7. DETERMINACIÓN DE LOS MODELOS CONCEPTUALES DE FUNCIONAMIENTO DE
7.1.1. Modelo conceptual
7.1.1.1. Piezometría y funcionamiento hidrodinámico
what’s possible."
Well, similar to that the series of muscles that are in the vagina and all the nerves that are related to those muscles, if you get the spasms out and get it to relax where the muscles can get blood flowing and all that instead of being tense, then all of a sudden – another thought’s coming into my mind here too about Kegels…we’ve got to talk about Kegels, it’s real important –
Grant: I want to stay focused on this for a second now. Did you want to say
something else there?
Steve: Well, basically what you want to do is you want to make sure that you get the spasms out, because if the muscles are relaxed it will engorge, both on the outside like in the vulva outside the vagina, and on the inside of the vagina.
Grant: So you’re saying it’s really an internal massage. Steve: Yeah.
Grant: Ok, and now we’re talking about the G spot, which is just if you hook your
finger up inside –
Steve: Well, it’s not just the G spot. Before I even get to the G spot I do the side walls, I do what they call the crest of the cervical cap –
Grant: Alright let’s talk about that. Let’s talk about what exactly do you do to the
side walls? You massage the side walls pretty vigorously I’ve noticed.
Steve: Guys go, “God, do you hate women?” and women go, “I bet that would feel good.” See I do focus groups. I’m even working with these pro volleyball players down in L.A. It’s like so funny, man.
The thing about doing focus groups with the videos is yeah the women are showing up, but they aren’t having very good orgasms and they’re there to find out why.
Grant: You know one of the things you said, just
to take a step back, when I asked you what you do you said, “I teach women who think their pussies are dead how to wake them up.”
I just want to step back. All this talk, I mean a lot of women think that they can’t even orgasm regularly, much less ejaculatory orgasms. So this is a gift. This is really not something just for
fun. You really open women to what’s possible, and something you learned is that a lot of women really don’t know that much about their own vaginas.
Steve: Yeah, I even teach lesbians how to be better lovers with their lesbian lovers. You know that five years ago on the DSM-IV and in the Canadian Medical Journal there were five new, they call them diseases, for women that were anorgasmic, they couldn’t have orgasms.
When they went in to study these related issues, what they found was women would learn how to fake an orgasm because that way they could keep their male or female partners still there. “Well, even if I have a dead pussy..” – I mean I hear this over and over from women.
This doesn’t mean I’m a mean ass of a guy. They go, “Even though I have a dead pussy, if I fake it real good she’s not going to know the difference or he won’t know the difference, and that way we can still have a semblance of a normal life or we can have all the other parts of a life, like a home and all these other things.”
Grant: Well, this is what we’re definitely trying to avoid in this community, I’ll tell
you that.
So I want to get back to how do we make sure they have great orgasms. So you said first you work the side wall of their vagina. So if they’re lying on their back, what is it that you recommend people do in terms of working side walls?
Steve: Ok, first of all you’ll see on the video there what I’ve done. I have a bolster underneath her butt. Now people think I do it just so I can get more height out of her. What it’s doing is it’s forcing – now that girl that’s in the video came to me and she goes, “I hope you’re not wasting your time, because my thing – it doesn’t work.”
And this is a girl that’s 23 years old. I just go, “No, no, no. First of all we’re changing that. Here’s the deal. You’re never calling that thing a thing again. From this point forward, I’m going to give it a name and in 24 hours if you don’t have a prettier or a cuter name, it’s going to stay this name.”
Grant: What did she end up – Steve: I called it koochie.
Grant: Ok, well let me ask, what did you do to koochie on the sides?
Steve: On the sides, I put her legs up. I moved her back and you have to start smooth. You have to introduce yourself, because most girls aren’t used to having something jammed in and out, right? And keep vibrators out of there, guys. I mean I’m really opposed to it because it numbs out the dendrites, the nerve endings and stuff.
Steve: We’re on the sides and she’s belly up, like her tits are up at you. You put the legs back and then as you go in you put two or three fingers in and gently go up and down, so like her clit would be 12 o’clock.
So you go from 12 o’clock down to the 6 o’clock position and you just keep rubbing smoothly and increasing pressure. Then you go to the other side and you start gentle pressure and start just slowly adding more pressure on.
Grant: And it’s really well lubricated.
Steve: Grape seed oil. We use grape seed because it’s high in vitamin E, and we use avocado and walnut oils. They have a very good viscosity. They’re absorbable vitamins so it’s good for the muscle tone, even though it’s an internal muscle. It’s still good for the muscles.
So basically then what we do is we come down and say her clit is right there at 6 o’clock. What I’ll do then is I’ll put two fingers in what we call just straight out and I’ll start doing like a figure 8 or an infinity sign, pushing down on the nerves that run on that posterior fornix.
It’s the thin skin lining and there’s incredible amounts of nerves that run up through there and it runs right up on this side of the wall as well.
When you start moving the figure 8 on the bottom side there, you may find that she starts talking Chinese and stuff to you. That means keep doing it. I mean translated it usually translates, “Thanks, Steve. You’re such a wonderful guy. Can you keep doing that a little bit more?”
Grant: Ok, so that’s massage. And then you said something about massaging
the spasms inside. I’m a little curious about that. You talked about massaging the cervical cap, is that what you said? You’re actually going –
Steve: It’s called the crest of the cervical cap. Basically it’s like as soon as you reach – I don’t know how much you guys have reached inside vaginas, but I’ve reached into a lot of them.
Anyway, when you reach in there’s a little crest before it goes down into the cervical cavity where the cervix is resting down there.
Anyway, if you move all the way around and just palpate around, several girls will start orgasming right there because it’s a part that most guys and other girls totally avoid.
But there’s a lot of nerves. Like where the crest is some of them will actually have like a lip that goes into that little cavern inside there.