Capítulo 1. GENERALIDADES
1.6 Reglamentación
1. Why Kiss?
One of the lost arts of sex is kissing. Once a couple has been together for a long time, they tend to forget about kissing even though it is an
intimate and erotic act. 2. When To Kiss
You can kiss your lover or spouse anywhere, anytime, as long as it is tasteful. If you are looking for something a little more erotic, keep it private for the benefit of others.
3. In The Morning
When you first wake up in the morning, you may be worried about your breath; but if your partner wants a kiss, lay one on him or her. If you are concerned about bad breath, do a quick brush first.
4. Before Work
Before you leave for work in the morning, give your partner a kiss to say goodbye. This not only reassures your partner that you love him or her; it connects you for the rest of the day.
5. In The Afternoon
Giving your partner a quick kiss during the day can let your partner know you are always thinking about him or her.
6. After Work
A kiss hello after a long day at work can be a good way to reconnect before dinner and any other activities that are planned for your evening. 7. In The Bedroom
In the bedroom you can get a little more intimate with your kisses. Since this is often the only alone time that some couples get, make the most of it!
8. Who To Kiss
While you can kiss your children, your other family members or even friends, the kiss you give your partner is more intimate and can reconnect you after a long day or a fight.
9. Spouse
After you have been married for a while, kissing can fall by the wayside. Surprise your spouse with a long passionate kiss during a free, more private moment.
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While you and your lover probably have a lot of passion, you may be forgoing the intimacy of kissing. The next time you get together, start with some kissing before getting down to business.
11. Significant Other
When you first start dating someone, you probably kiss frequently. Don't let that fire burn out – keep the kissing alive, or rekindle it with a make out session before sex.
12. Where To Kiss
Kissing doesn't only involve the lips. You can kiss your partner anywhere; each place you try is more and more enjoyable for both of you!
13. Lip Smacker
A peck on the lips is intimate. But, if you want passion, try a lingering, open mouth kiss.
14. Cheek Smooch
While cheek kisses may seem impersonal, it is a great way to say thank you or to get a quick kiss in when the kids are around.
15. Erotic Kisses
Knowing just where to kiss your partner takes a lot of practice, but no matter if you are a novice or a master, erotic kisses are exciting and enjoyable.
16. Neck
Kiss along your partner's neck from his or her earlobe down to the
shoulder. Then work your way around the front go his or her neck to the other side and go up to the other earlobe.
17. Shoulders
Once you reach the base of your partner's neck, continue down along his or her shoulders. Kiss along the collar bone, or across the back of his or her shoulders from behind.
18. Chest
Kissing a man's chest doesn't need to be gentle. You can kiss hard in several different spots, or you can cover every inch with little kisses. Use your tongue, too.
19. Breasts
Kissing a woman's breasts takes patience and delicacy. Little, gentle kisses are perfect for the breasts. Feel free to use your tongue. 20. Hickeys
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Hickeys may sound like something that only high school girls need to worry about, but even adults get carried away. Before sucking on your partner's neck, get permission to leave a mark.
21. "Penguin Kisses"
A cute, childish way of kissing that is completely new and different for a lot of couples is "Penguin kissing", which is when you rub the tips of your noses together.
22. "Butterfly Kisses"
"Butterfly kisses" are a delicate, childish kiss that can be fun and flirtatious. Touch your eyelashes to your partner's and blink your eyes several times.
23. How To Kiss
Knowing how your partner likes to be kissed is something that you will need to learn on your own through trial and error. But there are some things that are generally appropriate.
24. Lips
Of course, using your lips is the way you kiss. Press your lips lightly to your partner's lips. You can add more pressure to the kiss as you get more comfortable.
25. Open Mouth Kissing
Press your lips to your partner's lips. Open your mouth a little and tilt your head to the side so that one of your partner's lips naturally slips between yours, and vice versa.
26. Tongues
Using your tongue in a kiss is often called "French kissing". While your lips are pressed to your partner's lips, open your mouth and touch your tongue to your partner's tongue.
27. Deep Tongue Kissing
Once you are comfortable with touching your tongue to your partner's tongue while kissing, open your mouth wider and gently lick or rub your partner's tongue with your tongue.
28. Teeth
Try to keep your teeth out of the way when kissing. Accidentally biting your partner's lip or tongue can be painful.
29. Spit Swapping
When you are kissing with open mouths or French kissing, remember that you and your partner are exchanging body fluids. Be sure both you and your partner are healthy as viruses can be passed this way.
123 30. Making Out
Making out is basically an extended kissing session that involves using your hands to caress and fondle your partner's body. Even if you are married, making out can be a fun throw-back to high school.
31. Quickies
If you and your partner don't have a lot of time to be together during the day, quick little pecks on the lips can be a great way to let each other know that you love each other.
32. Lipstick
Women wearing lipstick are often concerned about transferring it to their partner's lips or faces. Try long lasting lipstick, or wear a neutral color. 33. Chapstick
Chapstick and other types of lip balm are a great idea, especially if you are prone to dry lips. Kissing scratchy lips is never very fun.
34. Lip Gloss
Some women and even some men use lip gloss. Use clear lip gloss if you don't want color to transfer. Or, try flavored glosses to add a sweet surprise to your lips.
35. Your Face
Taking care of your face can have more of an effect on your kissing abilities than you know. Keep your face clean and hair free for your partner.
36. Shaving
Stubble on a man's face is very uncomfortable for most women. The stubble can rub your partner's face until it is red and almost raw when kissing lasts a long time.
37. Waxing
Some men and women like to get rid of excess facial hair by waxing their mustache areas. This is a good option, but remember that the hair has to grow back before it can be waxed again.
38. Close Your Eyes
When kissing, you may feel the desire to close your eyes. This makes a kiss more romantic and sensual.
39. Open Your Eyes
Opening your eyes during a kiss, or leaving your eyes open during a kiss makes the kiss more passionate and erotic.
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One of the biggest mistakes beginners make is drooling too much during kissing. Try not to let your mouth get too watery as slobbering on your partner is rarely a turn on.
41. Licking
Some people like to have their lips licked very lightly while they are kissing their partners. However, this can be distracting, so ask your partner before you try it.
42. Sucking
Sucking on your partners lips or tongue during kissing can be erotic, but some people find it uncomfortable. Ask your partner before trying it. 43. Sucking Lips
If you want to try sucking on your partner's lips, take one of his or her lips in your mouth and lightly suck on it for just a few seconds.
44. Sucking Tongues
During French kissing, take your partner's tongue in your mouth and suck gently on it for a second or two.
45. Breath
Bad breath is the scourge of the good kisser. If you are a smoker or if you have a history of bad breath, brush your teeth and gargle with mouthwash before kissing.
46. Mints
Breath mints can be a life-saving thing when you have bad breath on a date. Try to get sugar free mints, since sugar can cause your bad breath to return as soon as the mint is gone.
47. Gum
Use sugar free gum to combat your bad breath when you are anticipating a kissing session. Sugar free gum is better for your teeth and better prevents bad breath returning.
48. Gum – The Don'ts
When you are chewing a piece of gum, try not to start kissing while the gum is still in your mouth. Chances are good that your partner doesn't want your used gum in his or her mouth.
49. Sprays
Breath sprays can have a great effect on bad breath. Keep a small bottle in your pocket or purse so you have it handy at all times.
50. Public Displays of Affection
Many people find public make-out sessions to be a little raunchy. Try to keep passionate kissing out of public view.
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