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1. What?

Adding spice to your sexual encounters involves experimentation. Whether you are a strictly missionary-style couple, or you have done some kinky stuff, you can find something new to try.

2. Why?

Adding a little spice to your sexual relationship with your partner can reignite a flame of passion that you may have thought went out long ago. 3. Oral Sex

For those who have never tried it, oral sex can be a huge experimental step. Using your mouth on your partner's sex organs is intimate and erotic.

4. Cunnilingus

Cunnilingus is oral sex performed on a woman. A woman's partner will lick or gently suck her labia and clitoris to stimulate the woman and make her climax.

5. Fellatio

Fellatio is oral sex performed on a man. The man's partner takes the man's penis in his or her mouth, sliding the penis in and out to elicit and orgasm.

6. Masturbation – Him

A male partner in the couple can pleasure himself in front of his partner. This is a private act that, when performed in front of a partner is very erotic.

7. Masturbation – Her

A female partner will masturbate the way she does when she is alone while her partner watches. This is erotic and can be a learning experience for the partner.

8. Masturbation – Mutual

The two partners lie next to each other and assist each other in masturbation. Hands or sex toys can be used to do this.

9. Masturbation – Simultaneous

The partners lie next to each other and masturbate at the same time while watching each other.

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For those who have moved past the above activities, you can move on to trying different sexual positions for intercourse.

11. Sexual Positions

Try rear entry positions like "Doggy Style" or "Reverse Cowgirl". Try having the female partner get on top for "Reverse Missionary", or try a standing position.

12. For The Kinky

Once you and your partner are more comfortable with experimentation, you can move on to some other, more taboos activities.

13. Sex Toys

Using sex toys like dildos, vibrators, strap-on dildos, or anal beads can add an interesting and kinky aspect to sex. Plus, it can help when one partner has difficulties achieving orgasm.

14. Dirty Talk

During intercourse, graphically describe what you are doing to your partner or what you want to do to your partner. Ask if he or she likes what you are doing and what he or she wants.

15. Fisting

Anal and vaginal fisting are very intimate and intense forms of

penetration. Caution should be used since putting your entire hand inside your partner's vagina or anus can cause physical problems if it is not done correctly.

16. Anal Sex – Her

Anal penetration is very intense but also very gratifying. The penetrating partner uses his fingers, penis or a sex toy to penetrate the woman's anus.

17. Anal Sex – Him

Anal sex for men can be orgasmic since the prostate gland is stimulated during penetration. The man can be penetrated with fingers, a sex toy, or his partner's penis.

18. Phone Sex

Calling your partner just to talk can be even more fun if you talk dirty. Describe a sexual encounter with your partner on the phone while both of you masturbate.

19. Porn

Adding porn to your sexual encounter can be a great way to experiment safely. Find a type of porn you both enjoy and watch before or during sexual relations.

117 20. For The Adventurous

The following ways of adding spice to your sexual relationship may be over-the-top for some people. If you and your partner are very open in your relationship, try some of the options below.

21. Exhibitionism

There are three basic types of exhibitionists: those who like to be seen doing sexual things, those who like to be seen with their partners doing something sexual, and those who like to have sex in public places but do not wish to get caught.

22. Self-Display

For those who like to be naked in front of other people or who want to be seen doing sexual things, try leaving your bedroom windows open when you have sex, or perform oral sex on your partner in a crowded parking lot.

23. Couple-Display

For couples who like to be watched while having sex, try having sex in a parked car in a busy lot; or try having sex in front of good friends. 24. Public Sex

For those who like the thrill of getting caught without actually being seen, try a quiet public bathroom or a safe alley next to a bar or restaurant. 25. Voyeurism

If you and your partner like to watch other people have sex, try using porn during sex. Or, ask good friends to have sex while you and your partner watch.

26. For The Curious

Some couples have one partner (or both partners) who is curious about having sex with someone of the same gender. Include this in your sexual encounters with your partner.

27. Threesomes

Having a threesome is an exciting and erotic way to explore your sexuality. Find a third party for your tryst and go to it!

28. Man/Man/Woman

Two men and one woman can provide opportunities for male/male penetration and double penetration of the female.

29. Man/Woman/Woman

Two women and a man in a threesome give the woman an opportunity to perform sexual acts on another woman. Activities include lesbian sex, and simultaneous cunnilingus and penetration.

118 30. Man x 3

For gay men, having three men together can be very erotic and a great way to experience simultaneous oral sex and anal penetration.

31. Woman x 3

Threesome lesbian sex is a good way for lesbian couples to branch out and experiment.

32. Four Or More

If you and your partner have already experimented with a third person, add a fourth or even fifth. Generally, a foursome leads to two sets of partners that trade off during the sexual encounter.

33. Finding The Third (or fourth)

Find someone who is either a friend of yours and your partners, or find a stranger to join you. Be sure that you check a stranger's sexual history before inviting him or her to bed with you.

34. For The Imaginative

For those couples who have a little talent for acting or just have vivid imaginations, costumes and role playing can be a lot of fun.

35. Role Playing

Role playing involves both partners playing different parts that are not their normal professional roles. This can lead to taboo actions, such as sex between a "police officer" and a "criminal".

36. Cops & Robbers

One partner pretends to be a burglar and the other partner catches him or her in the act. The police officer says he will let the thief go if the thief performs sexual favors for him.

37. Boss & Employee

The employee approaches the boss for a raise. The boss responds by saying the employee can get a raise if he has sex with the boss on the boss's desk.

38. Doctor & Patient

The doctor comes into the patient's room and begins and examination, gradually becoming more and more sexual and ending in intercourse. 39. Nurse & Patient

The nurse comes in to give the patient a sponge bath. The sponge bath focuses on the patient's genitals and leads to sex.

40. Strangers

Go to a bar separately from your partner. Try to "pick up" him or her at the bar as if you were strangers.

119 41. Costumes

Using costumes for sexual encounters can make role playing more real; it can also add some simple spice to a regular sexual encounter.

42. Doctor/Nurse

Get a long white lab coat and don't wear anything under it. Or, find a nurse's uniform with a short skirt and thigh high stockings.

43. Catholic School Girl

Find a short plaid skirt and a button up white oxford shirt. Wear knee socks and penny loafers. Don't wear panties.

44. Cheerleader

Find a cheerleader's skirt and top. Buy some pompoms and wear athletic socks and tennis shoes. "Forget" to put on panties and jump around a lot.

45. Professional Athlete

Find a professional football or baseball player's uniform and put it on. Combine with the cheerleader costume and do some role playing. 46. Swinging

Some couples belong to clubs where the couples in the club swap spouses to have sex for one night. This can be devastating to your relationship, so discuss it thoroughly before trying it.

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