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The Dream World Scenario, One Woman, One Shot, all the way through.
Too many guys try this approach. They wait around, spending too much time at home, too much time "thinking". They think they will study study study and practice practice practice. Then after all that work, they think they will find one woman, and do Step 1, and have it go well, and then move that 1 woman to Step 2, and have that go well, and then move that one woman to Step 3, etc. etc. etc.
It does not work that way! Here is the way it really works:
Look at how the second graph is laid out, pay special attention to the numbers on the "Y" axis (which means the number of women in this case, these are not factual numbers, they are just there to illustrate a point, ok?). See how for all the women at Step 0, only a certain number of them make it to Step 1? And then for the ones that make it to Step 1, then just a certain number of THOSE make it to Step 2?
THAT IS THE WAY IT WORKS IN THE REAL WORLD!
So what can and does learning these technologies do for you? Look at the arrows! What will happen is that the more you learn and use and really apply these teachings, the more women you will able to take
to each successive step (if that is your goal, of course). The "percentage" that you are then able to
move to successive steps of The Process will get better and better!
If your goal is to get as many women as you can to Step 4, then the more you start off with at Step 0 the better. And the better you are with these skills, the more women will make it through the steps! If your goal is not to get a lot of women to step 4, but instead to find one special woman for yourself, this applies as well. The more women that you can move to each step will allow YOU to have more of a selection, more options, more chances of finding that one woman that you may be looking for.
It ALL starts with Step 0. Any and all women that end up at Steps 1, 2, 3, 4, are ALL women that were a part of your life in some way, and all are woman that were at Step 0 at some point.
It all starts from there. And so should you.
So, you have 5 different options for Step 0, which will YOU start to make more a part of YOUR life?
If it is a singles group, great. They are there to meet people, I mean yeah, they might be there to taste wine, or take part in athletic events, or a charity, or whatever, but if it is a singles group, they are there to meet people! That's part of the reason they are there. Ok? The shields are down, it is so much better. I can't stress enough too guys that this is a viable way to do that. A lot of guys do not think along these terms. But, get the paper. Get the newspaper, get that little "artsy" paper, that maybe is released once a week in your area—look for things that are going on. Look for events. Ok? This might be a chance for you to open up a whole new life for yourself.
I know a lot of guys that go "boy, I always wish I was able to do this... I wish I had the time to do that ... Or spend time at this kind of activity... ". Hey, maybe now is the chance. Maybe now is a great time and a great opportunity, or a great excuse, for you to do those sort of things. Ok?
The other thing—random. If you are a busy guy, and you are living your life, great. Now it might be
difficult to develop your skills in a random fashion, or using the random approach to meeting people, but
it is an option and you know, you can always have your eyes and ears open for opportunities and to meet somebody, if you happen to be out there.
It tends to be a great option for you if you are already skilled. It tends to not be a great option if you want to develop skills, because it's random.
And again the fifth option is the internet, more and more a viable option for many guys. Maybe for you, maybe not. Looks are a factor, but you know what? I know guys that (hey) they are no Mel Gibson, they are no Brad Pitt, but they definitely had success in that venue. But, it is based upon your own beliefs. If you think you are not going to be successful, you won't, and if you are impatient or anything like that, the internet can be challenging well. But it is an option for you. So...
D5-T25 Step zero, live the life. Get out there. Meet some people. Have fun. Whether you've already got the skills and you just need more people to work with; whether you're learning the skills, listening to this product and others, and you need people to practice on and to be more comfortable with—to be more comfortable around... In any of these examples, look at these options.
I urge you, create the life that you want to have. Have the people in it that you want to be in it. Spend time with the people that you want to spend time with. This is all going to help you to become the person that you want to be. And if that is different than the kind of person that you are, that's great. Remember, a big part of this, a big part of this product, and the things we are talking about, is that we are not just learning about a woman's mind, we are learning about you and yourself and how to make this work. We want to change your life and help you make things better—this is all about application—getting you out there, getting you moving. Ok?
It might seem a little weird at first. It is like getting that car rolling, and putting it into first-gear. Ok? Getting it rolling is the hardest thing to do. Getting yourself moving to start is the most difficult thing to do. But this can be your chance. Those are some options for you.
Step zero, get out there, make it happen. Start to meet more people, and you are going to find your
skills going up, and your success happening more and more. Good luck.