase it in a store, or find it on cable TV or on the internet.

16. Adult Book Stores

Adult book stores sell and sometimes rent porn. Finding the best video for you and your partner may take some time, so do a thorough search of the store.

17. Rental

Some adult book stores rent porn; but your best bet is to find a video rental place that rents porn. You can call and ask, or you can just go to the store. Porn videos are usually in a walled off place in the back of the store.

18. Purchase

Purchasing a porn video is a good idea if you have already found and watched one that excited you and your partner. They can be expensive, so be careful when buying one you have never seen.

19. Online

Looking online for porn is a great way to find it if you are embarrassed about purchasing it or renting it from a store.

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Do some research for porn you both like before the moment comes. Knowing what sites have the appropriate content saves you from spending too much time hunting.

21. Free

Do an internet search for "free porn". Modify this with whatever type of porn you want; for example, "free gay porn".

22. Subscription

Most internet porn sites require that you subscribe to the site to access their materials. Look at porn site reviews to determine if the site is worth your time and money.

23. When?

You can use porn in your sexual encounters whenever you want. It can be used as an added bit of spice, or it can be used regularly.

24. Special Occasions

Birthdays, holidays, and anniversaries are great times to try something new in the bedroom, and that includes trying porn!

25. Just For The Hell Of It

If you and your partner have already decided to try porn, surprise him or her with a porn video any time you want.

26. Every Day

Some people like to use porn regularly to spice up their sex lives and to add to the eroticism of the moment. However, try not to let porn be a crutch.

27. When The Kids Aren't Home

You should probably not use porn in your sexual encounters when your children are at home. The noise and the arousal factor could be

disturbing. 28. Why?

Using porn can really add a much needed boost to your sexual encounters when you and your partner have been together for a long time. Or it can be an experiment for newer couples.

29. Fantasies

Some people fantasize about having sex while other people are in the room. This allows that to happen but in a situation that can be stopped if a problem arises.

30. Arousal

It can be incredibly arousing to watch someone else have sex. This in and of itself is a main reason why many couples like to use porn.

128 31. Education

If you and your partner are interested in learning new techniques, porn can be a great tutor.

32. Experimentation

Experimentation in your sexual encounters with your partner can be overwhelming. Porn allows you to experiment in a controlled

environment. 33. How?

The hardest part for most couples is actually using the porn. The best way to do this is to have an open line of communication.

34. Introducing The Topic

Begin by introducing your partner to the idea of using porn in your sexual encounters. Explain your reasons and tell him or her how exciting you think it would be.

35. Discussion

Be prepared for a serious discussion with your partner about why you want to add porn and how you want to incorporate it.

Listen to your partner's opinions and concerns. 36. Opposition

You partner might be very upset or hurt by your suggestion. Listen to what he or she has to say and address his or her concerns.

37. Respect

Above all, respect your partner's final decision. If your partner doesn't want to use porn, do not force it on him or her.

38. Continuing Dialogue

If your partner is unsure about adding porn to your sexual encounters, keep the dialogue open for future discussions. Approach your partner again in a few weeks.

39. Watching

Watching porn together can be a very exciting thing even if you are not having sex. It can be a form of foreplay!

40. Listening

Listening to porn during foreplay can be very arousing. Hearing someone else's ecstasy could launch your own.

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Let your partner watch the porn while you perform oral sex on him or her. This can be very erotic, especially if the act on the screen is the act being performed.

42. Watching While Doing

Both you and your partner can watch the porn while you are having sex. Try to imitate the actions on the screens. See how long you can last while watching the porn.

43. Listening While Doing

Just having the porn on the TV while you are having sex is stimulating, even if you can't see the screen all the time.

44. Watching Then Doing

Watch the porn together while touching and fondling each other. Once the porn is over, ravage each other!

45. Internet Porn – Separately

If you have more than one computer, each of you go to your own computer and watch porn online. Then meet up and have sex. 46. Internet Porn – Together

Watching internet porn together is very exciting because you can select scenes and movies together and sit close to each other while you are searching.

47. Problems

Sometimes problems can arise from adding porn to your sexual encounters. These problems can generally be addressed quickly. 48. Changing Your Mind

If once you start the porn you realize that it is too uncomfortable for you, explain your feelings to your partner and turn the porn off right away. 49. Changing His/Her Mind

Your partner may change his or her mind after the porn has already started. Allow your partner to turn off the porn and then ask what was bothering him or her.

50. Distraction

Sometimes porn can be too distracting for the couple. If this happens, watch the porn first and then have sex.

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