D5-T2 Now, what I want to discuss briefly, is to go over first a summary of all these steps. If you look in the workbook, you're going to see a section that has a certain number of columns in it. You'll see on the left-hand side of the page there should be broken down into a certain series of steps. Again, this is one of these sections guys, where I want you to take the time to write stuff down in the workbook. Whether it's the first listen through, or maybe the second or third, it's important that you sit with the workbook, write this stuff down, fill in the areas of the graphic with stuff I tell, notes that you want to make that pertain to the way you process the information. It's important that you be engaged in the product in this manner. It's very important to your learning.
You're going to see there are certain number of columns. Those represent the various steps of the seduction process. I'm going to be giving you details, I want you to write down in each of those.
Sometimes I will explicitly say, you know, "write this down". Other times, it's going to be up to you to
decide (you know) what you want to write down, and what you don't want to write down. All of the words will be in the transcript, but I want you to have that sort of graphical representation of the
process for yourself And it's pretty basic. It shows you a certain number steps going across the page.
It's pretty basic, there. I did that for you, so it will be easy for you to recall in your mind. Okay? So again, follow along and write along in your book, at least one of the first time, you listen to the product. Okay? Let's review.
If you look at the process and the number of steps there, we're going to start off by giving you a brief summary of all the steps involved.
D5-T3 The first step is what I call step zero, and its called "living the life. " Step zero, living the life. Yes. This is you, designing a life that allows you to meet more women, that allows you to be sociable, to have women coming into your life. That's an important part of this, and it's important for you to
consider that in terms of the development of your skills and the application of your skills. So, in terms of it's time frame and a time element, it's the way you live all the time. We'll get back to that in a second, but first step is living the life.
D5-T4 Step 1 is "the opener". This is what people typically refer to as a "walk up" or an
introduction, a "gold walk up" or a "platinum walk up", "cold walk up", whatever you want it to
be. It's just a way to open a conversation with someone. Okay? It can last anywhere from 15 seconds, to 30 seconds, to 60 seconds. It's just a way to get somebody's attention initially and engage them in some sort of discourse or conversation. That's all, pretty basic, and a lot easier to do the most guys think. Yes, I know a lot of you have some fear and everything attached to that, but this step (step one) is just the opener, and we will get into that in just a few minutes. When we get into more details in various sections.
D5-T5 Now, Step 2 I call "get and keep attention". Step 2, get and keep attention. This is something where you are giving her a reason to talk to you and can last anywhere from one minute to, you know
about, let's say 15 minutes long, and it's basically... You are just giving her reasons to want to talk to
you for a while. Okay? You can do this in various ways, we'll get to that at a minute. But step 2 we're going to call "get and keep attention".
D5-T6 Step 3, the next one, we're going to call "direct conversation and ramp interest. Now, direct
conversation means you're going to be directing the conversation in a certain way, having it go in a way
that you want to go, and be able to create, and ramp up to the interest in a way that she is going to find you so interesting, that she may want to spend more time, or a special kind of time with you. And that's what we do at step three, "direct conversation and ramp interest". I mean that can take anywhere from, you know, 15 minutes, to two hours, or six hours or whatever. This might take place over multiple dates. It might be over the course of one evening. I am just giving you general time frames here, A way to think about it, but that's it, step three, direct conversation and ramp interest.
D5-T7 Step 4 is what I call "close", and I don't mean "clothes" in terms of something you wear. I mean, clothes C-L-O-S-E. This is typically, where, you actually engage in some sort of physical activity. Now I'm not going to make this some kind of seedy product. I'm not going to talk about where to put this hand, and how to kiss somebody, or whatever. There are tons of resources out there for that.
By close, I mean, for the most part, you end up kissing her. From that point, you are on your own. It's a little bit beyond the scope of this product that I'm doing today, but by step four I mean physical close, kissing her, or something like that. For title purposes, we will call it ^physical close.